Mostly the northern part of Cali but I will probably venture out lol
Yeah. Most liberals are that way. One of the reasons why I shut it down right away. Luckily most liberal men are push overs and stop right away. Sad tbh. They really don’t understand that it is so unattractive for a man to allow a woman to walk over them. Well. Anyone lol
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02-21-2021, 10:21 PM #1681⋆100+ lbs down⋆ ✦5’10”✦
〜(^∇^〜)HW 360lbs - CW 172lbs(〜^∇^)〜
Always taking a hiatus ಥ_ಥ
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02-21-2021, 10:23 PM #1682
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02-21-2021, 10:34 PM #1683
1. You literally gave an example of going to a woman's place on a first meet, and the context was also about initial meets.
2. It's all related. You asked why I'd lose respect for her, or for allowing her boobs to be groped. Going to a guy's place on a first date is inviting sex. Let's not beat around the bush here, we're talking about sexual activity with someone you barely know.𝕮𝖍𝖆𝖘𝖊 𝖆 𝖈𝖍𝖊𝖈𝕶, 𝖓𝖊𝖛𝖊𝖗 𝖈𝖍𝖆𝖘𝖊 𝖆 𝖇𝖎𝖙𝖈𝖍
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02-21-2021, 10:40 PM #1684
1: yes I’ve gone to a woman’s place I don’t really know. This happens thousands of times a day in the world, and what’s happening? Not much. More people are harmed in relationships than one nights stands or hookups or blind dates combined I bet.
2: sex, sure. Some people like to have it and don’t need to be in a relationship to do so.
I don’t spend any time thinking about this stuff dude. People can do whatever they want as I don’t make the rules. There is no rules.6'2
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02-21-2021, 10:56 PM #1685
1. It's honestly baffling that you think there's no problem with a girl going to a strange guy's place for an initial meet. Would you really be okay with your daughter doing that? And it's the same for relationships, a person needs to be responsible with whom they stay with.
2. But I'm not allowed to discriminate based on her sexual activity and preferences? I've stated my reasoning.
I don’t spend any time thinking about this stuff dude. People can do whatever they want as I don’t make the rules. There is no rules.
You are claiming I should not discriminate based on a woman's level of promiscuity, or what I (reasonably) consider irresponsible behavior.𝕮𝖍𝖆𝖘𝖊 𝖆 𝖈𝖍𝖊𝖈𝕶, 𝖓𝖊𝖛𝖊𝖗 𝖈𝖍𝖆𝖘𝖊 𝖆 𝖇𝖎𝖙𝖈𝖍
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02-21-2021, 11:07 PM #1686
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02-21-2021, 11:13 PM #1687
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02-21-2021, 11:48 PM #1688
Some, sure. But most? Unless you're only counting guys who refer to themselves as male feminists and put their pronouns in their profile, I wouldn't go that far. I'm fairly moderate, but I still lean left.
Besides, most of the misc is conservative. You only have to look at the regular misc and the relationship help section to know that spinelessness transcends politics. It's more common with the far left and the SJW types, but they're hardly the norm. Well, maybe in the Bay Area to some extent, but that's their home base.
You're making a false equivalency. One of the benefits of being a man is that the worst thing to fear from meeting a strange woman online is that she's fatter than in her pictures.
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02-22-2021, 03:13 AM #1689
Yes I know my audience here on the Misc. I'm moderate so I swing both ways, because I was raised Irish Catholic Democrat, I started off as liberal and became more conservative with age.
If you work at a tech firm in Seattle or the Bay Area it would be career suicide to say you voted for Trump (that's the worst thing to say) or that you're Republican. Srs. Not saying I am these.
But the Misc. is the only place I can laugh about profiles from men that say they are Feminist, as I've seen this in several profiles. I also see "BLM", or swipe left if you voted for Trump.
Keep in mind that I did not see one single Trump sign in this election. I saw a few in 2016. He is hated where I live, but loved on the Misc. Go figure.
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02-22-2021, 03:33 AM #1690
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02-22-2021, 08:26 AM #1691
so my chick friend who was dumped is blowing me up.
trying to rationalize why he dumped her so suddenly ect.
I had to slap her with some truth which was basically telling her he decided he didn't want to be with her anymore for whatever reason, that if he loved her he never would of broke up with her no matter how much he had going on in his life.
I also told her to stop obsessing about why because since he blocked her on everything she will never get closure.
she isn't talking to me anymore.
which is fine.
I'm tired of listening to her re-hash the same chit hourly.
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02-22-2021, 08:36 AM #1692
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02-22-2021, 08:51 AM #1693
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02-22-2021, 08:53 AM #1694
there was something on FB about a chick to watch out for around here who will either rob you or have her BF and his friend rob you when you meet.
legit early 20's trailer trash but looked hot from the pics.
so i doubt some dude in his early 20's is thinking about anything other than them sugar walls when she invites him over.
apparently dudes didn't say anything because they were too embarrassed.
but eventually someone went to the police.
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02-22-2021, 08:54 AM #1695
Why do you always make these quips and then dodge us when we call you out?
It's not productive nor helpful when it comes to a dating thread.
I think you from outside of the US, so it could be a language barrier.
Still, even if you block someone, give the reason and then block them. That's what I did a couple of months ago.
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02-22-2021, 08:58 AM #1696
idk i just move on if a chick ignores me.
even one i'd been dating for a while.
had a chick ghost me after 6 months without warning.
she didn't respond to my text and i knew so i moved on.
she isn't any crazier than the average woman.
I think he blocked her because he went from "I love you" in person to "good luck" over text in a matter of two days and was in duck and cover mode. lol.
i'd expect a brick through my window or their family beating my ass if I pulled that chit on a woman.
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02-22-2021, 09:02 AM #1697
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02-22-2021, 09:04 AM #1698
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02-22-2021, 09:17 AM #1699
I’ve never been one to think or call women crazy. I was raised by my mom and I had a younger sister. I was never exposed to crazy women in my life. Something has changed though in the last 10 years and I can’t exactly determine what it is. I’m not sure if it’s from social media, men that have made women crazy, actually crazy women or something else.
Some of women’s online behaviours these days are out of control. I can only speak to my male perspective but when a woman doesn’t seem to get what she wants she can lose her mind.
To re-cap some others in this thread that didn’t like my responses to some people’s decisions on women’s actions making them marriage material or not here is your answer: everyone in life learns and grows differently. The perfect person that’s done everything right doesn’t exist and very often people that can appear this way can be a complete mess inside. It can be overbearing to always be trying to operate your life based on what family and others think. So, if a girl went to a guys house and had sex with him because that’s what she wanted then so be it. This doesn’t downgrade them to an undateable sloot some men would think. Maybe this was an experience she needed or to feel free for once I don’t know. Men also need to handle themselves in a way that makes them comfortable as well. Rules are not different. Did I always think this way? Nope, but I grew up.
Or if she’s had a one night stand, or casual sex or all the other things some men cannot handle. It’s 2021, finding these old school traditional women that have never desired something or someone outside of a relationship are few and far between. If you even find one, you might not like other attributes about them or they may not like your life choices. Life is much better being less uptight and more well-rounded. But again, I could not care less what someone else’s life choices are as it doesn’t affect me in the slightest.
To answer another member here: would I be happy if my high school daughter was going to random guys houses and banging them? Nope. I would hope I’d do a better job educating her in this area. I’d prefer she was having sex with a boyfriend if anything and valued and learned about intimacy this way. Learned about relationships like I did growing up.6'2
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02-22-2021, 10:10 AM #1700
An aside, but this aligns to your progressive liberal position on women's behavior, and being an apologist for it.
To re-cap some others in this thread that didn’t like my responses to some people’s decisions on women’s actions making them marriage material or not here is your answer: everyone in life learns and grows differently. The perfect person that’s done everything right doesn’t exist and very often people that can appear this way can be a complete mess inside. It can be overbearing to always be trying to operate your life based on what family and others think. So, if a girl went to a guys house and had sex with him because that’s what she wanted then so be it. This doesn’t downgrade them to an undateable sloot some men would think. Maybe this was an experience she needed or to feel free for once I don’t know. Men also need to handle themselves in a way that makes them comfortable as well. Rules are not different. Did I always think this way? Nope, but I grew up.
Or if she’s had a one night stand, or casual sex or all the other things some men cannot handle. It’s 2021, finding these old school traditional women that have never desired something or someone outside of a relationship are few and far between. If you even find one, you might not like other attributes about them or they may not like your life choices. Life is much better being less uptight and more well-rounded. But again, I could not care less what someone else’s life choices are as it doesn’t affect me in the slightest.
Literally nobody ITT has said a woman that's had casual sex in her lifetime is undateable. I am saying it's an undesirable trait to be promiscuous, or irresponsible (and going to a guy's place on initial meet fulfills that).
To answer another member here: would I be happy if my high school daughter was going to random guys houses and banging them? Nope. I would hope I’d do a better job educating her in this area. I’d prefer she was having sex with a boyfriend if anything and valued and learned about intimacy this way. Learned about relationships like I did growing up.𝕮𝖍𝖆𝖘𝖊 𝖆 𝖈𝖍𝖊𝖈𝕶, 𝖓𝖊𝖛𝖊𝖗 𝖈𝖍𝖆𝖘𝖊 𝖆 𝖇𝖎𝖙𝖈𝖍
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02-22-2021, 10:29 AM #1701
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02-22-2021, 11:16 AM #1702
It’s exhausting to have your inconsistent positions challenged. That’s a standard feeling with thought progression. I “grew up” out of your current liberal phase by my mid 20’s.
Stage 1: Blindly follows cultural tradition and rules.
Stage 2: Rejects them in the name of progressive thought, in some cases becoming anti-traditionalist.
Stage 3: Recognizes the value (and inherent wisdom) of some of those traditional values and rules (via logic).
You’re at stage 2.Last edited by Luc1fer; 02-22-2021 at 11:21 AM.
𝕮𝖍𝖆𝖘𝖊 𝖆 𝖈𝖍𝖊𝖈𝕶, 𝖓𝖊𝖛𝖊𝖗 𝖈𝖍𝖆𝖘𝖊 𝖆 𝖇𝖎𝖙𝖈𝖍
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02-22-2021, 11:48 AM #1703
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02-22-2021, 02:13 PM #1704
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02-22-2021, 04:47 PM #1705
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02-22-2021, 05:13 PM #1706
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02-22-2021, 08:23 PM #1707
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02-22-2021, 08:28 PM #1708
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02-22-2021, 08:36 PM #1709
I know. My dating life has been a troll job for years.
It's too bad, as he looks great for 52 and seems like the greatest catch from the surface: attractive, financially successful, shares interests with me, etc.
I know, I know, I need to suck it up financially and live on my own before I can find someone of value. Pseudo monkey branching doesn't seem to work for me and I'm not getting any younger.
Did you talk to the lady you are dating yet?
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02-22-2021, 09:02 PM #1710
You've either gotta move out or just not disclose that. No decent guy is gonna settle for a woman that's living with her ex husband.
We had a chat on the topic, where I surfaced my exact concerns in the interest of being fort-right and honest. I'll disclose further info in time.𝕮𝖍𝖆𝖘𝖊 𝖆 𝖈𝖍𝖊𝖈𝕶, 𝖓𝖊𝖛𝖊𝖗 𝖈𝖍𝖆𝖘𝖊 𝖆 𝖇𝖎𝖙𝖈𝖍
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