by no means am I a FA, but I haven't really added to my friends since Uni.
Over time guys are moving to different areas, so I'd like to meet new people around me. My work is small and mostly older dudes.
Is the only way joining some club or class or something?
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09-18-2020, 11:33 PM #1
How to expand social circle after 21 (outside of work)
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09-18-2020, 11:36 PM #2anonymousGuest
If you start a band and play live regularly and don’t suck, you’ll always have friends
Chit even if you do suck you’ll probably make friends
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09-18-2020, 11:39 PM #3Yeh ain't gonna be doing that. A cool hobby if your musical but not meOriginally Posted by yieldtonothing
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Luke
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09-18-2020, 11:41 PM #4
get a hobby i shoot, ride bikes etc
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09-18-2020, 11:43 PM #5anonymousGuestThen enjoy CrossFit or loneliness lmaoooOriginally Posted by LukeS1
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09-18-2020, 11:44 PM #6Mercenary. Non-negotiable
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Easiest way is picking up a new hobby that you'll be highly involved in.
When I dropped out of college the first time I started raving and had a crew about 10 deep that I went to shows with, plus a handful of other people we'd meet here and there, and we'd go to shows in Cali.
Powerlifting/soccer/music production/fantasy sports, there's tons of things you just gotta pick one you're into.ωσяℓ∂ тяανєℓєя ȼяєω
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09-18-2020, 11:44 PM #7ayyyy lmao
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start here
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talk about your tie kit or your you know whatswatchout your comments boyo ↓
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09-18-2020, 11:46 PM #8™gif me so i can gif you©
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even though i admire you
but i always get 0 response
from my replies in your thread as
if you are ignoring me/////
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09-18-2020, 11:53 PM #9Registered User
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Dealt with the same issue, it’s tough especially if you’re not in an urban city.
And say you meet someone at the gym, they may not necessarily like going out to bars so they just become gym friends.
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09-19-2020, 02:01 AM #10You're as needy as MatthewChav, but without the appealOriginally Posted by Kiop
even though i admire you
but i always get 0 response
from my replies in your thread as
if you are ignoring me/////
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09-19-2020, 02:11 AM #11Registered User
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Lol thanks palOriginally Posted by LukeS1
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09-19-2020, 02:22 AM #12
only way i can think of is through hobbies or through a girlfriend or something, not saying you should get a gf to get friends
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09-19-2020, 02:24 AM #13Registered User
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Heya G, how is ur Grey joggs fap-ing goingOriginally Posted by RackaDo
Pm over it!!?
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09-19-2020, 02:29 AM #14Registered User
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make friends byOriginally Posted by LukeS1
- socializing at gym
- going to raves
- hitting up old buddies possibly for extra social experience
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09-19-2020, 02:30 AM #15staying in a hotel rn and wore my grey joggers to breakfast, think the hostess lady noticedOriginally Posted by MatthewChav
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09-19-2020, 02:34 AM #16Banned
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OP, not that I think it's a good idea, but go out and socialize, meet people that are alone or in groups of 2-3 (don't bother if it's more, already clear they have a big friend group,) talk about anything for a couple minutes, and ask them if they wanna chill sometime/take their number
dont be ashamed if they dont wanna be friends/give you their number. not everyone is at the same place in their life, realize its not actually you theryre saying no to, and move on and make other friends.
But srsly, the larger your social circle the more time you waste doing unproductive things. Having 3 good close friends> a large group of good friends, imo
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09-19-2020, 02:57 AM #17Registered User
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Joining a Martial Arts gym helped me make more friends as an adult. If you fight with people, you will reach a mutual bond and level of respect, just talking to people won't give you.Originally Posted by LukeS1
Aside of that, I would be happy about clues as well.
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09-19-2020, 03:07 AM #18Degenmaxxer
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FA confirmedOriginally Posted by LukeS1
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09-19-2020, 03:23 AM #19Registered User
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Footy or Rugby Luke?Originally Posted by LukeS1
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09-19-2020, 03:23 AM #20Registered User
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Wet Dreamed and W@nked???Originally Posted by RackaDo
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09-19-2020, 03:24 AM #21Registered User
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Lol, yer!!!Originally Posted by iwant2beswole
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09-19-2020, 03:25 AM #22Registered User
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Study Sport at Uni Luke G!!!Originally Posted by LukeS1
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09-19-2020, 03:25 AM #23Registered User
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there you are buddy boyo
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09-19-2020, 03:28 AM #24Registered User
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Try FB Luke!!?Originally Posted by LukeS1
I'd add u there!!
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09-19-2020, 03:34 AM #25Registered User
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Originally Posted by iwant2beswole
Hit up your neighbors, srs. And ******* golfing
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09-19-2020, 03:40 AM #26Registered User
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Use meetup dot com and find some activities you might be interested in. Unfortunately, because of the COVID virus, a lot of people aren't interacting IRL,they're doing it over Zoom or whatever.
You could take a class at a continuing education center, at your local library (if it's open, mine is still closed).
You could also volunteer. Do some stuff with the Red Cross, local hospitals, walk dogs at your local animal shelter, and stuff like that.
But, until this COVID is over, it's kind of a bad time to try and make new friends.Representing Milwaukee 414!
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You Wet Dreaming your Joggs mate??Originally Posted by Uhyeahokay
Hit up your neighbors, srs. And ******* golfing
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09-19-2020, 06:48 AM #28Trust you to show up here matty!Originally Posted by MatthewChav
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About time we saw your Stains I say Luke-y!!Originally Posted by LukeS1
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