There's this girl that I've known for a few years, and started out as hooking up (which was great) but at the time I wasn't super uncertain about a relationship, I was weird about it.
We've stayed friends, talk every so often, hung out a few times.
We tried an actual date and it was really great, and then something happened on her end that basically drove us apart.
She's dating someone now and seems to be in love with him, but also has told me she loves me.
She said if I asked her to marry me tomorrow, she'd say yes.
A part of me would because I really do care about her, but also I feel like she should give her current relationship a chance.
It's a weird situation I find myself in honestly.
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09-17-2020, 03:14 PM #1Registered User
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She says she'd marry me tomorrow if I asked...
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09-17-2020, 03:19 PM #2Registered User
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Are the pix loading for anyone else?
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09-17-2020, 03:36 PM #3Registered User
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Pretty disrespectful to her current partner to be having those convo's with you. Red flag.
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09-17-2020, 03:53 PM #4leg #2 also broke
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Yeah, I was going to make a North Carolina joke before reading, but uh,,, yeah she just does not seem to be worth getting seriously involved with.Originally Posted by skinnyfat88
No respect for her partners.
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09-17-2020, 05:13 PM #5Here's beer
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Not just disrespectful, I'd say it's as bad as cheating.Originally Posted by skinnyfat88
"A stupid man's report of what a clever man says can never be accurate, because he unconsciously translates what he hears into something he can understand."
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09-17-2020, 07:48 PM #6Registered User
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I wonder how her BF would feel about this. Seems both of you need to NC dis hoe right up in 'HERE
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09-17-2020, 07:54 PM #7Multi-Platinum User
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Go NC and find someone else. If she's in a relationship and talking to you, she'll do the same to you if you wife her.
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09-18-2020, 08:11 AM #8therapist (srs)
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she has proven to you that she is gutter trash. stay as far away from her as you can.
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09-18-2020, 08:13 AM #9**** Love, I Want Cash.
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Nah son.
It'll be different if you've been dating each other for many years and she said that but she's saying that to you while she's with someone else?
Nah red flag, abort as she'll just do the same to you with another guy.
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09-18-2020, 10:58 AM #10This seems to be the missing piece of info to make this situation make sense. I"m guessing she cheated on you but yet you kept seeing her occasionally and giving her attention.We tried an actual date and it was really great, and then something happened on her end that basically drove us apart.
She seems like a disaster. Stay away OP. Stay away.
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09-19-2020, 06:14 PM #11Registered User
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Wtf did I just read? LMAO. I hope you're going NC
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