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Thread: Matches have pretty much died ³
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02-26-2021, 04:50 PM #1801
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02-26-2021, 04:56 PM #1802
Is it better to stop dieting and develop curves over the muscle, as I’m like I’m a natural DD now with hips.
I no longer look like the woman in the pic but I looked like a less muscular version of her awhile ago.
My cat is only 13. That’s so young as my other 2 recently died at 16 and 17.
I’m sorry about your dogs. They are all such a big part of the family.
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02-26-2021, 07:56 PM #1803
thanks! i have to admit that while i've been with a lot of women in my day, this one is causing me to really stop and think a little. I stopped dating a while ago because i was so sick of settling for women who just werent giving me exactly what i need and always felt like I was coming down on what i want out of someone. after 3 dates, this one is just a tier above what i would normally get and i'm pretty into things. going to take it easy and see where it goes and just operate as i normally would, but i'd be lying if i said that it wasn't in the back of my mind that i'd like this one to go very far if things continue the way they are. definitely has a different feel to it, but i know that is probably a lot of the new shine talking. we will see. feeling really good right now though, and excited to keep seeing where it goes.
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02-27-2021, 12:05 AM #1804
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02-27-2021, 12:09 AM #1805
I had my daughter when I was 33, so that makes sense. You need some time to travel and be together as a couple before you have a baby. Then hopefully this dumb pandemic will be in better shape so you don't have to worry about pregnancy during a pandemic. I have a friend who is expecting and it's a nightmare. She definitely married a TurboChad and I'm taller than he is, as I lift next to him in the gym.
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02-27-2021, 06:35 AM #1806
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02-27-2021, 09:07 AM #1807
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02-27-2021, 09:30 AM #1808
Well that's not a look that I aspire to have. I gave my trainer a photo of a woman who was competing in figure as my goal. I was just trying to be realistic, as I do have much larger traps, deltoids and lats than most women. Guys will say it's the first time they've seen that in a woman in bed.
They will caress my arm and go wait, look at those shoulders. I don't get comments of disgust.
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02-27-2021, 12:27 PM #1809
I didn’t realize that lesbians have a hard time on dating apps also. A few of my lesbian friends stated it’s hard to figure out who is actually a lesbian or a straight woman that wants attention.
Didn’t belief so I deleted my dating account and made a new one to accept both genders. Matched with 8 women in a row. 6/8 of those women were straight women lmaoo
Now I see why some men struggle with online dating. Holding up conversations SUCK⋆100+ lbs down⋆ ✦5’10”✦
〜(^∇^〜)HW 360lbs - CW 172lbs(〜^∇^)〜
Always taking a hiatus ಥ_ಥ
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02-27-2021, 12:29 PM #1810
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02-27-2021, 12:34 PM #1811
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02-27-2021, 01:49 PM #1812
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02-27-2021, 02:25 PM #1813
- Join Date: Feb 2009
- Location: Houston, Texas, United States
- Age: 49
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That was an interesting video. I can't help but wonder if those results are exclusive to certain dating sites? The only app I ever used was Match and of course I had dozens of no replies, but I just shrugged them off as fake profiles or whatever. I had a lot of success with Match, but maybe I just got lucky.
Some of the women I dated:
1) School teacher
2) Geophysicist
3) School Counselor
4) Veterinarian (surgeon)
5) Marketing Consultant
6) Mortgage Lending Officer
7) Auditor
Can't think of a few others, but that video makes it look like it's impossible to get a woman to go out with you. Shrug
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02-27-2021, 02:31 PM #1814
I think it’s just due to majority of women like to be in denial lol
I’ve been ghosted by women on bumble for that also. Most women on there just want to grow their social media following. One of the reasons why I stopped. Luckily I can still join student organizations lol⋆100+ lbs down⋆ ✦5’10”✦
〜(^∇^〜)HW 360lbs - CW 172lbs(〜^∇^)〜
Always taking a hiatus ಥ_ಥ
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02-27-2021, 02:53 PM #1815
You did Bumble BFF? That's ridiculous if they are on there to grow their social media following! They probably advertise their OnlyFans on their social media, too. Student organizations are great. I found that the groups in my classes were helpful, but I was a business major, so we had a lot of group projects.
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02-27-2021, 03:10 PM #1816
Yep, I did. A lot of younger women are like that. It’s honestly hard to find genuine women lol had my BFF of 10+ yrs dump me because her bf didn’t like me. However, she stays in my brothers DM’s. It is what it is.
Student organizations are the best. I’m so thankful for them tbh lol
Also my niece was born yesterdaymy brother called me right away and stated she looks just like me lul she truly does. Like I told him, she will be my baby and they’ll hardly see her lmaooo
⋆100+ lbs down⋆ ✦5’10”✦
〜(^∇^〜)HW 360lbs - CW 172lbs(〜^∇^)〜
Always taking a hiatus ಥ_ಥ
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02-27-2021, 03:37 PM #1817
I'm sorry about your BFF
That's terrible about a boyfriend.
Congratulations on your niece! I love being an aunt and spoiled my nieces and nephews. The nephew is still young. Enjoy babies as they are so cute, and as an aunt you can always give hand them back to the parents when they are colicky and crying!
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02-27-2021, 07:06 PM #1818
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02-27-2021, 07:15 PM #1819
Pondus posted a pic of "me" in my thread on the Misc about dating older guys. Just lol.
I love how a Miscer said that he has a notebook with stickies in it writing out analysis of all of the posts that SS and I write.
He analyzed "ManwittaPlan"'s handwriting on some online app and it came out as a female. He messages me and I can tell that he is a he!
In other news that 8/10 Bumble guy who messaged me for sex unmatched men after I turned him down.
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02-28-2021, 11:56 PM #1820
While on the adventure of the lesbian dating profile. I’ve noticed sooo many women posting half nude photos while promoting their premiums
love this new age of dating
BRB girl has heart emojis over her nips as her second photo. Match just to tell her that her unmade bed is distracting from the twins. Which it truly did. The perfectionist in me picks apart peoples backgrounds in photos. Something that I need to break⋆100+ lbs down⋆ ✦5’10”✦
〜(^∇^〜)HW 360lbs - CW 172lbs(〜^∇^)〜
Always taking a hiatus ಥ_ಥ
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03-01-2021, 12:01 AM #1821
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03-01-2021, 12:17 AM #1822
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03-01-2021, 08:27 AM #1823
It seems like the hot guys cold approach in South Florida the most. They're tan and have that "boat" look. They told me I looked like a lost tourist lol.
I only experienced it here in the gym and when I was meeting one of my FWBs and I stayed the weekend in a beach motel. The front desk guy gave me his cell number. He wasn't super hot though, but still it was a nice compliment.
Maybe you have to be a woman alone and look like a tourist for them to approach.
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03-01-2021, 08:40 AM #1824
I'm glad some women are wising up to the whole dating app problem. It doesn't help that most states are still in semi lockdown which makes meeting anybody in person so much harder. The last girl who I dated said she wished she could meet somebody in the grocery store. She admitted that it was impossible though especially with the pandemic. I hate to sound like EOD but dating apps atleast tinder and bumble were alot better a few years ago. Hinge is decent still but other than that it's creating a huge problem.
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03-01-2021, 08:45 AM #1825
LOL about sounding like EOD. Poor guy, but he vouched that I'm a real woman as he's seen me on cam so he helped my callout thread on the main Misc.
Yeah I'm in a state in lockdown still. It wasn't like it was easier before lockdown as I only went to tennis league and most of the men were married. Most of the young guys I dated from the gym matched with me from a dating app! Then they said "I've always seen you in here" and we went from there. idk why they didn't just cold approach me.
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03-01-2021, 08:49 AM #1826
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03-01-2021, 08:56 AM #1827
Well I think it's even more so since I'm 20 years older than the guy, so he's even more intimidated. The biggest part is the embarrassment if she says she's married or has a boyfriend.
Dating apps are annoying and full of flaky people. I don't know a single person who is in a relationship from someone they met on a dating app. Most have met at work. That was a BAD MOVE when I dated from work.
I thought my adventure club would be a good place to meet other men, but apparently they kick men out of the club for approaching women as the women complain about it. I bet if Chad cold approached they wouldn't complain.
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03-01-2021, 09:31 AM #1828
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03-01-2021, 10:19 AM #1829
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03-01-2021, 11:56 AM #1830
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