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    Met a girl at the university library, but I'm finding her infuriating.

    I met this girl at the university library, but after knowing her for awhile I'm finding her to be infuriating, frustrating, self-absorbed and impossibly to talk to. The reasons why are following, and I'd appreciate some input on what the deal is.

    Every time we have a conversation, with barely even a word out of my mouth she instantly talks obsessively about herself, her day and her own rather narrow and obscure interests. She launches into lengthy monologues on end about whatever is bothering her at the moment, and will talk for minutes on end without me able to get a word in edgewise. Usually it's about her friends, her past life and past jobs that she hated, or her own obsessive interests and hobbies such as fountain pens or English literature.

    I manage to feign social graces initially just for the sake of appearances, but this persists even when it is manifestly obvious I have zoned out out of the conversation. She will just keep talking on end about pens, literature, British T.V shows utterly oblivious to my lack of interest or participation in the conversation.

    She never takes an interest in me or the things I like, and there are even times I intentionally steer the conversation away from her own self-obsessed monologues, and she will interrupt me literally mid-sentence and veer the conversation back to herself and these narrow topics of interest like a moth around a porch light. Sometimes even without a hint of segue; she will just pick the topic back up as an utter non-sequitur.

    Needless to say I find this depressing and frustrating, and am on the verge to telling to STFU and GTFO out of my life. Though I may try to salvage this if I can devise a strategy and figure out what the problem is. Is it some mental issue from what I've described? A major narcissist? OCD? Self-esteem issues? Bad social skills?

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    Why are you seeing her if she infuriates you?

    No need to tell her to "STFU and GTFO," just calmly end your relationship with her.
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    Originally Posted by skinnyfat88 View Post
    Why are you seeing her if she infuriates you?
    She has a gash between her legs.
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    i didnt read man. i love my girl and would do anything for her. i actually can't believe people like OP exist. A woman completes a man. Maybe try men??
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    Stopped reading early on because who cares? If she's annoying you, stop talking to her. That's what I do with people who annoy me.
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    Stay the course until you cant takenit anymore.

    Theres a reason you are allowing it. Once that balance tips. Next
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    OP did not really clarify if he dating her or not and if he banged yet or not

    If you havent banged yet, pretend you care what shes saying and hurry up and bang

    If you are banging her consider how much longer you want to do it. I mean it doenst seem like this sloot is long term compatible with you, she is annoying to you.
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