used to see this girl in campus last year.
Matched w her on tinder. Told her that I’ve seen her. she wished that I talked to her. I deleted tinder.
This month, I kept seeing her so I approached her twice, she smiled and told me she’s busy doing hw.
The next day, an officer came to talk to me because she reported me as a stalker.
I’m worried about my safety. Should I transfer college?
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Thread: She thinks I’m stalking her
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10-18-2020, 09:27 AM #1
She thinks I’m stalking her
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10-18-2020, 09:28 AM #2
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10-18-2020, 09:44 AM #3
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10-18-2020, 10:36 AM #4
I’ve no intention to talk to her at all.
The problem I’m scared to run into her weather on street, dining hall,coffee shop and so on. We pretty much have the same lifestyle.
I think she has never been outside her family house and never socialized. She thinks I’m stalking her bc we run to each other a lot
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10-18-2020, 01:57 PM #5
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10-18-2020, 02:04 PM #6
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10-18-2020, 03:38 PM #7
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10-18-2020, 04:48 PM #8
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10-18-2020, 04:49 PM #9
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10-18-2020, 05:39 PM #10
That sucks OP.
I'd say calmly approach her and tell her y'all don't need to be acquaintances but what she did was unnecessary and in the future all she needs to do is tell someone she's not interested rather than going to extreme measures for no reason. Then end on a good note and wish her good luck the rest of the semester or something.
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10-18-2020, 06:45 PM #11
Hi, going to talk to her will never happen.
When I approached her, she was smiling and told me she’s busy writing paper, I said good luck and left. Even though she came to the coffee with her seeing me sitting there.
The next day, I was sitting on dining hall waiting my food, when she entered, I approached her and told her I’m sitting there if she wants to eat.
Told me she has paper to write. I told her good luck and left.
She reported me
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10-18-2020, 06:48 PM #12
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10-18-2020, 07:20 PM #13
Hi, life will teach this girl a hardcore lesson. This is my 5th year and she’s in her second. I’m pretty sure she never dealt with guys before that will never take no for an answer.
If she gave a hint, I’ll take one. But She never said don’t talk to me or leave me alone. Reported me directly.
I don’t care about her now, I care about my safety. I hear horror stories from guys getting accused and their life goes down bc of women.
Going home I believe is the best option. Incase this girl accuses me I’m not around her. I never had social media communication with her which is good.
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10-18-2020, 07:29 PM #14
I tried to talk to the officer again, he was really really understanding and he said she was having emotional breakdown and scared. He told me not worry about anything and just leave her alone and never speak to her even if I run into her.
I believe him, but I don’t feel safe seeing this girl at all. She might accuse me later on or something
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10-19-2020, 01:49 AM #15
U r right. However it’s not my job to fix the world nor how she thinks. Also it’s not my responsibility to warn the other guys of her mental issues.
I don’t think she’s Feminist nor any type of this movement. I’m sure she is not used to talking to people and never had experience to interacted with guys before.
With her behavior, she is most likely to run into serious problems with guys specially her using hookups apps. She lost her credibility by reporting me in the first place which didn’t make sense at all
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10-19-2020, 08:43 AM #16
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10-19-2020, 09:09 AM #17
Since last year, before I even match w her on tinder, I feel like someone watching me & when I turn, it’s her staring at me. I get really strange vibes from her.
When We matched, I said that I’ve seen her. she wished that I could’ve said hi & talked to her. She denied seeing me though but told me I was a cute!
When I respectfully approached her by running into her, she didn’t say She never told me to leave her alone or whatso.
Completely reported me. Like wtf.
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10-19-2020, 09:15 AM #18
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10-19-2020, 09:34 AM #19
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10-19-2020, 11:33 PM #20
get a gf fast, and when she sees you with a girl, no way she can say anything. sucks man, that's garbage for sure. Hate it when the girl is all horny and stuff and then charges you with rape later. gives me the same vibes as your story man...
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10-19-2020, 11:55 PM #21
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10-19-2020, 11:59 PM #22
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10-20-2020, 10:01 AM #23
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10-20-2020, 10:03 AM #24
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10-20-2020, 10:04 AM #25
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11-20-2020, 03:50 AM #26
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11-20-2020, 04:01 AM #27
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11-20-2020, 05:28 AM #28
have you talked to her at all since then?
you cannot win this with the campus police as a straight male vs a straight female. Show up to the station in womens clothes as a gender non conforming and hopefully youre not white but if you are try to atleast come off as mixed something. Then tell them she is harassing you because youre gender non conforming and you feel compelled to report her to the LBTGQI+ alliance.
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11-20-2020, 09:22 AM #29
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11-20-2020, 09:44 AM #30
There's more to this thsn you're telling us, cops don't get involved just cos you said "hi" a couple times.
Yes you should go home to your parents, just on the basis of your comments in this thread you lack social skills and would be a lot safer at home.
Also stop staring at her. Its creeping her out.
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