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Thread: Matches have pretty much died ³
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10-01-2022, 12:46 PM #6301
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10-01-2022, 01:28 PM #6302
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10-01-2022, 03:32 PM #6303
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10-01-2022, 04:46 PM #6304
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10-05-2022, 09:40 AM #6305
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10-05-2022, 04:09 PM #6306
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10-06-2022, 11:25 AM #6307
Update:
Remade the same plans from last Friday for this Friday (tomorrow). Checked in today to make sure we're still good and as expected she canceled. Saying she "forgot I had to baby sit my niece and nephew tomorrow night and don't want to cut it too close." It took her 2.5 hours to respond and asked if I was available for coffee on Sat or Sun but frankly I dont even care to respond. I could add some side notes here to you guys but dont want to come off any type of way. Just going to bail out.
Think im going to remake my Tinder. I just cut off 12" of hair (donated it of course) about 6 weeks ago and look soooooo much better now and have far better pictures. Problem is I "missed out" on 9+ months of potential matches. Probably going to look into making a Hinge account as well.
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10-06-2022, 11:42 AM #6308
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10-06-2022, 12:21 PM #6309
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10-06-2022, 09:36 PM #6310
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10-06-2022, 09:48 PM #6311
Just had a date and would love your interpretations of how this unfolded.
Met for drinks at a fun Restaurant that is also a gin/vodka/ other stuff distillery. Fun time but she was hard to read. She is cute and had a good demeanor overall. At first I thought it went really well, good vibes and convo..but it was up and down.
Here’s me just overthinking. She did order a second drink when we could have left.. part of me thinks that’s great because she was having g a good ass time, other part says maybe she wanted a free drink. but she also gave me a quick hug when I walked her to her car, not a long hug so I didn’t go for a kiss. I walked back to my car thinking it went OK, but did it really go that well not sure..
Anyways I texted her asking if she got home, she said yes and “ yes! It was great meeting you! Good way to roll into Friday”
I told her definitely I had a fun time and I’d like to see her again soon.
She replied “Yes, that sounds good !”
What do you all think? Does her saying it was “great meeting me” mean she isn’t interested and let’s leave it there type of thing. Also I’m used to interested girls responding with more enthusiasm than “yes that sounds good”. Let me know and for the record I’ve been drinking so apologies if I ramble.
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10-06-2022, 11:01 PM #6312
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10-07-2022, 05:36 AM #6313
Oh tinder is by and large a cesspool. And I’m not looking for hook ups, quite the opposite. The only reason I “like” or use tinder is because it’s by far the most used app. Just gotta weed through the trash.
Sounds like it went well! Don’t overthink it. Hopefully she texts you in the next couple days but if not follow up with her, she how she’s doing and try to plan another date.
I typically try to plan a second date on the first date when things are going well.
Agreed with all this.
Short few weeks until snowboard season starts bruh!
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10-07-2022, 06:46 AM #6314
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10-07-2022, 07:42 AM #6315
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10-07-2022, 07:52 AM #6316
I think it sounds like she is interested. She's prob waiting for you to ask her out again. I always liked it when things were going well and the guy would say right there during the date that he'd like to see me again. Took out all that wondering afterwards. If you're having a good time on a date and feel like you're clicking maybe start saying that and ask her availability right then and there.
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10-07-2022, 09:18 AM #6317
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10-07-2022, 11:15 AM #6318
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10-08-2022, 01:34 PM #6319
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10-08-2022, 01:36 PM #6320
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10-08-2022, 01:42 PM #6321
True brah I feel the same way about tinder. Sometimes a total waste and bad for your mind but it’s true you can luck out and find someone decent mixed in there.
I agree I’ll stop overthinking. I doubt she’ll text first she seems like the type who will want to be pursued, like most girls. I may try that more often with scheduling during our date..It didn’t come naturally during the date this time.
Gonna text her end of weekend or Monday to set up a date.
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10-08-2022, 01:50 PM #6322
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10-08-2022, 02:26 PM #6323
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10-09-2022, 01:53 PM #6324
I haven't been able to date as I was caring for my Mom and Aunt who were hospitalized and we just lost my Aunt to kidney failure. I just can't deal with men. My Aunt was without food or water for 4 days when I went out of town as the caregivers didn't do their job but she fought it out for 3 more weeks. Plus the hospital treated her like crap so she begged me to move her to another hospital and they told me they were transferring her to a trauma center to deal with her failing kidneys but they didn't and then she died. Major **** ups all around.
At least I saw her hours before her death and she I told her I loved her.Make It a Great Day! Just call me Dusty. It's a Clown 🤡 World out there.
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10-10-2022, 04:03 AM #6325
after 14+ months of using the apps for dates and chit... all its gotten me is laid quite often w/ no continuing ongoing situation.
its leading me to conclude that sloots dont want love, they just want to be a sperm bank.PUREBLOOD CREW
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10-10-2022, 06:49 PM #6326
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10-10-2022, 09:04 PM #6327
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10-11-2022, 06:39 AM #6328
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10-11-2022, 07:13 AM #6329
Sorry to hear brah. Pretty childish of her to not even respond.
This is just my experience so take it as you want...Any girl ive dated from apps, whether it was for just a couple months or the longer term relationships, I never had to guess if she was into me or not. We clicked right away after the first date and started communicating daily and setting up our next dates which would always be within 3-7 days. Like I posted a while back if a girl is into you she is going to make time to see you and vice versa. Communicating with her will be easy. She'll respond back in a timely manner and progress the conversations. No "texting games" and no "maybe i can see you this day". It'll be easy...for the both of you. Again that's just my experience.
Given the amount of options 99% of girls and some guys have, they aren't going to continue dating unless there was an instant connection.
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10-11-2022, 10:47 AM #6330
A lot of time you have to spend some time with a person in order to find out whether you actually like them or not.
Yes 1st impressions are very important.
That person could have been a good match if you spent some actual time together.
Though there are times when you may hit it off initially but they turn out to be not the right person for you.
I'm just saying it takes time.Financial Freedom/Passive Income Crew
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