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    Question Scared you'll never "find" someone ?

    I know this sounds beta and girly. But i'm 26 and only ever had 1 girlfriend that didn't last that long (6-7 months). I've come to terms with how my ex cheated on me and realized not to take it personally and she is just a person who enjoys having sex with random people i was the one that decided to have a relationship with her. (Think of the Scorpian and the Frog)


    I don't have trouble attracting girls, i am ok looking. I'm also no longer focused so much on pussy or girls but a small part of me still longs for a relationship. I only really got a short taste of it (6-7 months) and there were so many "couple" things i wanted to do and missed out on.


    I used to meet girls off dating apps and at bars but i guess i've been unlucky but most girls I meet i don't really connect with or don't really want a relationship with (i don't have high standards too). I'm getting tired/bored of just smashing chicks or having short term things with them.



    Sometimes I get worried i'll never really "find" a girl to have a good relationship with?
    Do you think my thoughts are valid? Do any other guys have thoughts like this? Morever, is this simply a grass greener thinking? e.g. relationships > single when in reality it's not always true.



    Any thoughts?
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    ive already resigned myself to a life of solitude after my last breakup in may. not everyone was meant to be happy. good luck op
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    Originally Posted by GlassMoon View Post
    ive already resigned myself to a life of solitude after my last breakup in may. not everyone was meant to be happy. good luck op
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    Originally Posted by sandman2019 View Post
    I've come to terms with how my ex cheated on me and realized not to take it personally
    Strong cope lol.

    In all seriousness, stop actively looking for a relationship. The fact you keep mentioning your ex tells me you need to work on yourself and being happy alone before you can be happy with someone else.

    I know it’s cliche but you often find something when you stop looking and when you least expect it. Plus 26 is still young, start worrying when you’re in your 30s.
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    Originally Posted by sandman2019 View Post
    I used to meet girls off dating apps and at bars but i guess i've been unlucky but most girls I meet i don't really connect with or don't really want a relationship with (i don't have high standards too).
    Not having standards is not a recipe for success.
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    Maybe if you met someone through a hobby instead
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    Originally Posted by skinnyfat88 View Post
    Not having standards is not a recipe for success.
    I guess what i was trying to say is i'm not that picky i'm genuinely open to girls and people
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