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    You've either gotta move out or just not disclose that. No decent guy is gonna settle for a woman that's living with her ex husband.

    We had a chat on the topic, where I surfaced my exact concerns in the interest of being fort-right and honest. I'll disclose further info in time.
    And I totally understand where you're coming at when it comes to sexual history for marriage and children. I had only been with my husband and no one else when we got married. I've seen the ones who stay married have low partner count before marriage. My friends were never slooty (or came out that way) as it was shameful back in my day in the 80s and 90s.

    Now of course it's the complete opposite, kind of how it was like in the 60s and 70s. Women brag to other women about their sexual conquests.

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    Originally Posted by DustinTheHuss View Post
    The 52 year old is messaging me, but still only through Bumble sporadically and it doesn't show his location near his beach house.

    He said he had a good time skiing with his ex-wife.

    Hmmmmmmmm, the plot thickens.
    Ugh, not sure why you give him the time of day, but I also understand it's nearly impossible to put myself in your shoes so I respect that you're trying so hard.

    I enjoy living vicariously though you guys in this thread. I think online dating can become a drug of sorts...at least it was for me pre Covid-19. I'm finding myself really missing the things I did in my previous LTR with the "Lifestyle". Don't get me wrong, I do love my fiancé, but I got spoiled playing around with multiple partners; something I had never done in my entire life up until 2018.

    Anyway, I suppose the grass is always greener applies here.

    Oh, and it's good to be back from Icemageddon here in Houston. Didn't have power for three days and then was under a boil water order for days after.
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    Originally Posted by bustasinclair View Post
    Ugh, not sure why you give him the time of day, but I also understand it's nearly impossible to put myself in your shoes so I respect that you're trying so hard.

    I enjoy living vicariously though you guys in this thread. I think online dating can become a drug of sorts...at least it was for me pre Covid-19. I'm finding myself really missing the things I did in my previous LTR with the "Lifestyle". Don't get me wrong, I do love my fiancé, but I got spoiled playing around with multiple partners; something I had never done in my entire life up until 2018.

    Anyway, I suppose the grass is always greener applies here.

    Oh, and it's good to be back from Icemageddon here in Houston. Didn't have power for three days and then was under a boil water order for days after.
    I give him the time of day because the pickings are slim, and I live with my ex-husband so it's not like I'm in a better situation. He and his ex may be trying to be friends given their daughter. I can totally relate. I'm still looking around, though.

    Still, it's nice to not be obsessed with him.. I used to get obsessed with the younger guys as they're so hot and text me a lot. Meaningless drivel, as Lucy would say.

    Yes, you can live vicariously through us ITT. The grass isn't always greener, as many of us which we had a steady partner who was caring and there for us through thick and thin. It gets lonely dating, even though I live with others, they're always upstairs and I'm downstairs and don't have the social network of coworkers or tennis friends now.

    Oh no, that's right you got hit with those terrible storms in Houston! I know so many people who were affected, especially on here. No power and boil water? Das not it mane.
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    What do you think is better for a single guy?
    1. 28yo broke with 8/10 looks, by 38 is well off with 6/10 looks.
    2. 28yo broke with 6/10 looks, by 38 is well off with 8/10 looks.
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    Originally Posted by bustasinclair View Post
    Ugh, not sure why you give him the time of day, but I also understand it's nearly impossible to put myself in your shoes so I respect that you're trying so hard.

    I enjoy living vicariously though you guys in this thread. I think online dating can become a drug of sorts...at least it was for me pre Covid-19. I'm finding myself really missing the things I did in my previous LTR with the "Lifestyle". Don't get me wrong, I do love my fiancé, but I got spoiled playing around with multiple partners; something I had never done in my entire life up until 2018.

    Anyway, I suppose the grass is always greener applies here.

    Oh, and it's good to be back from Icemageddon here in Houston. Didn't have power for three days and then was under a boil water order for days after.
    I felt completely the opposite lol. This thread made me grateful I am married.
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    Originally Posted by Luc1fer View Post
    What do you think is better for a single guy?
    1. 28yo broke with 8/10 looks, by 38 is well off with 6/10 looks.
    2. 28yo broke with 6/10 looks, by 38 is well off with 8/10 looks.
    this is silly.
    almost every good looking guy i knew back in my 20's was just as good looking in his 40's and banging women much younger than them.
    which is probably why most of them are divorced in their early 40's.

    the only outliers were the dudes who let themselves go but they still had a good face and did not have a problem getting women.

    the only way an average dude can increase his looks without surgery is to get in shape.
    If you are already in shape your looks probably won't get any better as you age.
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    Originally Posted by Luc1fer View Post
    What do you think is better for a single guy?
    1. 28yo broke with 8/10 looks, by 38 is well off with 6/10 looks.
    2. 28yo broke with 6/10 looks, by 38 is well off with 8/10 looks.
    I pondered this for a few minutes and I really don't see a difference. Part of the problem for me is that I don't really know what either a 6/10 nor an 8/10 dude looks like, but it seems there wouldn't be too much difference.
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    Originally Posted by mCheech View Post
    I felt completely the opposite lol. This thread made me grateful I am married.
    I could see that happening too, lol. It just takes me back to my online dating days. I never faced most of the issues addressed ITT.
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    As I have been off the misc for a few weeks, I thought I would give an update.

    I am in a relationship with the Russian girl who I went on a few Tinder dates with towards the end of 2020. Helped her out when she had Covid, spent some weekends together and now we are here.

    There are lots of things I can expand on, but I am happy with her. I have never been able to been able to openly communicate like this with someone. She is direct with me, and is fine with it that I am like that with her as well.


    The functioning of my dick is questionable though. No problems with getting and keeping erections but its like I am nervous to cum with her.
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    Originally Posted by witblitz550 View Post
    As I have been off the misc for a few weeks, I thought I would give an update.

    I am in a relationship with the Russian girl who I went on a few Tinder dates with towards the end of 2020. Helped her out when she had Covid, spent some weekends together and now we are here.

    There are lots of things I can expand on, but I am happy with her. I have never been able to been able to openly communicate like this with someone. She is direct with me, and is fine with it that I am like that with her as well.


    The functioning of my dick is questionable though. No problems with getting and keeping erections but its like I am nervous to cum with her.
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    Originally Posted by NitrogenWidget View Post
    this is silly.
    almost every good looking guy i knew back in my 20's was just as good looking in his 40's
    SS and Dustin would wildly disagree with you.

    Also, my looks are way better since 15 years ago. It’s been confirmed by multiple women.
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    Originally Posted by Luc1fer View Post
    SS and Dustin would wildly disagree with you.

    Also, my looks are way better since 15 years ago. It’s been confirmed by multiple women.
    I would disagree with him for most men as I see guys from my high school who were hot and now it's like yikes.

    My ex keeps looking better as time goes on. He looks better at over 55 than he did in his 20s. I really messed up as I wasn't attracted to him that much then as he was skinny and had a mullet. I make sure I tell him he looks better than most 30 year olds and he just gives me a weird look.
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    Originally Posted by bustasinclair View Post
    I could see that happening too, lol. It just takes me back to my online dating days. I never faced most of the issues addressed ITT.
    I never experienced online dating, got married before it was a mainstream thing. It just sounds like people have so many options, I'd imagine people always feel like they can do better. I am already an overthinker, so this would likely drive me bonkers.
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    Originally Posted by Luc1fer View Post
    SS and Dustin would wildly disagree with you.

    Also, my looks are way better since 15 years ago. It’s been confirmed by multiple women.
    did you have a chubby face or a skinny face and change in BF% occurred?
    did they specifically say your face or they found you more attractive because of the person you have become?
    I've never seen anyone just get better looking without some kind of change to their BF% and muscle mass.


    so now SS and dustin are the benchmark?
    Time to take a break from the forum. lol


    Originally Posted by DustinTheHuss View Post
    I would disagree with him for most men as I see guys from my high school who were hot and now it's like yikes.

    My ex keeps looking better as time goes on. He looks better at over 55 than he did in his 20s. I really messed up as I wasn't attracted to him that much then as he was skinny and had a mullet. I make sure I tell him he looks better than most 30 year olds and he just gives me a weird look.
    If i go through my FB page the men and women from highschool that were just that much better looking than everyone else are still that much better looking than everyone else while pushing 50 for the most part.
    because they kept in shape.

    Then there are the people who partied too hard most of their life or let themselves go and they look like chit.
    i'll agree some are still in shape but it's like their genetics gave out and they look pretty Grimm. buts thats the minority.

    of those people who weren't that good looking some are because they either lost weight or were super skinny and gained weight.

    Edit: don't you live in cali? Sun can definitely play a part in someone's looks if they get too much of it.
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    Originally Posted by Luc1fer View Post
    What do you think is better for a single guy?
    1. 28yo broke with 8/10 looks, by 38 is well off with 6/10 looks.
    2. 28yo broke with 6/10 looks, by 38 is well off with 8/10 looks.
    What is the difference between 6/10 and 8/10? I cannot tell the difference.

    Also, what type of women are you going for? I assume that 8/10 would help with competition if going for really hot young women with lots of options.

    Originally Posted by NitrogenWidget View Post
    this is silly.
    almost every good looking guy i knew back in my 20's was just as good looking in his 40's and banging women much younger than them.
    I don't think Luc1fer has a problem with getting younger women. But is he getting the type of younger women that he wants?

    Originally Posted by bustasinclair View Post
    I pondered this for a few minutes and I really don't see a difference. Part of the problem for me is that I don't really know what either a 6/10 nor an 8/10 dude looks like, but it seems there wouldn't be too much difference.
    same here

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    As I have been off the misc for a few weeks, I thought I would give an update.

    I am in a relationship with the Russian girl who I went on a few Tinder dates with towards the end of 2020. Helped her out when she had Covid, spent some weekends together and now we are here.

    There are lots of things I can expand on, but I am happy with her. I have never been able to been able to openly communicate like this with someone. She is direct with me, and is fine with it that I am like that with her as well.
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    Originally Posted by Luc1fer View Post
    What do you think is better for a single guy?
    1. 28yo broke with 8/10 looks, by 38 is well off with 6/10 looks.
    2. 28yo broke with 6/10 looks, by 38 is well off with 8/10 looks.
    For kicks, I dug up a pic from when I was 28 and broke and one where I was 40 and not so broke, lol. No idea whether I'm a 6/10 or an 8/10, but I did put on a good amount of muscle.



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    Originally Posted by bustasinclair View Post
    For kicks, I dug up a pic from when I was 28 and broke and one where I was 40 and not so broke, lol. No idea whether I'm a 6/10 or an 8/10, but I did put on a good amount of muscle.



    So went from big ears, glasses, jew fro goober to Sean Michaels. GJDM.
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    Originally Posted by NitrogenWidget View Post
    did you have a chubby face or a skinny face and change in BF% occurred?
    did they specifically say your face or they found you more attractive because of the person you have become?
    I've never seen anyone just get better looking without some kind of change to their BF% and muscle mass.


    so now SS and dustin are the benchmark?
    Time to take a break from the forum. lol




    If i go through my FB page the men and women from highschool that were just that much better looking than everyone else are still that much better looking than everyone else while pushing 50 for the most part.
    because they kept in shape.

    Then there are the people who partied too hard most of their life or let themselves go and they look like chit.
    i'll agree some are still in shape but it's like their genetics gave out and they look pretty Grimm. buts thats the minority.

    of those people who weren't that good looking some are because they either lost weight or were super skinny and gained weight.

    Edit: don't you live in cali? Sun can definitely play a part in someone's looks if they get too much of it.
    Yeah I’m in Cali and a lot of people have wrinkles from it. The sun is terrible when it comes to aging. It’s why I always wear a hat.

    The women are more likely to get Botox and color their hair to help with the aging process.

    A lot of the men (and women) gained a lot of weight from high school. I was happy to go to my reunion with a new physique with muscle. When I went to my 25 year reunion I went alone, so I was surrounded by the soccer guys and then women just gave me dirty looks. I was in better shape then though as I was non natty and not as exhausted all of the time as I am now. I’m making a change this year though now that I have the green light to work out.
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    Originally Posted by bustasinclair View Post
    For kicks, I dug up a pic from when I was 28 and broke and one where I was 40 and not so broke, lol. No idea whether I'm a 6/10 or an 8/10, but I did put on a good amount of muscle.



    Wow!! You went from Timothy to Chad!
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    Originally Posted by Kev1972 View Post
    So went from big ears, glasses, jew fro goober to Sean Michaels. GJDM.
    Cracking me up over here. I think my hair in that pic is an optical illusion. My hair was pretty short, but it does look like an afro, lol. Pic was taken with an actual cheap-a$$ disposable camera by my GF at the time laying on the floor.

    Had to google Sean Michaels....still not sure who that is. In the last several years, I get John Cena the most as celebrity look-a-like.

    Originally Posted by DustinTheHuss View Post
    Wow!! You went from Timothy to Chad!
    Haha, I don't even know what that means.

    Fast forward to age 44 and you have my best physique of my life. I hate seeing pics like this as it makes me realize I gotta up my game and get back there...

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    Originally Posted by bustasinclair View Post
    Cracking me up over here. I think my hair in that pic is an optical illusion. My hair was pretty short, but it does look like an afro, lol. Pic was taken with an actual cheap-a$$ disposable camera by my GF at the time laying on the floor.

    Had to google Sean Michaels....still not sure who that is. In the last several years, I get John Cena the most as celebrity look-a-like.



    Haha, I don't even know what that means.

    Fast forward to age 44 and you have my best physique of my life. I hate seeing pics like this as it makes me realize I gotta up my game and get back there...

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    Luci, I was thinking of you today, as I always do. Would you date a woman that doesn't workout? watch her diet? would you consider dating a woman who is even slightly overweight? I've heard you speak a lot about your standards but for the most part you talk about personality traits and values, not physical traits.
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    Originally Posted by NitrogenWidget View Post
    the only way an average dude can increase his looks without surgery is to get in shape.
    If you are already in shape your looks probably won't get any better as you age.
    Finding the right style/hair/facial hair can also help.
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    Luci, I was thinking of you today, as I always do. Would you date a woman that doesn't workout? watch her diet? would you consider dating a woman who is even slightly overweight? I've heard you speak a lot about your standards but for the most part you talk about personality traits and values, not physical traits.
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    Originally Posted by NitrogenWidget View Post
    did you have a chubby face or a skinny face and change in BF% occurred?
    Face leaned out, plus better hairstyle.

    Originally Posted by SwimLiftRunGrl View Post
    What is the difference between 6/10 and 8/10? I cannot tell the difference.
    Whether you'd fuk on the first date.

    I don't think Luc1fer has a problem with getting younger women. But is he getting the type of younger women that he wants?
    Nope, where are these unicorns?

    Originally Posted by mgftp View Post
    Luci, I was thinking of you today, as I always do. Would you date a woman that doesn't workout? watch her diet? would you consider dating a woman who is even slightly overweight? I've heard you speak a lot about your standards but for the most part you talk about personality traits and values, not physical traits.
    I'd expect her to be and stay in shape, within reason. Doesn't have to be 'into' fitness particularly, but should care about her body and have the discipline to exercise/restraint. Obviously everyone gains a few pounds here and there, though.

    But I wouldn't date a "fat" girl I think, unless we vibed IRL or something and I overlooked it through personality attraction. But it's definitely a filter.

    I think it's more of a mindset thing. People with a certain mindset tend not to be fat, so it's still related to personality.
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    Originally Posted by bustasinclair View Post
    For kicks, I dug up a pic from when I was 28 and broke and one where I was 40 and not so broke, lol. No idea whether I'm a 6/10 or an 8/10, but I did put on a good amount of muscle.



    Wow big transformation between 28 and 40. Good job! I like both pics.

    You definitely do look like John Cena at 44. Do you get people asking you for autographs?

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    Whether you'd fuk on the first date.
    Well then there is no difference to me then because that is a turn off.

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    Nope, where are these unicorns?
    If it was that easy to find one then they are not called unicorns. Since most people here knows you pretty well via your posts maybe someone here can set you up with a unicorn.
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    Originally Posted by SwimLiftRunGrl View Post
    If it was that easy to find one then they are not called unicorns. Since most people here knows you pretty well via your posts maybe someone here can set you up with a unicorn.
    Are you a unicorn?
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    Originally Posted by SwimLiftRunGrl View Post

    If it was that easy to find one then they are not called unicorns. Since most people here knows you pretty well via your posts maybe someone here can set you up with a unicorn.
    Hahaha yup there are many 20something women in my adventure club near Lucy and this 60 year old lady that I know knows them well since she drives them places so I could ask her about the single ones? I know one who did the pumpkin carving next to me is slim and pretty and talked about how a guy in the club gave her his number when she wasn't interested.

    I'll find out more as the 60 year old and I are driving together to the kayaking trip this weekend.

    There were a few who said they were feminists, so I won't even think about them for Lucy. I think they got fired, anyhow, as they were group leaders and besides being feminists, they were also doing drugs. They are definitely no bueno for Lucy.

    My other friends are older and all taken.

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    - On Nextdoor there is this Indian married man with kids who is obsessed with me. He saw my photo in one of the comments about football and keeps messaging me. Since he's a neighbor I didn't want to block him or create anything where he could stalk me at the house. Now he added me on LinkedIn and messages me there. He looks like he's some executive but I'm not interested at all. I had another Indian executive from LinkedIn offer to pay for trips for me and him around he world, yet I declined. I ignore a lot of his messages and just respond sporadically. Should I just block him?

    - On Instagram some kid DM'd me about hooking up him and he said he'll be 18 in 2 months??!! Strong wtf that is horrid and illegal. I think SS posted that she checks drivers licenses. I bet there are horny teens under 18 frauding on these dating apps.
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    I ignore a lot of his messages and just respond sporadically. Should I just block him?
    How about you stop responding
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    Originally Posted by Luc1fer View Post
    How about you stop responding
    Yeah I was worried if I didn't respond or block he might be crazy and try to find my house, as Nextdoor says the street I live on, but not the exact house number.

    People are weird I swear, especially married men. They are the ones who hit me up on social media to have affairs the most. Ugh. No I don't want some dude who is still sleeping with his wife and will never leave her.
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