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09-30-2020, 03:31 PM #181
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10-04-2020, 12:34 AM #182
4 months and you write an autobiography... How many times did you eat her angus out serious? I cannot get over 4 months and in this amount of turmoil. You obviously don't body build.
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Doesn't even lift makes fun of people on bodybuilding site crew.
Informs you that your PR doesn't count due to "bad form" crew.
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10-15-2020, 08:19 AM #183
Just wanted to update...
Been 5 weeks since the breakup. After a few weeks I talked to my doc and agreed to try Wellbutrin because I was barely feeling better. I was supposed to do counseling too, but they never contacted me. Been on Wellbutrin 2 weeks now and I think it's helping me in some ways. It's an anti-depressant that's supposed to help with energy, motivation, and even sex drive. In those areas I do think it's helped me, but I still think about her, wonder what she's doing, miss her, and feel lonely as hell at times, but at least I'm not crying like a b!tch every day anymore and my need to vent about it has lessened greatly. I also moved into a new place last saturday. It's bittersweet, because what initially sparked me to get a new place was our relationship (but it wasn't all for her--I DID need a new place).
In terms of other girls/dates/sex, I've hooked up with 3 girls (two are pretty far so I'll probably never see them again, the 3rd I'm kinda meh about and I think she's kinda meh about me too), gone on a couple dates with another (who's 5 years older than me and also just went through a breakup lol so we're on the same page), am supposed to have a wine, netflix & chill date with another tomorrow, and am supposed to be grabbing a drink with another saturday. This is all barring flakes, of course. I immediately remembered why I hated dating so much when I got back into it. It just takes SO much work and women are crazy flakey. It's really exhausting swiping, then trying to keep a bunch of conversations going, then trying to set up dates and hoping they don't flake, and of course prioritizing women you think are more interested/less likely to flake. It is legit a second job.
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10-15-2020, 08:31 AM #184
Good to hear things are going better.
I think it's good to get back in the game relatively quick to not get stale and ensure the confidence doesn't dwindle but at the same time you're probably not ready yet for a legit relationship again so don't prioritize it too much. Better to spend time with friends/family, gym/looksmax/careermax and doing things you enjoy.
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10-15-2020, 08:55 AM #185
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Damn, youre pathetic.
You shouldnt be trying to find another chick- get seriously involved in a few hobbies. Cars, lifting, building chit, etc. All youre doing is cementing your beta-bs with female companionship. People dont realize they need to be happy with themselves first.USMC 0311
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10-15-2020, 10:24 AM #186
Don't think you have room to be calling anyone pathetic with 11.5k posts on the misc, being on this forum since 2012, and looking like an insecure homo in your AVI. Every time I see your AVI I fantasize about stomping your face into a curb. Fuk outta here f@gg0t.
Dawg you're a 21 y/o virgin and you're trying to give people horrible advice. Just stop. You don't know wtf you're talking about and it shows in ALL of your posts.
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10-15-2020, 11:16 AM #187
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Let me translate for all the lifting bros:
"Im mad at you for telling me the truth about how pathetic I really am so Im going to mention your post history which is actually below average and then make a completely random comment about your good aesthetics to make myself feel better!"
Sorry bones, you are pathetic. Youre literally going on dates and talking about exes lmao. No girl has ever had that emotional control over me, youre weak.USMC 0311
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10-15-2020, 11:17 AM #188
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10-15-2020, 11:20 AM #189
Hey man, not here to attack you again, this part just stood out to me. Are girls not allowed to date and break up with someone and date again?
Are they supposed to sit around for some arbitrary time period and not have sex (because I know you'd judge them if they did have sex outside of a relationship), and once they've been single long enough for your arbitrary probation period, they are now no longer tramps?
Think about what you are saying and understand why so many people discount your advice on here. I was getting reps for calling you out in the other thread.
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10-15-2020, 12:45 PM #190
Advice above was spot on. There's no point in trying to build romantic relationships while you are still dealing with the fallout of the last one and yeah you should be doing some work on yourself to be more comfortable without a woman in your life.
"A stupid man's report of what a clever man says can never be accurate, because he unconsciously translates what he hears into something he can understand."
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10-15-2020, 01:22 PM #191
I don't disagree with your first paragraph. I think the way you originally worded your earlier post came out harsh. I agree in that it's what doomed OP.
Let's be real though. You admit you tried degenmaxing. No one who ever tried to degenmaxx and succeeded with HBBs ever quit right away like you did. LOL at getting a peck on the cheek at the end of a first date with a 5/10 girl from your study group and calling it degenerate behavior.
It's all a cope, and that's cool. I hope it works out for you, sincerely. I'll respect your life decisions and even support them. It's easier to admit you are not in the top 20 percent and to scale back and date average girls who you can force to be loyal than it is to go out and get rejected or not match any decent girls.
Cheers.Last edited by DBoyDaRealest; 10-15-2020 at 02:12 PM.
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10-15-2020, 10:30 PM #192
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10-15-2020, 11:36 PM #193
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10-16-2020, 09:07 AM #194
First of all...
Join Date: Nov 2012
Location: San Diego, California, United States
Age: 34
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On top of that, you're wearing a backwards cap and have two women who are paid to take pics with people as your AVI. LOL. And on a bodybuilding website. If I look up insecure and pathetic in the dictionary there's a 99.999% chance your AVI will be next to both definitions. Even just wearing a cap backwards instantly makes you a f*cking loser, which I'm sure you are.
By the way is that your instagram when I google search your username?
To everyone else who isn't a complete retard, I'm not looking for a long-term relationship lmfao. Just about every girl I talk to I tell I'm just out of something and am not looking to jump into something serious. Plus I've only caught legit feelings for two girls in 11-12 years of dating. The chances of me even contemplating a relationship with someone, especially right now, is extremely slim.
Also this 21 y/o saying that having sex out of a relationship is a sign of a low value person is so unbelievably idiotic and naïve that it's hilarious.
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10-16-2020, 11:22 AM #195
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10-16-2020, 11:33 AM #196
If you mean it generally makes a girl less desirable, but (at minimum) doesn't impact a man's desirability, then I'd agree.
if you want to GF every girl before you smash them I've got some bad news. really bad news. but maybe deep down you already know that
It's evident that the majority of men want the ability to fuk without commitment, but not all.
Probably the most respectful position is a man who can, but opts not to.𝕮𝖍𝖆𝖘𝖊 𝖆 𝖈𝖍𝖊𝖈𝕶, 𝖓𝖊𝖛𝖊𝖗 𝖈𝖍𝖆𝖘𝖊 𝖆 𝖇𝖎𝖙𝖈𝖍
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10-16-2020, 11:52 AM #197
One of the biggest cope themes of the misc, that goes beyond just this 21 year old kid in the above, is calling out miscers who do actually wheel, as degenerates, or that if we are getting sex outside of a relationship it must be from trash tier girls.
It's been a thing on here since 2012, and it will continue until the end of time.
Some dudes cannot fathom in their head that girls they think as "gf" material, engage in casual sex outside of relationships. It enrages them because they have never came close to any sexual encounters outside of a relationship, or nothing that was regular or from an actual HBB.
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11-09-2020, 11:00 PM #198
read the post where OP says made a date with his ex and the guy shes talking to, so that he can show her she can take her time....
Doesn't get any more BETA than this... Pathetic peterNo Rot Crew
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11-10-2020, 11:29 AM #199
First bolded sentence: liar looking for emotional currency so she can excuse away aggressive, manipulative behavior "because I was raped." Once she lays something like this on you, you're suddenly in the red in context to emotional currency.
2nd bolded paragraph, holy lmao bro, she's nuts
you leave out these little bread crumbs that add up to a whole god damn loafAugust 2023:
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11-10-2020, 02:20 PM #200
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So that's about 3 posts a day. lmao
On top of that, you're wearing a backwards cap and have two women who are paid to take pics with people as your AVI. LOL. And on a bodybuilding website. If I look up insecure and pathetic in the dictionary there's a 99.999% chance your AVI will be next to both definitions. Even just wearing a cap backwards instantly makes you a f*cking loser, which I'm sure you are.
By the way is that your instagram when I google search your username?
To everyone else who isn't a complete retard, I'm not looking for a long-term relationship lmfao. Just about every girl I talk to I tell I'm just out of something and am not looking to jump into something serious. Plus I've only caught legit feelings for two girls in 11-12 years of dating. The chances of me even contemplating a relationship with someone, especially right now, is extremely slim.
Also this 21 y/o saying that having sex out of a relationship is a sign of a low value person is so unbelievably idiotic and naïve that it's hilarious.USMC 0311
*Ice Hockey/Lacrosse Crew*
*fukkin zeezbrah when pickin up chicks but do one thing to fuk it up/cant sustain after that night crew*
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11-11-2020, 06:07 AM #201
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11-12-2020, 02:15 PM #202
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11-12-2020, 08:22 PM #203
Replying to your original post, your answer to her was good.
But usually it is already a disaster waiting to happen when you met someone right after their breakup.
Better wait, give them a few months, tell them to come back to you later, when they are at least to some degree over it.~~~ Children of seeds:
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