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    How you doing? All my boys are either doing very well or absolute dog-tier. Which are you?
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    Can I join at 29 or is that too old?

    Doing pretty well. Just bought a duplex for owner occupy, own my own business, engaged, have a pupper. Combined income of about 300k a year.
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    dating market has me down since 2012
    I think i peaked 2015 but i didnt realise it at the time, didnt make the most of it

    Otherwise financially, career wise I think I should be alright.

    Gave up on ever finding a wife material girl though
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    Originally Posted by AtomicVeggie View Post
    Can I join at 29 or is that too old?

    Doing pretty well. Just bought a duplex for owner occupy, own my own business, engaged, have a pupper. Combined income of about 300k a year.
    that's solid man. Sounds like you made it man; well-done
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    idk it goes from rich to not knowing how i wound up not killing myself but maybe it gets better
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    I'm on the right path just have to let time do its thing. Working hard at everything I do since I've realized late 20's early 30's is when life starts to get much better if you've set yourself up correctly.
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    Originally Posted by Hector002 View Post
    I'm on the right path just have to let time do its thing. Working hard at everything I do since I've realized late 20's early 30's is when life starts to get much better if you've set yourself up correctly.
    i'm exactly the same, it feels like every year is getting better and progress in life is linear, just keep hustling though
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    Ok, not CEO/10k but not bad, like $50-60k inc bonuses (not sure what the conversion is from £ atm and salaries are lower over here)

    Rent a nice flat, have a good LTR and a savage kitter

    Still enjoy myself and am alot better off than most my age that I know.

    Mental health is a little bit down the pisser but that ship sailed long ago

    Turning 27 in a couple of weeks and feels weird, each new stage of life you enter feels like the beginning of the endtimes even though I know I'm still super young
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    Originally Posted by OGMiscerman View Post
    im 26 is it too late for me?
    Nah but it's time to get your act together.
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    Originally Posted by phaginator View Post
    Nah but it's time to get your act together.
    this man.
    For me my mid 20's feel like the event horizon of a black hole. You either start making it or slip beyond the point of no-return.
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    Originally Posted by LordMU View Post
    this man.
    For me my mid 20's feel like the event horizon of a black hole. You either start making it or slip beyond the point of no-return.
    This but even in your late 20's early 30's it's not game over.

    Thank god you're born a ****ing man, you can recover easily if you take the right steps. If you'd be a woman you would've lost 90% of your eggs by age 30 (serious look it up) and your hormones will make you desperate.
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    Originally Posted by phaginator View Post
    This but even in your late 20's early 30's it's not game over.

    Thank god you're born a ****ing man, you can recover easily if you take the right steps. If you'd be a woman you would've lost 90% of your eggs by age 30 (serious look it up) and your hormones will make you desperate.
    I've said this many times

    every girl i meet who is 26+ is desperate as **** (Srs)


    16-21 - on top of the world
    22-25 - on top of the world but kinda want a husband
    26-29 - why can't i find a man, I NEED A MAN
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    30+ - it's over.
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    what's below dog-tier?
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    Originally Posted by sandman2019 View Post
    I've said this many times

    every girl i meet who is 26+ is desperate as **** (Srs)


    16-21 - on top of the world
    22-25 - on top of the world but kinda want a husband
    26-29 - why can't i find a man, I NEED A MAN
    30 - Tour is over
    30+ - it's over.
    Yup, young women are lied to that the party never stops but the hard truth is it stops very soon. Sure they can still get men at a later age but most of them will just use them for an easy lay and the quality men won't settle down with them.

    The biggest victims of feminism are women themselves.
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    Originally Posted by phaginator View Post
    This but even in your late 20's early 30's it's not game over.

    Thank god you're born a ****ing man, you can recover easily if you take the right steps. If you'd be a woman you would've lost 90% of your eggs by age 30 (serious look it up) and your hormones will make you desperate.
    Originally Posted by phaginator View Post
    Yup, young women are lied to that the party never stops but the hard truth is it stops very soon. Sure they can still get men at a later age but most of them will just use them for an easy lay and the quality men won't settle down with them.

    The biggest victims of feminism are women themselves.
    this is very true, one of my co-workers was complaining to me about this. Kinda feel bad for her because she's quite sweet and intelligent + doesn't seem like a sloot. I think she just focused way too much on her career and is now suffering for it.
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    Originally Posted by LordBroly View Post
    what's below dog-tier?
    Maggot mode.
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    Originally Posted by LordMU View Post
    this is very true, one of my co-workers was complaining to me about this. Kinda feel bad for her because she's quite sweet and intelligent + doesn't seem like a sloot. I think she just focused way too much on her career and is now suffering for it.
    Ofc a thread about personal achievement/status has already degenerated into 'I may have achieved nothing by age 26 but at least I'm not a woman because...' classic misc deflection.
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    Originally Posted by Aamon View Post
    Ofc a thread about personal achievement/status has already degenerated into 'I may have achieved nothing by age 26 but at least I'm not a woman because...' classic misc deflection.
    Ok phaggot, I'm sure your internet white knighting will get you pussy one of these days bro.
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    Interesting question. My parents bought a house and they needed my income on the loan to qualify for it so im on the loan. So im either living with my parents like a loser at 25 or I helped my parents buy a home depending on how you look at it.

    I will be putting my full effort into helping them pay the mortgage because as the only child this home is my retirement one day. Its like having a 600,000 home that you inherit with only 300,000 remaining for ownership lol.
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    How you doing? All my boys are either doing very well or absolute dog-tier. Which are you?
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    Originally Posted by AtomicVeggie View Post
    Can I join at 29 or is that too old?

    Doing pretty well. Just bought a duplex for owner occupy, own my own business, engaged, have a pupper. Combined income of about 300k a year.

    Nice man. 29 as well, income would be similar if I put a ring on current gf. What’s your business? Trying to eventually get out of my 9-5


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    Originally Posted by sandman2019 View Post
    I've said this many times

    every girl i meet who is 26+ is desperate as **** (Srs)


    16-21 - on top of the world
    22-25 - on top of the world but kinda want a husband
    26-29 - why can't i find a man, I NEED A MAN
    30 - Tour is over
    30+ - it's over.


    Lmao so true. As someone almost at 30 you see these stages play out in real time. I’d even shift if a little and say “but kind of want a husband” to be 26-27, with panic at 28-29 and tour ending at maybe 32 or so


    Know so many that viewed a relationship as a cage in their early 20s. Took time to “travel the world”, backpack across Europe, go to music festivals, etc. Now are late 20s and absolute panic mode.


    It’s not that you can’t get guys at that age, or any age, as a woman. It’s that you lose almost all relationship leverage by the time you turn 29 or so to the guy. And the top guys you want will generally go after younger women. Something that women used to know until feminism lied to them
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    Originally Posted by meanstringbean View Post
    Lmao so true. As someone almost at 30 you see these stages play out in real time. I’d even shift if a little and say “but kind of want a husband” to be 26-27, with panic at 28-29 and tour ending at maybe 32 or so


    Know so many that viewed a relationship as a cage in their early 20s. Took time to “travel the world”, backpack across Europe, go to music festivals, etc. Now are late 20s and absolute panic mode.


    It’s not that you can’t get guys at that age, or any age, as a woman. It’s that you lose almost all relationship leverage by the time you turn 29 or so to the guy. And the top guys you want will generally go after younger women. Something that women used to know until feminism lied to them
    I still want to backpack through Europe and stuff.
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    Originally Posted by meanstringbean View Post
    Lmao so true. As someone almost at 30 you see these stages play out in real time. I’d even shift if a little and say “but kind of want a husband” to be 26-27, with panic at 28-29 and tour ending at maybe 32 or so


    Know so many that viewed a relationship as a cage in their early 20s. Took time to “travel the world”, backpack across Europe, go to music festivals, etc. Now are late 20s and absolute panic mode.


    It’s not that you can’t get guys at that age, or any age, as a woman. It’s that you lose almost all relationship leverage by the time you turn 29 or so to the guy. And the top guys you want will generally go after younger women. Something that women used to know until feminism lied to them
    I 100% agree.

    -I realise this doesn't relate to your point but its worth mentioning that the same applies to guys to a lesser extent. Yes, age won't affect your fertility but it will invariably affect your ability to date younger, more attractive women. I'm cognizant of this fact and would much rather find a HBB 2-3 years younger than me now rather then be playing the game at 35.

    -The 29 year old dating 21 year olds is the exception; not the rule. Infact, I've yet to meet a 29 year old guy dating an attractive 22 year old. Most young girls date +3-5 years.
    Thinking that you'll get to 40 having career-maxed and be able to get young hbbs is cope of the highest order. The only dudes able to pull that off are elites (Di caprio, Brad pitt) or those living in 3rd world countries/ethnics.
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    I still want to backpack through Europe and stuff.

    Never saying you shouldnt. I plan on going abroad almost every year for the rest of my life. The coolest friends my parents have (in their 60s) still do hikes in south america, go on african safaris, camp overnight, etc. Traveling is incredible - But it doesnt require you to be single.


    What I am referring to is the 'Wanderlust' culture of 'discovering oneself' which is all code for you know what. Girls and their friends going across different countries, staying at hostels, thinking it's about enlightenment when it's really about exotic dudes and no strings attached fun. An entire generation of urbanites putting off relationships for short term fun and have the hubris to think they know more than their parents and grand parents.
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    Originally Posted by LordMU View Post
    I 100% agree.

    -I realise this doesn't relate to your point but its worth mentioning that the same applies to guys to a lesser extent. Yes, age won't affect your fertility but it will invariably affect your ability to date younger, more attractive women. I'm cognizant of this fact and would much rather find a HBB 2-3 years younger than me now rather then be playing the game at 35.

    -The 29 year old dating 21 year olds is the exception; not the rule. Infact, I've yet to meet a 29 year old guy dating an attractive 22 year old. Most young girls date +3-5 years.
    Thinking that you'll get to 40 having career-maxed and be able to get young hbbs is cope of the highest order. The only dudes able to pull that off are elites (Di caprio, Brad pitt) or those living in 3rd world countries/ethnics.


    In my experience you can usually get girls 5-6 years younger than you pretty easily as a guy. When I was single at 28 could attract 23 year olds and up no problem on things like apps or in person. Had no real desire to date younger than that. As you mature you definitely change your tastes and realize hanging out with a 22 year old is annoying as fuark. So while you have a clock as a guy it isn't NEARLY as bad as for women. And you can still get women at any age, just wont be 20-25 year olds.

    That said you are spot on. Building career up is a good route, but dont throw everything at your job hoping to come out at 40 a great candidate. You can date girls 4-6 years younger, but that means when looking at the dating pool you want to cash out when your value is highest and when the value of your partner is the highest (assuming you want to get married). If you are 38 that means you get a pool of 32 year old women. Great for you, but desperation mode leftover for them. 28 - 33 is Probably the sweet spot for guys in terms of dating leverage and time to find an ideal partner
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    Originally Posted by meanstringbean View Post
    In my experience you can usually get girls 5-6 years younger than you pretty easily as a guy. When I was single at 28 could attract 23 year olds and up no problem on things like apps or in person. Had no real desire to date younger than that. As you mature you definitely change your tastes and realize hanging out with a 22 year old is annoying as fuark. So while you have a clock as a guy it isn't NEARLY as bad as for women. And you can still get women at any age, just wont be 20-25 year olds.

    That said you are spot on. Building career up is a good route, but dont throw everything at your job hoping to come out at 40 a great candidate. You can date girls 4-6 years younger, but that means when looking at the dating pool you want to cash out when your value is highest and when the value of your partner is the highest (assuming you want to get married). If you are 38 that means you get a pool of 32 year old women. Great for you, but desperation mode leftover for them. 28 - 33 is Probably the sweet spot for guys in terms of dating leverage and time to find an ideal partner
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