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[xpin2winx]

Chit dude. Sounds like a complete train wreck who sampled the boner buffet too many times. You should be glad that you didn't waste your time meeting her.

Yeah, seems to me like shes either crazy or its some crazy fat chick whose catfishing people for dink pics

[Legz422]

i broke up with my gf of 3 years and I signed up on bumble. I matched up with a really average looking chick. I think shes a catfish, but im not entirely sure.

Cliffs
- match up with average 5-6/10 looking chick
- she asks me how tall I am and says my 5'9" is too short for her unless i have a huge dink (red flag I think, what average chick says this right away)
- Anyway, i tell her to text me, and we start texting and shes complaining about never finding a guy with a big enough dick. So I send her the evian bottle copy pasta
- So i ask her to meet up for coffee and she says she would be down, but then says I have to prove that I have a big dink.
- Say not gonna happen before we meet up, and she gets pissed
- She says we should video chat, but she doesnt answer
- She says we should talk on the phone first but she sounds like fat. (the first time i called her it went to voicemail and it was a textnow app(not her real number?))
- I found a girl with her name and picture on ******** and tell her on the phone to add me on ********.
- She goes no contact.

Debating whether or not to message that ******** asking if it was her or if someone was catfishing with her pics.

I'd say something is very weird about that. Either a catfish or trying to get you to do stuff on video to blackmail you with.

[randomuser12345]

Boys and girls i want to know your honest opinion. I think all this videos of handsome guys inviting girls for sex and putting next to 0 effort into conversations on pair with all the stories on misc about same thing made me jaded af.
How can i trust girl if she doesn't want to sleep with me on 1-2-3 date when everyone got it so ez. Now i'm constantly thinking about how girl sucking Chad off after we've met for a coffee. How they just using me for attention when they are bored.
And i just can't pull it like you do guys. Only once girl came to me straight up and twice after 1st date. In a mfing 3 years of using apps.
I'm jaded, lonely and unsatisfied with major trust issues.
Halp

[redliner9]

Boys and girls i want to know your honest opinion. I think all this videos of handsome guys inviting girls for sex and putting next to 0 effort into conversations on pair with all the stories on misc about same thing made me jaded af.
How can i trust girl if she doesn't want to sleep with me on 1-2-3 date when everyone got it so ez. Now i'm constantly thinking about how girl sucking Chad off after we've met for a coffee. How they just using me for attention when they are bored.
And i just can't pull it like you do guys. Only once girl came to me straight up and twice after 1st date. In a mfing 3 years of using apps.
I'm jaded, lonely and unsatisfied with major trust issues.
Halp

Trust has nothing to do with going on a few dates.

The point is that if you arent escalating along the way, she going to assume you aren't interested in being intimate.

Dont chat for days without setting a date! Get to the point and ask to meet asap.

[randomuser12345]

But why would i even want to go on dates when everyone it seems can just invite girl over.

[redliner9]

But why would i even want to go on dates when everyone it seems can just invite girl over.

That really depends on your area and age range.

Since most ppl look nothing like their pics, I really prefer to meet someone out first.

[Luc1fer]

But why would i even want to go on dates when everyone it seems can just invite girl over.

But why do you just keep whining

[randomuser12345]

But why do you just keep whining

Cos god knows i've tried to change it, but i can't and it devours me from inside.

[MediocreGains]

i broke up with my gf of 3 years and I signed up on bumble. I matched up with a really average looking chick. I think shes a catfish, but im not entirely sure.

Cliffs
- match up with average 5-6/10 looking chick
- she asks me how tall I am and says my 5'9" is too short for her unless i have a huge dink (red flag I think, what average chick says this right away)
- Anyway, i tell her to text me, and we start texting and shes complaining about never finding a guy with a big enough dick. So I send her the evian bottle copy pasta
- So i ask her to meet up for coffee and she says she would be down, but then says I have to prove that I have a big dink.
- Say not gonna happen before we meet up, and she gets pissed
- She says we should video chat, but she doesnt answer
- She says we should talk on the phone first but she sounds like fat. (the first time i called her it went to voicemail and it was a textnow app(not her real number?))
- I found a girl with her name and picture on ******** and tell her on the phone to add me on ********.
- She goes no contact.

Debating whether or not to message that ******** asking if it was her or if someone was catfishing with her pics.

Should've stopped there.

[Legz422]

Boys and girls i want to know your honest opinion. I think all this videos of handsome guys inviting girls for sex and putting next to 0 effort into conversations on pair with all the stories on misc about same thing made me jaded af.
How can i trust girl if she doesn't want to sleep with me on 1-2-3 date when everyone got it so ez. Now i'm constantly thinking about how girl sucking Chad off after we've met for a coffee. How they just using me for attention when they are bored.
And i just can't pull it like you do guys. Only once girl came to me straight up and twice after 1st date. In a mfing 3 years of using apps.
I'm jaded, lonely and unsatisfied with major trust issues.
Halp

I'm no virgin and I've had casual sex, but I've never gone from a dating app straight to a strange guys place to have sex nor have I had a guy come straight over for sex. You're either not finding slutty enough chicks or you're just not good looking enough to get away with that.

[mcboo2]

i broke up with my gf of 3 years and I signed up on bumble. I matched up with a really average looking chick. I think shes a catfish, but im not entirely sure.

Cliffs
- match up with average 5-6/10 looking chick
- she asks me how tall I am and says my 5'9" is too short for her unless i have a huge dink (red flag I think, what average chick says this right away)
- Anyway, i tell her to text me, and we start texting and shes complaining about never finding a guy with a big enough dick. So I send her the evian bottle copy pasta
- So i ask her to meet up for coffee and she says she would be down, but then says I have to prove that I have a big dink.
- Say not gonna happen before we meet up, and she gets pissed
- She says we should video chat, but she doesnt answer
- She says we should talk on the phone first but she sounds like fat. (the first time i called her it went to voicemail and it was a textnow app(not her real number?))
- I found a girl with her name and picture on ******** and tell her on the phone to add me on ********.
- She goes no contact.

Debating whether or not to message that ******** asking if it was her or if someone was catfishing with her pics.

No comment on the other stuff. We're the same height though and I just put my height and weight on every dating app. This avoids alot of this bs. Though i have been catfished a few times that's prob unavoidable lol

[Mr Beer]

But why would i even want to go on dates when everyone it seems can just invite girl over.

What Miscers say and what women are actually like are not the same thing.

[FemaleWarriorxo]

Catching feelings for the classmate We stayed up all night snapping each other. Which is something I don’t usually do. Oh lawd.

Idk if I could be serious with a 21yo

[Luc1fer]

Catching feelings for the classmate We stayed up all night snapping each other. Which is something I don’t usually do. Oh lawd.

Sounds like something a 21yo would do

[FemaleWarriorxo]

Sounds like something a 21yo would do

Lmao pretty much. I personally dislike it usually but feels got involved

Just oh no

[Legz422]

Catching feelings for the classmate We stayed up all night snapping each other. Which is something I don’t usually do. Oh lawd.

Idk if I could be serious with a 21yo

Well, aren't you only like 23? I don't think I'd have that much of a problem with a 2 year age difference. Obvi would be better if it were the other way, but hey, some people are more mature than their age.

[Luc1fer]

Well, aren't you only like 23? I don't think I'd have that much of a problem with a 2 year age difference. Obvi would be better if it were the other way, but hey, some people are more mature than their age.

Oh ye I almost forgot she was only 23. Definitely seems more mature than most 23yos, so not surprised she dates older.

Most guys that age are certainly not gonna be ready for marriage.

[Legz422]

Oh ye I almost forgot she was only 23. Definitely seems more mature than most 23yos, so not surprised she dates older.

Most guys that age are certainly not gonna be ready for marriage.

True. And not a good idea at that age anyway.

[FemaleWarriorxo]

Oh ye I almost forgot she was only 23. Definitely seems more mature than most 23yos, so not surprised she dates older.

Most guys that age are certainly not gonna be ready for marriage.

Love that you and mama legs are keeping me at 23 Only a year off lol

Yee. I am more mature than the average 24yo. Always have been. I didn’t go through a boy crazy faze, or anything in school. Education, religion, and helping family/friends are the main things I focused on. Which most people find odd. Even one of my oldest brothers do. They expect me to be out partying and acting like an imbecile. Not what I’ve wanted for my life.

But yes, that’s why I date older. Usually they meet my mentality and morals. Most guys my age are still in that partying stage and don’t want to take anything serious. Which makes me cringe as someone that is the polar opposite of that. So usually I stick with 28+.

[twovalvekid]

Not sure why but moved back to VA about 2 months ago and this weekend downloaded stuff again. Is the boost/spotlight crap on tinder and bumble still the same logic? Meaning, best during like MWF around 8pm?

[Legz422]

Love that you and mama legs are keeping me at 23 Only a year off lol

Yee. I am more mature than the average 24yo. Always have been. I didn’t go through a boy crazy faze, or anything in school. Education, religion, and helping family/friends are the main things I focused on. Which most people find odd. Even one of my oldest brothers do. They expect me to be out partying and acting like an imbecile. Not what I’ve wanted for my life.

But yes, that’s why I date older. Usually they meet my mentality and morals. Most guys my age are still in that partying stage and don’t want to take anything serious. Which makes me cringe as someone that is the polar opposite of that. So usually I stick with 28+.

Lol Well, that's a good thing to always be a year younger!

Not sure why but moved back to VA about 2 months ago and this weekend downloaded stuff again. Is the boost/spotlight crap on tinder and bumble still the same logic? Meaning, best during like MWF around 8pm?

No idea but good luck boyo!

[twovalvekid]

lol well, that's a good thing to always be a year younger!



No idea but good luck boyo!

here goes!

[redliner9]

Not sure why but moved back to VA about 2 months ago and this weekend downloaded stuff again. Is the boost/spotlight crap on tinder and bumble still the same logic? Meaning, best during like MWF around 8pm?

Never tried Boost but I notice the most activity (responses) on Friday and Sunday evening.

Some say you need boost since its about an 70/30 split of men vs women on the apps.

[twovalvekid]

Never tried Boost but I notice the most activity (responses) on Friday and Sunday evening.

Some say you need boost since its about an 70/30 split of men vs women on the apps.

That's what ive heard. And....we all know how things work. Most women can get a match with just about every swipe. So you kind of have to be on the top of the food chain to even be seen.

[brightbrah]

Never tried Boost but I notice the most activity (responses) on Friday and Sunday evening.

From what I've heard and seen, most activity is on Sunday evenings.

[NitrogenWidget]

From what I've heard and seen, most activity is on Sunday evenings.

that was my experience as well.
never paid for anything either.

[Luc1fer]

Not sure why but moved back to VA about 2 months ago and this weekend downloaded stuff again. Is the boost/spotlight crap on tinder and bumble still the same logic? Meaning, best during like MWF around 8pm?

Sunday evening, ye. But nothing compares to being a fresh signup.

[redliner9]

Sunday evening, ye. But nothing compares to being a fresh signup.

Lol, i forgot about the- delete account every 2 weeks and sign back up approach.

[twovalvekid]

Lol, i forgot about the- delete account every 2 weeks and sign back up approach.

I thought they pretty much programmed this out?

Sunday evening, ye. But nothing compares to being a fresh signup.

Yeah, that's the truth. It was months since i had the app (easily 7-8) so everything blew up sunday when i got it.

[Luc1fer]

Yeah, that's the truth. It was months since i had the app (easily 7-8) so everything blew up sunday when i got it.

Because you're a Chad!