New girl falling in love with me

[Kev1972]

Help misc!

I just got out of a very toxic relationship at the end of August. I was head over heels for that woman and probably still am to some extent. I went completely beta following her around like a lost puppy dog and worshipping the ground she walked on. She in return constantly disrespected me and was always texting and hanging out with other men. It came to breaking point where I just blew up and called her a whore and left.

I've dated a few girls since but trying to avoid any type of commitment. I've been friends with one in particular for a while who I share a lot of interests with. She lives alone, no kids, told me she was seeing other people and wasn't interested in getting into a relationship. Seemed perfect for me.

So we started hanging out and riding motorcycles together, hiking, going to the gym. It started off pretty slow. She actually went on a weekend date with another guy and I didn't mind at all. After that though for the last couple weeks she won't leave me alone. Things turned sexual right after that and now she blows my phone up every day and posts lovesick memes on ******** and is trying to hang out/sleep over every night. I actually had another date lined up for tonight but she wants to come over now.

I do enjoy her company and she is like an animal in bed always doing anything she can to please me. I do my best never to validate her or compliment her and the less I do the harder she tries. I kind of want her to back off but I also do enjoy the time we spend together. I'm just not feeling the attachment or love. I still think about my ex every day. I just don't want to hurt the new girls feelings and have her end up hating me.

The last time me and my ex broke up the same thing happened but she started calling me again and like a beta simp I went back to her and broke the heart of a beautiful girl who was treating me so much better.

[Legz422]

If she is a nice person and you don't have feelings for her, you need to tell her. That's not fair to string her along if you have no attachment or feelings. You're just using her.

[Kev1972]

If she is a nice person and you don't have feelings for her, you need to tell her. That's not fair to string her along if you have no attachment or feelings. You're just using her.

Is that how things went with you and your fwb? He was just stringing you along until you ended it? Are you still friends? The woman that I totally screwed over the first time has actually been texting me again, telling me she wants to meet back up. I honestly couldn't believe it after how badly I screwed her over.

[Born2Roam]

If she is a nice person and you don't have feelings for her, you need to tell her. That's not fair to string her along if you have no attachment or feelings. You're just using her.

Good lesson to learn for young miscers. Using a sloot for sex when you know she is emotionally attached to you and you don’t have any feelings for her is mean and generally pathetic.

[skinnyfat88]

All this has happened in a month?

Slow it down.
Don't hangout more than 1-2 times a week and ease up on the phone communication.

Keep yourself busy with other productive things so you don't have as much time to give to 1 woman.

[Kev1972]

All this has happened in a month?

Slow it down.
Don't hangout more than 1-2 times a week and ease up on the phone communication.

Keep yourself busy with other productive things so you don't have as much time to give to 1 woman.

I've been hanging with the new girl for a month. Was seeing a couple other girls too but she's been pushing them out of the way. My ex I was with for 5 months but very rocky. We split once before for a month and I ended up with another girl.

Trust me I try to take it slow. Once they get a taste though they want it all the time. The less I txt the more they want to see me. I'm sure it's because they know I'm talking to other people and their jealousy alarm is going haywire.

[Legz422]

Is that how things went with you and your fwb? He was just stringing you along until you ended it? Are you still friends? The woman that I totally screwed over the first time has actually been texting me again, telling me she wants to meet back up. I honestly couldn't believe it after how badly I screwed her over.

lol No, that's not how it went with him. We do not speak any longer.

She sounds like she has no self worth. As for the woman in your OP, you should srsly break it off. I don't understand stringing people along like that. I could never do that to someone.

[Kev1972]

lol No, that's not how it went with him. We do not speak any longer.

She sounds like she has no self worth. As for the woman in your OP, you should srsly break it off. I don't understand stringing people along like that. I could never do that to someone.

So instead of riding motorcycles, going on weekend trips, cuddling and wild monkey sexors, and awesome blow jobs 4-5 nights a week I should just say I'm not really feeling this and jerk myself to sleep alone every night? How does that compute?

[Legz422]

So instead of riding motorcycles, going on weekend trips, cuddling and wild monkey sexors, and awesome blow jobs 4-5 nights a week I should just say I'm not really feeling this and jerk myself to sleep alone every night? How does that compute?

Because then you're not using someone and stringing someone along who has feelings for you? Seems like you're taking out what your ex did to you on these innocent women. If she stays after you tell her you have no feelings for her and don't see a future, then that's on her. But IMO, it's always best to be upfront about stuff like that.

[skinnyfat88]

Trust me I try to take it slow. Once they get a taste though they want it all the time. The less I txt the more they want to see me. I'm sure it's because they know I'm talking to other people and their jealousy alarm is going haywire.

Then you're probably choosing women who don't have enough going for them in the first place if they're willing to make you the center of their world after a few weeks.

[NitrogenWidget]

So instead of riding motorcycles, going on weekend trips, cuddling and wild monkey sexors, and awesome blow jobs 4-5 nights a week I should just say I'm not really feeling this and jerk myself to sleep alone every night? How does that compute?

bro, is 72 your birth yr?
or are you much younger?
i have a lot going on with my kids and hobbies and projects that twice a week cuts into my free time even when dating someone seriously.

you might as well be living together.
you fell back into your same rut of allowing the woman to control things.

I don't see how you can recover from this.
you are either going to have to GF her up or lose her at this point I think.

[drvillain]

So instead of riding motorcycles, going on weekend trips, cuddling and wild monkey sexors, and awesome blow jobs 4-5 nights a week I should just say I'm not really feeling this and jerk myself to sleep alone every night? How does that compute?

lol

[ZachOfAllTrades]

Help misc!

I just got out of a very toxic relationship at the end of August. I was head over heels for that woman and probably still am to some extent. I went completely beta following her around like a lost puppy dog and worshipping the ground she walked on. She in return constantly disrespected me and was always texting and hanging out with other men. It came to breaking point where I just blew up and called her a whore and left.

I've dated a few girls since but trying to avoid any type of commitment. I've been friends with one in particular for a while who I share a lot of interests with. She lives alone, no kids, told me she was seeing other people and wasn't interested in getting into a relationship. Seemed perfect for me.

So we started hanging out and riding motorcycles together, hiking, going to the gym. It started off pretty slow. She actually went on a weekend date with another guy and I didn't mind at all. After that though for the last couple weeks she won't leave me alone. Things turned sexual right after that and now she blows my phone up every day and posts lovesick memes on ******** and is trying to hang out/sleep over every night. I actually had another date lined up for tonight but she wants to come over now.

I do enjoy her company and she is like an animal in bed always doing anything she can to please me. I do my best never to validate her or compliment her and the less I do the harder she tries. I kind of want her to back off but I also do enjoy the time we spend together. I'm just not feeling the attachment or love. I still think about my ex every day. I just don't want to hurt the new girls feelings and have her end up hating me.

The last time me and my ex broke up the same thing happened but she started calling me again and like a beta simp I went back to her and broke the heart of a beautiful girl who was treating me so much better.

Give her a real shot. Finding a woman that treats you well is rare, cherish it.

[Kev1972]

Give her a real shot. Finding a woman that treats you well is rare, cherish it.

She's growing on me. Girl is putting in some work.

[tripod29]

No pics were seen that day.

[Kev1972]

No pics were seen that day.

This is relationship help not porn hub. Go jack off to something else.

[DustinTheHuss]

How old are you? 40s? You mentioned a wife and 3 kids, where the wife turned out to be a huge sloot.

[Kev1972]

How old are you? 40s? You mentioned a wife and 3 kids, where the wife turned out to be a huge sloot.

Yeah been single since 2013. Trying to stay that way but these girls always trying to hook ya!

[DustinTheHuss]

Yeah been single since 2013. Trying to stay that way but these girls always trying to hook ya!

Tell her that you are still getting over a breakup and aren't ready for anything serious.

[Kev1972]

Tell her that you are still getting over a breakup and aren't ready for anything serious.

That's exactly what I said in the beginning. Now all she wants is to be in my bed every night. Not that I'm complaining too much. Just not what I was looking for or expecting. I was entertaining a few other women but she has taken up most of my free time. Granted I'm letting her because she is a very good time. I just don't want to turn it into a relationship like the last one did and I ended up dumping her and having her hate me.

[iloveus]

"Hey baby, I don't love you. I still love my ex. So lets keep this casual..."

[Hartley110]

You are giving her girlfriend treatment while not wanting her to be your gf.

See her once a week for sex only and don't let her sleep over.

[NitrogenWidget]

Yeah been single since 2013. Trying to stay that way but these girls always trying to hook ya!

I divorced late 30's. majority of women I met still wanted kids.
fuaark.
Once you dip into early 40's a lot of women are fixed or have no uterus so I was wrapping it just because they sexed on the first date.

[NitrogenWidget]

You are giving her girlfriend treatment while not wanting her to be your gf.

See her once a week for sex only and don't let her sleep over.

have to disagree.
waking up to your penor being tugged or in a mouth is far better than an alarm or the dog breathing in your face because she needs to go out.

though the ones who just stare at you while you sleep waiting for you to wake up so they can hop on your dink are a little unnerving.

[Thebunz]

Bro youre so soft. Haven't been on in 2 years and still the same ****. What episode of my 600lb life are you in?

[Kev1972]

have to disagree.
waking up to your penor being tugged or in a mouth is far better than an alarm or the dog breathing in your face because she needs to go out.

though the ones who just stare at you while you sleep waiting for you to wake up so they can hop on your dink are a little unnerving.

Yeah sex every night, waking up to her mouth on my penor just now. She's trying REAL hard.