Matches have pretty much died ³

[Legz422]

It's weird because my therapist thinks that some guys would be OK with getting in a LTR with me while living with my ex.

The 59 year old said that he is OK with it, but I think it's because I'm so much younger than he is that he is desperate to get with younger. Age = value.

I just can't jump from 20s to 60s that easily. Men at age 60 can have significant health problems. Hell I just found out the I have elevated liver enzymes today after the booster shot as I have severe dizziness, so I'm falling into that "health problem" category now that I'm 50. Imagine 10 years from now.

I'm not moving out until our daughter goes to college. These years are too special now that she and I are getting along again.

You should start divorce proceedings while you're there. That way when you move out you're free and clear. I know I wouldn't want to date someone who's still legally married, even if living separate.

[DustinTheHuss]

You should start divorce proceedings while you're there. That way when you move out you're free and clear. I know I wouldn't want to date someone who's still legally married, even if living separate.

I totally agree with you. I recently met a guy my age who has a lot in common with me but refuses to date me because he's Catholic and said he can't date someone who is still married.

It's my fault that I missed out on him. He said to keep his number and contact him when I'm fully divorced, but he may not be single, or even alive by then.

But that doesn't mean I'll start divorce proceedings......because I'm mostly chicken to do it as I don't like confrontation and I already know it will be ugly since he didn't want to split our assets in half per state law.

I'll think about it tomorrow is Scarlett O'Hara's motto.......

[Legz422]

I totally agree with you. I recently met a guy my age who has a lot in common with me but refuses to date me because he's Catholic and said he can't date someone who is still married.

It's my fault that I missed out on him. He said to keep his number and contact him when I'm fully divorced, but he may not be single, or even alive by then.

But that doesn't mean I'll start divorce proceedings......because I'm mostly chicken to do it as I don't like confrontation and I already know it will be ugly since he didn't want to split our assets in half per state law.

I'll think about it tomorrow is Scarlett O'Hara's motto.......

Putting it off isn't doing you any favors. If it's going to be ugly it's going to be ugly now or later. Might as well get it over with.

[kimm4]

Putting it off isn't doing you any favors. If it's going to be ugly it's going to be ugly now or later. Might as well get it over with.

I agree and it's going to suck no matter what.

[Luc1fer]

I totally agree with you. I recently met a guy my age who has a lot in common with me but refuses to date me because he's Catholic and said he can't date someone who is still married.

It's my fault that I missed out on him. He said to keep his number and contact him when I'm fully divorced, but he may not be single, or even alive by then.

But that doesn't mean I'll start divorce proceedings......because I'm mostly chicken to do it as I don't like confrontation and I already know it will be ugly since he didn't want to split our assets in half per state law.

I'll think about it tomorrow is Scarlett O'Hara's motto.......

You aren’t allowed to complain about not finding a decent guy until you get divorced and stop living with your husband. End of story.

[dolvioblue]

I totally agree with you. I recently met a guy my age who has a lot in common with me but refuses to date me because he's Catholic and said he can't date someone who is still married.

It's my fault that I missed out on him. He said to keep his number and contact him when I'm fully divorced, but he may not be single, or even alive by then.

But that doesn't mean I'll start divorce proceedings......because I'm mostly chicken to do it as I don't like confrontation and I already know it will be ugly since he didn't want to split our assets in half per state law.

I'll think about it tomorrow is Scarlett O'Hara's motto.......

Each day you post something more and more ridiculous. Are you not married? Banging chads? Go to bible study? You shouldn’t even be allowed to be on here.

[DustinTheHuss]

You aren’t allowed to complain about not finding a decent guy until you get divorced and stop living with your husband. End of story.

I do it in humor, as to laugh at how bad the guys are out there. It’s not like I truly believe that all men are that bad.

It’s like trolling myself.

I sent my screenshots of conversations with guys to my male and female friends and they all say I sound normal whereas the guys don’t, and many of these guys don’t even know I still live with my husband. I don’t tell them until a date is planned so I don’t waste their time.

[Ninshark]

I do it in humor, as to laugh at how bad the guys are out there. It’s not like I truly believe that all men are that bad.

It’s like trolling myself.

I guess everyone has to do this at least once or twice here while everyone else gangs up on them.

[Miscbob]

anyone else getting a fuk ton of super likes this year?

It sucks that the superlike is purely a paid function now, was a trump card to stand out from the crowd.

Regardless Tinder is dying in my area, Bumble and Hinge are where it's at. Moreso Hinge, the quality is exponentially higher and new girls I haven't seen on any other apps. Only found out about it through a mate, if it wasn't for that my dating situation would have been a lot more depressing.

[DustinTheHuss]

I guess everyone has to do this at least once or twice here while everyone else gangs up on them.

Yup. Welcome to the club 😳

[DustinTheHuss]

I was swiping through Bumble and what looked like a woman appeared in my stack with the pronouns they/them.

🤡


Honk



Honk

[realbored94]

Im thinking about making like half of my pics selfies due to me not really taking new pics with friends recently and i believe i'm a lot more lean now than i ever was. Has anybody had success with a profile with like half/mostly selfies?

[imbored21]

What is the consensus on having pics with girls? Was going to ask a sugar baby to take a picture with me eating dinner at a restaurant for social proof.

All I currently have are basement selfies or pics with pets. Don't have friends.

I hear mixed things. Like some people say if girls see you with another girl (especially a hot ass babe), they will like you more. But girls say they don't like sseeing other girls in guys pics (but maybe they are just coping).

Also I don't have the **** boy look so maybe it won't go with my profile??

[InsanePain11]

Im thinking about making like half of my pics selfies due to me not really taking new pics with friends recently and i believe i'm a lot more lean now than i ever was. Has anybody had success with a profile with like half/mostly selfies?

In general, selfies aren’t great for your profile. Better off using a tripod or the timing function to make it seem like someone took the pic imo.

[InsanePain11]

After a couple days off the app I’m ready to make a comeback LOL. Felt depressed after last girl not working out, hate to say it but true.

Back on hinge with an updated profile.

What are y’all’s thoughts on shirtless pics? I’ve thought it’s fine/good if you’re in shape and it’s not a mirror/gym selfie type photo.

I have a pic out on a boat and I’m in good shape with abs etc. So I’ve been posting it just for 1 of the pics.. I don’t want to come off douchey but I’m also proud of being in shape so I feel I should have it posted.. feel like it should help but I could see how a more traditional girl may not love it.

[iloveus]

What is the consensus on having pics with girls? Was going to ask a sugar baby to take a picture with me eating dinner at a restaurant for social proof.

All I currently have are basement selfies or pics with pets. Don't have friends.

I hear mixed things. Like some people say if girls see you with another girl (especially a hot ass babe), they will like you more. But girls say they don't like sseeing other girls in guys pics (but maybe they are just coping).

Also I don't have the **** boy look so maybe it won't go with my profile??

No Bueno

[iloveus]

After a couple days off the app I’m ready to make a comeback LOL. Felt depressed after last girl not working out, hate to say it but true.

Back on hinge with an updated profile.

What are y’all’s thoughts on shirtless pics? I’ve thought it’s fine/good if you’re in shape and it’s not a mirror/gym selfie type photo.

I have a pic out on a boat and I’m in good shape with abs etc. So I’ve been posting it just for 1 of the pics.. I don’t want to come off douchey but I’m also proud of being in shape so I feel I should have it posted.. feel like it should help but I could see how a more traditional girl may not love it.

It shouldn't be your profile pic

[DustinTheHuss]

A guy close to me age 46 from Bumble asked what I think of the vaccine. I told him I’m vaccinated but I had severe side effects from the last 2 shots so I won’t get more. He unmatched me before I could even tell him my living situation. Wow.

[Luc1fer]

What are y’all’s thoughts on shirtless pics? I’ve thought it’s fine/good if you’re in shape and it’s not a mirror/gym selfie type photo.

I have a pic out on a boat and I’m in good shape with abs etc. So I’ve been posting it just for 1 of the pics.. I don’t want to come off douchey but I’m also proud of being in shape so I feel I should have it posted.. feel like it should help but I could see how a more traditional girl may not love it.

I don't, but I do have one in a well fitted shirt that shows I'm in shape.

If I had a candid one outdoors playing beach volleyball, fishing, or doing some activity where it's normal for my shirt to be off and it isn't the primary focus of the shot, then I think it's fine.

But not your main pic, which should be a facial profile.

[InsanePain11]

It shouldn't be your profile pic

Yea agreed, it’s just one of my later pics.

[InsanePain11]

I don't, but I do have one in a well fitted shirt that shows I'm in shape.

If I had a candid one outdoors playing beach volleyball, fishing, or doing some activity where it's normal for my shirt to be off and it isn't the primary focus of the shot, then I think it's fine.

But not your main pic, which should be a facial profile.

Yea, It’s never my main pic, usually a few down on hinge. This one is when I got back on the boat after tubing on a lake, pic was taking by someone else. That said, even though I was doing an activity, the physique is the primary focus.

[imbored21]

No Bueno

crap guess ill just stick to 6 mirror selfies

[iloveus]

crap guess ill just stick to 6 mirror selfies

1. Selfies are okay


2. You also need to take Photos where you're in the middle of doing something.

It needs to look like someone else is taking pictures of you but you only

This is called In Media Res - in the middle of a narrative; without preamble.

Think about movies. The actors are never looking at the camera. It's let the audience brains subconsciously know that we're an observer of the narrative.

3. It's better if you get your pics professionally edited/color graded.

4. Google popular locations in your area and take photos there. This is to help show "High-Status)

5. Take pictures of you doing your hobbies (Except gym, NO GYM photos)

If you want them to see pics of your life send them links of your instagram/********.

Think of it like a Sales Funnel. Tinder is an introduction.

If they want to know more about you send them a link of your IG /********. The Call To Action is "Let's go meetup somewhere/We should hang out ...."

[imbored21]

1. Selfies are okay


2. You also need to take Photos where you're in the middle of doing something.

It needs to look like someone else is taking pictures of you but you only

This is called In Media Res - in the middle of a narrative; without preamble.

Think about movies. The actors are never looking at the camera. It's let the audience brains subconsciously know that we're an observer of the narrative.

3. It's better if you get your pics professionally edited/color graded.

4. Google popular locations in your area and take photos there. This is to help show "High-Status)

5. Take pictures of you doing your hobbies (Except gym, NO GYM photos)

If you want them to see pics of your life send them links of your instagram/********.

Think of it like a Sales Funnel. Tinder is an introduction.

If they want to know more about you send them a link of your IG /********. The Call To Action is "Let's go meetup somewhere/We should hang out ...."

dude im an incel. ALl I do is watch porn and play games. All I have access to are basement selfies.

[iloveus]

dude im an incel. ALl I do is watch porn and play games. All I have access to are basement selfies.

Buy a greenscreen

Get out of your moms basement?

[iloveus]

dude im an incel. ALl I do is watch porn and play games. All I have access to are basement selfies.

[BorderPatrol505]

A guy close to me age 46 from Bumble asked what I think of the vaccine. I told him I’m vaccinated but I had severe side effects from the last 2 shots so I won’t get more. He unmatched me before I could even tell him my living situation. Wow.

Lol what a boss.

[Miscbob]

On tinder is anyone getting old matches that you haven't spoken to put back at the start of the queue?

I assume this means they're still active on Tinder?

[Legz422]

After a couple days off the app I’m ready to make a comeback LOL. Felt depressed after last girl not working out, hate to say it but true.

Back on hinge with an updated profile.

What are y’all’s thoughts on shirtless pics? I’ve thought it’s fine/good if you’re in shape and it’s not a mirror/gym selfie type photo.

I have a pic out on a boat and I’m in good shape with abs etc. So I’ve been posting it just for 1 of the pics.. I don’t want to come off douchey but I’m also proud of being in shape so I feel I should have it posted.. feel like it should help but I could see how a more traditional girl may not love it.

If it's from an activity it's fine. It's the shirtless mirror or posed pics that are cringe.

[fishnbrah]

when i first downloaded hinge i used my avi in my pics. got quite a few likes. got rid of it, dont get as many now