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    Originally Posted by Coal Man View Post
    I'm not mirin this Canadian.

    Lol@ age 21 thinking he has more knowledge and experience than the misc. Just lmfao.

    In before it blows up in everyone's face.
    Lol the miscs advice is usually the following: “be an alpha” “dont trust sloots” “sloots gonna sloot” “dont open up” “give her very little attention” “do this instead of that”. And then the misc is surprised when said girl leaves them for someone better.

    I love the misc but its filled with toxicity. Nothing but dudes who usually started lifting because of a girl who left them and they wanted to get back at her. Not realizing she left them because they were toxic and we’re acting all alpha and chit.

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    Originally Posted by billclintonnn View Post
    Give him some slack. We’ve all been there where one Tinder sloot is extremely invested in us and we think we know how women operate.
    I’ve dated many tinder girls pimp. I know the difference between a dumpster fire waiting to happen and a solid girl.
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    Girlfriends don’t exist in 2020. Just your turn bub. That’s why I never make things official with girls I smash more than once or twice even though sometimes they want too.

    All the guys I know with girlfriends either get cheated on or are in “open relationships”.
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    Being afraid to act and overanalyzing so that you won’t lose her is a sure fire way to sabotage what you have.

    You’ll second guess yourself and more and more of your attention will be on things entirely out of your control. She will pick up on it and it’s not attractive.

    I’m not saying you need to bring it up now, but at some point you’re going to have to make that call. If you know what you want then you gotta go after it at some point, and you have to be willing to take the hits because it’s not always going to work out. Otherwise your going to be sitting around waiting for it to happen and she will likely move on and you’ll be on here crying about chads, modern dating culture, or whatever other excuse you want to blame it on.

    Oh and since you asked how - just tell her you want something more serious with her and see what she says. Don’t bring up deleting tinder. It should come with the territory. You can’t beat around the bush with these things.
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    Originally Posted by Nicklol View Post
    I know it feels great, but girls get to do that every other day.
    I had a good time with a girl at the beach a few weeks ago and had one of those "perfect" romantic dates that was similar to yours.
    She said after how she likes me and wants to see me again.

    lets just say she didnt. she ghostd

    hope it can work out though
    This lol. Had that happen before too
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    Originally Posted by Nicklol View Post
    I know it feels great, but girls get to do that every other day.
    I had a good time with a girl at the beach a few weeks ago and had one of those "perfect" romantic dates that was similar to yours.
    She said after how she likes me and wants to see me again.

    lets just say she didnt. she ghostd

    hope it can work out though
    This. For us it is a romantic date that we earned through gaming or persistence. For her she's just there enjoying the attention and possibly being interested. But its just momentary entertainment until she gets her next hit of validation from another man. Not true for all girls but this is usually the case with Tindet and club girls. Always proceed with caution around these types.
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    Originally Posted by OLawdQuan View Post
    Shutting this down.

    The extreme negativity, mysogany, hate, and pure idiocy a lot of you "men" post here daily truly makes me cringe Irl.

    The reality here is: OP found a woman he loves and wanted to marry. Did it in an unconventional venue, and was a success. Good for him! Don't be such a negative ******* for the sake of beig a dick...

    The insane amount of comments degrading women also has to stop. I'll begin mass banning for those comments when I see them. So knock it off.

    OP has more life experience than the vast majority of the misc, with the average age being around 22, and knows his relationship better than anyone here. Who the fuk are you to tear him down? Get a life. Truly.


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    Originally Posted by ChangeOfStyle View Post
    making a tinder sloot a girlfriend?

    what are you doing dude...
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    Originally Posted by Nicklol View Post
    I know it feels great, but girls get to do that every other day.
    I had a good time with a girl at the beach a few weeks ago and had one of those "perfect" romantic dates that was similar to yours.
    She said after how she likes me and wants to see me again.

    lets just say she didnt. she ghostd

    hope it can work out though
    Damn that hit an old wound.

    I remember figuring this out at about age 23.
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    Originally Posted by MirinCanadian99 View Post
    Lol once again, why would she go through all the effort of seeing me 4 times (gonna be 5 on tuesday) only to play me? It takes her almost an hour and a half and even more to meet up with me. Why go through all the effort of cuddling, kissing like crazy and starring into my eyes like a madman if she was seeing other dudes? Legit makes zero sense. Why would she wear a skirt when I told her I like them? Why would she open up emotionally? She’s split bills with me and is always eager to meet me. We have late video calls that can last up to an hour and a half almost every night. Where would she possibly make time for other dudes?

    Your view of woman as a whole is messed up because of the misc and your experience with women. Not all women are sloots, not all women have BPD and not all women are out there to use you. Normal women just like normal men want a love filled relationship. They wanna build dreams, have kids, and have someone they can count on. You attract what you want in life. If you’re a chitty person you’ll attract a chitty girl.

    Every time I’ve followed the misc’s advice when it came to women I’ve ended up becoming a controlling freak with zero trust. Sometimes the misc is right but usually it’s wrong.
    mate you sound extremely naive. No one is saying that once you get into a relationship do not pay attention to your woman. It just so happens that in the age of 24/7 social media, simping and endless attention that NOT being controlling and having a chill non-chalant attitude is the way to get the girl in the first place. After that; do as you please.

    The only time being truly open-and-honest works is when both parties are mature (>25+) or there is a huge looks discrepancy between the dude and the chick. OP sounds like a young dude so he's almost certainly dating a young chick. They don't respond well to good intentions and honesty.
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    Originally Posted by wd0694820 View Post
    Ya I know but obviously I was gonna delete mine as well. We just had such an amazing romantic date yesterday and she’s ticking all boxes
    Sex was amazing - best I’ve ever had in my life
    She’s smart af and a lawyer
    We get along like a house and fire- laughing, flirting and joking around all day
    She’s gorgeous
    I can tell she’s excited to see me and hang out with me - like she makes a proper effort with her makeup etc for our dates and dresses really cute and feminine

    I really wanna just gush all my feelings to her right now but I know I have to try and hold back a little bit longer until her feelings are on the same level. She sent me a message the other day saying she thinks I’m out of her league and she’s nervous that I’m just playing her for sex and I legit couldn’t believe she thinks that because in my head she is way out of my league and I’m so suprised she wants to date me!

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    Originally Posted by MikeLowrrrey View Post
    Not only this, but he's thinking about revealing his feelings to her. Men should never fall in love with a woman 1st. Retard op calls her a 10/10 on date #3 LMAO. As soon as phaggot op opens up she'll lose respect. Never knew there could be so many weak phaggots on a bodybuilding forum
    This. Don’t fo it op. You’re in emotional quick sand.
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    Originally Posted by dogorman7 View Post
    Girlfriends don’t exist in 2020. Just your turn bub. That’s why I never make things official with girls I smash more than once or twice even though sometimes they want too.

    All the guys I know with girlfriends either get cheated on or are in “open relationships”.
    Living in liberal dumpster fire city, I can confirm all girls are in open relationships if at all in relationships.
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    Originally Posted by LordMU View Post
    mate you sound extremely naive. No one is saying that once you get into a relationship do not pay attention to your woman. It just so happens that in the age of 24/7 social media, simping and endless attention that NOT being controlling and having a chill non-chalant attitude is the way to get the girl in the first place. After that; do as you please.

    The only time being truly open-and-honest works is when both parties are mature (>25+) or there is a huge looks discrepancy between the dude and the chick. OP sounds like a young dude so he's almost certainly dating a young chick. They don't respond well to good intentions and honesty.
    I'm simply telling Op there is nothing wrong about opening up to this girl who he has been seeing for a while now. You don’t need to be gf or bf in order to start being exclusive. Its a good way gauging her true attraction towards him and it also helps eliminate other dudes from the fray.

    Truth is he’s gonna start having big boy conversations with the girl any day now and its better he does it now while he hasn’t invested too much time rather then wait 3 months and get told no. It’ll show the girl he’s mature, knows what he wants and isn’t afraid of sharing whats on his mind. They can be exclusive and still have fun.

    You guys are making him overthink chit and hes gonna end up fumbling like an idiot and lose out on a perfectly good opportunity. Let him do what he wants. If it doesnt work I dont want his first reaction to be the misc was right and all girls are evil monsters.

    I used myself as an example because im in the same boat as him.
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    Originally Posted by LordMU View Post
    mate you sound extremely naive. No one is saying that once you get into a relationship do not pay attention to your woman. It just so happens that in the age of 24/7 social media, simping and endless attention that NOT being controlling and having a chill non-chalant attitude is the way to get the girl in the first place. After that; do as you please.

    The only time being truly open-and-honest works is when both parties are mature (>25+) or there is a huge looks discrepancy between the dude and the chick. OP sounds like a young dude so he's almost certainly dating a young chick. They don't respond well to good intentions and honesty.
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    Originally Posted by wd0694820 View Post
    We’re both 22 and just graduated
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    She’s smart af and a lawyer
    She's not a lawyer then - she's going into law school, right?

    You know her more than we do so you may know more than us if you think she genuinely wants to be exclusive or not.

    My advice would be to do what you want in terms of stopping to talk to other girls or w/e but preoccupy yourself with a lot of other things to keep your mind off if she's doing the same or not. You also need to do this to slow down your attachment so you don't become blinded by your emotions and can still view her with a clear mind.

    IMO a lot of quality people naturally become monogamous before the "official talk."

    If you do have a serious talk, I wouldn't focus on deleting tinder or using bf/gf labels, I would just want to confirm y'all ain't sleeping with anyone else while you get to know each other and see where this may go.
    "Locking her down" with labels and making sure she deletes the apps to soon can come off a bit needy/insecure/controlling.

    From my experience though, if a woman doesn't want you sleeping with anyone else she will bring it up one way or another.
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    Quit getting attached to girls so damn easily. Especially ones you meet online or at bars / clubs.
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    3 dates is way too early to start talking about things like telling the other person to get off tinder or whatever. Even if you dated her for months and you both agreed to be exclusive, it's not the sort of thing you want to have to convince someone to do. If a woman doesn't voluntarily decide to stop using dating aps like tinder of her own volition, then don't expect it to go well if you try telling her to. Even if she agreed and followed through, it's just going to build up resentment in her mind down the road.

    Honestly, that logic applies to most things about relationships. You never want to be trying to convince someone you're in a relationship with to change their behaviors in a significant way. Because again, even if they listen and change whatever it is you didn't like, it will make them resentful eventually and cause issues in the relationship. If they don't change something like the tinder thing automatically on their own, you can try bringing it up as a mild discussion where you explain your thoughts on it, but without asking them to change it just because you want them to. If you feel like you have to convince someone to change something about their behavior significantly, then you're probably not as good of a fit as you think you are.




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    - Don't waste your time trying to convince someone to change their behavior for a relationship with you
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    Originally Posted by northernlights7 View Post
    3 dates is way too early to start talking about things like telling the other person to get off tinder or whatever. Even if you dated her for months and you both agreed to be exclusive, it's not the sort of thing you want to have to convince someone to do. If a woman doesn't voluntarily decide to stop using dating aps like tinder of her own volition, then don't expect it to go well if you try telling her to. Even if she agreed and followed through, it's just going to build up resentment in her mind down the road.

    Honestly, that logic applies to most things about relationships. You never want to be trying to convince someone you're in a relationship with to change their behaviors in a significant way. Because again, even if they listen and change whatever it is you didn't like, it will make them resentful eventually and cause issues in the relationship. If they don't change something like the tinder thing automatically on their own, you can try bringing it up as a mild discussion where you explain your thoughts on it, but without asking them to change it just because you want them to. If you feel like you have to convince someone to change something about their behavior significantly, then you're probably not as good of a fit as you think you are.




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    - 3 dates is way too soon to talk about things like that
    - Don't waste your time trying to convince someone to change their behavior for a relationship with you
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    You need to smash her so good that she begging to be your gf
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    If she's not begging you for a relationship, there is a reason. Probably multiple reasons with 8" dinks srs. Just stop.
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    op, the best advice i can give you is dont get attached, and certainly dont start acting like a love sick puppy towards her. it will backfire on you.

    if you must try to turn this into a relationship then at least wait until you fuk her, then put it to her in a more dominant way. dont say "i like you and want to be exclusive"

    it might also be wise to ask her what her intentions are, see if shes even looking for a relationship, or if she just wants to screw around. but again, i emphasize the point, dont act like a sprung sissy towards her, shel go NC on you immediately if you do that.

    Originally Posted by ChangeOfStyle View Post
    making a tinder sloot a girlfriend?

    what are you doing dude...
    this. the vast majority of girls on tinder (possibly 100% of them) are not looking for exclusive relationships.
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    get down on one knee and put a ring on it.
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    Misc is acting like hes asking her hand in marriage

    Hes just trying to see if they can be a exclusive...i dont think its that hard of a question to bring up with her. At least he will know how much shes into him by her response
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    Originally Posted by HockeyBacon18 View Post
    absolutely DO NOT do this OP

    continue to act semi interested, enough she feels wanted but not enough that she'll still want more.

    let her bring it up
    this. be very careful.

    i almost f*cked up my situation by doing exactly the same

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    inb4 op listens to the 21 y/o canadian and gets kicked to the curb and enters a deep depression
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