Stop telling people money is how you get women srs

[Muzzlrpress]

Unless you want a gold digger who will eventually take half your **** or vapid whores using you for clout, money shouldn't be in your mind when you think about how to get women.

You have to be the kind of guy that's actually a blast to be around. Money doesn't hide character flaws. It's just cope by people why can't naturally attract a woman.

Take care of how you look, work on your social skills, and have a great weekend *******s.

[SoapKing]

Imagine changing your personality just to get a better chance at pussy

[quadfecta]

For that to be true, then it would also be true that the majority of women aren’t vapid/superficial. Guys like dan B and the millions of guys who look up to him would disagree

In fact the more successful she is, the more important it becomes for you to be on her level financially. But just be a party bro and the high status chicks will be on your jock

[drvillain]

we disagree on this 1 OPie. The hotter & more sought after the woman is, the more the status & financial part of your game becomes relevant. At least in big cities where there are tons of high quality options for attractive women.


The main "meat" (no homo) of your message is still facts though

[wave_length]

OP is correct. Who wants a gold digger. Never reveal your financial status unless already well into a LTR.

[HoustonMiscer]

we disagree on this 1 OPie. The hotter & more sought after the woman is, the more the status & financial part of your game becomes relevant. At least in big cities where there are tons of high quality options for attractive women.


The main "meat" (no homo) of your message is still facts though

Fukin lol nah fuk that ****. I dont want them flashy money hoes srs. LA has jaded you brah. Come down to the South on the 3rd coast brah your whole mindset will change brother!

[DizzySmalls]

Fukin lol nah fuk that ****. I dont want them flashy money hoes srs. LA has jaded you brah. Come down to the South on the 3rd coast brah your whole mindset will change brother!

They don't want us either, don't worry.

[untranslatedZA]

All other things being equal a woman will always prefer a man with money. In the same way that all other things being equal she would prefer someone taller/better looking/socially powerful ect ect.

Also if you want a lasting relationship, money plays a huge factor. Its coded into our genetics to seek mates who are attractive and have better physical traits the same as women seek men who can provide a stable environment for their "offspring".
Unless you are ultra chad, women want a guy who is financially stable, if they are rich even better. They will often reject guys for long term relationships if they have low value jobs, this becomes more obvious the older women (and men) get. If you are under 25 it probably doesnt make a difference but past that money is a huge factor in the same way your lifestyle and physical appearance and personality is.

Its also easy to get to financially stable since you have to work anyway, and outside of women there are rewards for yourself. There is no downside to becoming better off financially in the same way there is little downside to getting into at least good shape.

[drvillain]

Fukin lol nah fuk that ****. I dont want them flashy money hoes srs. LA has jaded you brah. Come down to the South on the 3rd coast brah your whole mindset will change brother!

1 day soon breh. **** maybe even in the next few months if I'm lucky

[leoric1997]

for some dudes it's the only option out there though

[DizzySmalls]

You need to be at least financially stable

I mean look at it this way.

Would you seriously want to date some loser girl who works at a nail salon that makes no money? I know I wouldn’t

You have to expect women will have the same standards when choosing men

But this is just the bare minimum and a given

You get women by being a positive person that people want to be around

Zero fuks given about how much a woman earns or aspires to unless she is drowning in debt or can't live without constant help.

Will take the debt free waitress over the debt saddled aspiring career chick who is never going to turn a positive return or the career chick who has dreamed of being a provider male since she was a teen.

[Adam16121]

A guys personality becomes a lot more interesting to a girl when they are having cocktails in his yacht, overlooking crystal blue water crashing upon a Maldives shoreline.

[ralphlaurenbrah]

ALL women are gold diggers brah. It’s their nature to want a guy who can best provide for and protect their children. Money = power so of course every girl will find a dude with money and a successful job title to be more attractive.

Lmao if you think poor dudes can pull HOT girls past the college age unless they are extremely good looking which is rare af for guys.


Money makes a good personality easier to have too. It’s way easier to be fun or seen as fun if you have the money to go to hot clubs, go racing, do fun vacations etc.



Money is literally everything because it can enable you to be and do anything you want. 99% of people would be way more fun with more money due to being less stressed out and just happier due to the ability to have varied experiences.


Cliffs: you’re coping boyo

[Muzzlrpress]

Imagine changing your personality just to get a better chance at pussy

Imagine not bettering yourself and expecting someone to find that attractive.

[DDSF1]

what you need is masculinity, not a personality that is a "blast to be around with"

femininity wants masculinity, simple as that
be a man not a court jester

This.

[DizzySmalls]

Ok man have fun paying for her ****

Brb 5k vacation and you need to pay 4k while she pays only 1k because that’s all she can afford

Brb she only pays 1/4th or mortgage payment

List goes on

I aint going on no 5k vacations period she can fuk off, but I can pay my own expenses. I don't aspire to be in a 600k house taking lavish vacations while a stranger raises and indoctrinates the children, although I guess that is the American dream these days.

I grew up with multiple siblings on a household income of like 35k. Life is easy mode financially with the appropriate mindset.

[Muzzlrpress]

To everyone replying in a way that insinuates I said you should stay broke, please stop.

I never said that. Some chit should be assumed, like making a liveable wage. Nobody ever fell in love or lust over a bank account. That's ALL I'm saying. By all means try to get paid.

[Muzzlrpress]

what you need is masculinity, not a personality that is a "blast to be around with"

femininity wants masculinity, simple as that
be a man not a court jester

Did somebody ITT say try to be the next Eddie Murphy? I must have missed that post.

[quadfecta]

To everyone replying in a way that insinuates I said you should stay broke, please stop.

I never said that. Some chit should be assumed, like making a liveable wage. Nobody ever fell in love or lust over a bank account. That's ALL I'm saying. By all means try to get paid.

That’s all good for hookups and superficial relationships

But lettuce be real tea, you’re ignoring the fact that the majority of women - at the end of the day - like nice (expensive) things, and will eventually seek out a male with the means to provide her with them. Yeah it takes more than just making money to be attractive so I’m not saying you’re wrong that the other things are just as important

[DizzySmalls]

Ok that wasn’t my point

Let’s say you have a mortgage that’s 1500

You really going to be happy paying 2/3rds of that because your girl makes 30k per year at a nail salon?

Also this is going to sound superficial and rude af but I’m not spending my time with someone who isn’t interesting or ambitious enough to move beyond some dead end job

I want a girl that’s intelligent and a go getter because I strive to be that way so expect the same

I'm happy paying 100% of it if she is enjoyable to be around, is willing and capable of getting pregnant, and will focus on being a mother. There is nothing feminine about ambition.

[Muzzlrpress]

That’s all good for hookups and superficial relationships

But lettuce be real tea, you’re ignoring the fact that the majority of women - at the end of the day - like nice (expensive) things, and will eventually seek out a male with the means to provide her with them. Yeah it takes more than just making money to be attractive so I’m not saying you’re wrong that the other things are just as important

So in your opinion, what dollar amount is necessary for a happy relationship?

[quadfecta]

So in your opinion, what dollar amount is necessary for a happy relationship?

It depends on the woman, there’s no fixed amount. Getting a relationship is not like buying a car or home. And neither is your net worth a prerequisite for finding one who will date you - it’s just an important piece of the pie

I’m just saying, having the means to afford a mortgage, car, and vacations is more than simply earning a living wage and rentceling like the majority of 50k/year earners

[wave_length]

ALL women are gold diggers brah. It’s their nature to want a guy who can best provide for and protect their children. Money = power so of course every girl will find a dude with money and a successful job title to be more attractive.

You can make clear from the start that both have to contribute financially 50% for household and kids. Rest of money and all debt/assets remain separated. Protect yes but who made the rule she doesn't have to contribute?

[Muzzlrpress]

It depends on the woman, there’s no fixed amount. Getting a relationship is not like buying a car or home. And neither is your net worth a prerequisite for finding one who will date you - it’s just an important piece of the pie

I’m just saying, having the means to afford a mortgage, car, and vacations is more than simply earning a living wage and rentcelingike the majority of 50k/year earners

So people that can't afford vacations aren't in happy relationships?

[IcanEATyou]

Personality above all but money adds a layer of confidence and can make you much more interesting.

[quadfecta]

So people that can't afford vacations aren't in happy relationships?

You’re ignoring the whole picture boyo. But yes I’d say people who can afford to go on vacations with their S/O a few times a year (because their means allow taking that much time off work) adds to level of happiness in the relationship, and specifically the woman who pines for novel experiences and material things (as that is their nature)

[dizzin9]

Welcome to 2020 and beyond boyo

[JungleJenetics]

Lmao I was getting grown women at 17 and poor. You don't even need to be financially stable, do not let anyone tell you differently. I remember being a college student and getting with way more successful women. Most of the misc is too worried about "Daddy Trump"/communism/black people/guns ie. autistic, to ever have a charismatic personality.

edit: these were not trashy/dumb women either. doctors in residency, professors, accountants.

[Muzzlrpress]

You’re ignoring the whole picture boyo. But yes I’d say people who can afford to go on vacations with their S/O a few times a year (because their means allow taking that much time off work) adds to level of happiness in the relationship, and specifically the woman who pines for novel experiences and material things (as that is their nature)

Of course everything counts on some level. My point is the money factor is overly stressed on misc. Misc acts like women are all vapid whores who will monkey branch off you at a moments notice. My point is that many are not, and those women, actual good women that you should be trying to date, aren't going to get with you because of your wallet. They're going to get with you because of how they feel about you.

Now finances matter a lot in marriage, but when you're starting out, who you are matters much, much, much more than what you make.

If a woman doesn't want you because you don't have a boat, why would you even care about that woman? Move on and find someone with a personality.

[quadfecta]

Of course everything counts on some level. My point is the money factor is overly stressed on misc. Misc acts like women are all vapid whores who will monkey branch off you at a moments notice. My point is that many are not, and those women, actual good women that you should be trying to date, aren't going to get with you because of your wallet. They're going to get with you because of how they feel about you.

Now finances matter a lot in marriage, but when you're starting out, who you are matters much, much, much more than what you make.

If a woman doesn't want you because you don't have a boat, why would you even care about that woman? Move on and find someone with a personality.

And I am agreeing that just getting money isn’t the determining factor in attracting women of all success levels. Who you are and your physical attraction is equal in importance, that’s a given. You just mentioned all a man needs is a living wage, and I am saying your income becomes more important as you get older and the women you’re trying to attract are proportionally more successful and will seek out a man on her level. The more physically attractive she is, the more she will likely demand a guy who is more successful (not necessarily rich) since that’s what guys primarily look for in women