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    I Cant Believe How A Lot of People Cannot Live Being Single

    I noticed it even way back. Usually women... after a breakup, they just jump to the next relationship. I know girls who are depressed because they are single for a few months.

    Now, my gf's friend just broke up with her bf 2 weeks ago(hang out with us crying), now we found out she got a new bf.

    I enjoy being in a relationship, but damn, being single is awesome as well! I suggest adults should at least try spending a few years being single.
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    Depends on the type of person. There are both men and women who can't be alone for long periods of time.

    I was completely alone for many years and there were both positives and negatives of it. Positives, good routines that were undisturbed. Negatives, very lonely especially during the holidays.
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    Originally Posted by MuzzieChik786 View Post
    Depends on the type of person. There are both men and women who can't be alone for long periods of time.

    I was completely alone for many years and there were both positives and negatives of it. Positives, good routines that were undisturbed. Negatives, very lonely especially during the holidays.
    Yeah, as long as you spent enough time on both, so you can really see what it is like. Others can't. Maybe it is some sort of self-esteem issue or some traumatic event in childhood that lead them to be needy?
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    I always lol when women say they are lonely. These kunts have absolutely no idea what lonely is. LMFAO
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    I’ve been overwhelmingly single most of my life. It’s gets lonely sometimes but most of the time I’m pretty content
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    Had a gf for a year in highschool and was miserable the whole time. Single 4 lyfe
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    Being single is very good short term. Anything from a few months to a few years alone is healthy.

    Taking at least a year off from dating after a major breakup or divorce is very useful imo. That way you can reconnect with yourself without any distractions and focus on setting your own goals.

    Long term more than a few years is no good though. Gets very lonely and you really miss out on a lot. I’m at 8 years now which is way too long.
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    Men have always been overall more lonely than women.

    And yea I know a lot of girls who jump from guy to guy because they can’t stand being alone. Men are more available than women and they have more options than men most of the time.

    My ex gf settled hard as fukkk after me. New bf looks like he’s 65 and is morbidly obese. He was in the friend zone for 12+ years and swooped in right after we broke up. I can’t believe my eyes when I see them on facebook. I was the one to leave her and by no means did I ever want her back. But goddamn it’s depressing to look at.

    Selfishly, you never wanna see your ex get an upgrade with some 10/10 guy but this girl went in the opposite direction and I’m starting to think this way might be worse.

    My brain is so fukked up that when I’m in a relationship, I wish I was single and when I’m single, I wish I were in a relationship. Except for those first several months where everything’s great, there’s no arguments, you’re fukking this awesome girl anytime you want, etc. and then it just becomes boring.
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    Originally Posted by ChristmasFnatic View Post
    Yeah, as long as you spent enough time on both, so you can really see what it is like. Others can't. Maybe it is some sort of self-esteem issue or some traumatic event in childhood that lead them to be needy?
    Or they grew up in a large family and so solitude is uncomfortable.
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    Originally Posted by andrew28 View Post
    Men have always been overall more lonely than women.

    And yea I know a lot of girls who jump from guy to guy because they can’t stand being alone. Men are more available than women and they have more options than men most of the time.

    My ex gf settled hard as fukkk after me. New bf looks like he’s 65 and is morbidly obese. He was in the friend zone for 12+ years and swooped in right after we broke up. I can’t believe my eyes when I see them on facebook. I was the one to leave her and by no means did I ever want her back. But goddamn it’s depressing to look at.

    Selfishly, you never wanna see your ex get an upgrade with some 10/10 guy but this girl went in the opposite direction and I’m starting to think this way might be worse.
    One of my exs, after 1 week of us breaking up, found a new bf. I accepted the break up, but when I learned she got a new bf after 1 week, I was offended and hurt. 2 years+ of relationship and she moved on so easily. Sloots gonna sloot.


    That was in 2016. Last January, she messaged me in FB and sent friend request, I did not even read. Left her request in limbo. Sloots gonna sloot.
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    Originally Posted by Silencespeaks View Post
    Taking at least a year off from dating after a major breakup or divorce is very useful imo.
    this should be standard procedure for everybody especially after a long relationship.

    but there are people that are so miserable they would rather be with someone they don't really want to be with than being alone.
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    Originally Posted by ChristmasFnatic View Post
    One of my exs, after 1 week of us breaking up, found a new bf. I accepted the break up, but when I learned she got a new bf after 1 week, I was offended and hurt. 2 years+ of relationship and she moved on so easily. Sloots gonna sloot.


    That was in 2016. Last January, she messaged me in FB and sent friend request, I did not even read. Left her request in limbo. Sloots gonna sloot.
    Oh that sh!t hurts bad man. Real bad.

    I can honestly say I’ve never had a “plan b girl” who would’ve swooped in the second I became single. But I feel like a lot of girls have that from my experience.
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    Originally Posted by ChristmasFnatic View Post
    Yeah, as long as you spent enough time on both, so you can really see what it is like. Others can't. Maybe it is some sort of self-esteem issue or some traumatic event in childhood that lead them to be needy?
    I think it’s about emotional maturity. It takes maturity to be comfortable alone with your own company and to go out to places alone. Dependency on other people is an emotional immaturity.

    The long term lone wolf life is no good either though. If you get too comfortable always being alone then you’ll miss out on a lot. Best is when people can be comfortable alone for a year or so and then start looking toward a new relationship. Because relationships ultimately do make life more fulfilling.
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    Single since I was born in summer of 1982. If it's the only existence you know, it is just life. The pros and cons are difficult to list for me, as I have nothing to compare the lifestyle too.

    I agree with Wincel when he states "These kunts have absolutely no idea what lonely is."

    Vampires, wizards and Elves can be single for hundreds of years, so GTFO with this "muh single for 2 weeks" BS.
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    I always lol when women say they are lonely. These kunts have absolutely no idea what lonely is. LMFAO
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    I always lol when women say they are lonely. These kunts have absolutely no idea what lonely is. LMFAO
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    Oh that sh!t hurts bad man. Real bad.

    I can honestly say I’ve never had a “plan b girl” who would’ve swooped in the second I became single. But I feel like a lot of girls have that from my experience.
    Yeah. I was already sad cuz of the breakup. But I see the logic of the reason we had to. But when she found another, that placed me in a new form of sadness. But I am over her now. Even 2 of her close friends sided with me, and 1 became close with me til now.

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    I think it’s about emotional maturity. It takes maturity to be comfortable alone with your own company and to go out to places alone. Dependency on other people is an emotional immaturity.

    The long term lone wolf life is no good either though. If you get too comfortable always being alone then you’ll miss out on a lot. Best is when people can be comfortable alone for a year or so and then start looking toward a new relationship. Because relationships ultimately do make life more fulfilling.
    I was married. I was single. Several ****ty serious and non-serious relationships. Lots of flings. I can say being single is GOAT(if you take care of yourself and have confidence). Single is bad when you have low self esteem and cannot have fun with the opposite sex(like when I was in my early 20s). Relationship is great as well. Glad my gf and I agree on many things(despite the age difference) otherwise it would get boring so fast.
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    I feel like when I'm single I always wish I had a loving gf, not just for sex but hang out and chit... and when I do get one I regret it a few weeks in and wish I was alone... Repeat cycle. You can't have total freedom with a gf, sometimes i just want to lock myself and play guitar for 2 days straight without leaving my room or travel alone so I can enjoy a new country at my own pace..
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    I feel like when I'm single I always wish I had a loving gf, not just for sex but hang out and chit... and when I do get one I regret it a few weeks in and wish I was alone... Repeat cycle. You can't have total freedom with a gf, sometimes i just want to lock myself and play guitar for 2 days straight without leaving my room or travel alone so I can enjoy a new country at my own pace..
    Yeah I know that if I do get a new relationship I’ll have to compromise on how to spend free time and I will miss being free to do whatever I feel like. You will have to spend time on outings that they want and visit their family and hang out with their friends etc. My ex for example like to shop a lot so we went to the mall almost every weekend for shopping and returns. Whereas I’d rather go do active stuff or be outside like pool or bike rides etc.
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    Originally Posted by MuzzieChik786 View Post
    Depends on the type of person. There are both men and women who can't be alone for long periods of time.

    I was completely alone for many years and there were both positives and negatives of it. Positives, good routines that were undisturbed. Negatives, very lonely especially during the holidays.
    I've been single for like a little over a year now, and it's been pretty freeing. I was also single for two years before that. Someone once told me that if you need to be in a relationship, that it might be a sign you aren't in love with yourself enough, and that you need someone else to love you. There's definitely pros and cons to being single, but I agree that everyone should know how to be single. You get to see what makes you truly happy and what you want to do. I find that once you know how to be alone, that people will find you more attractive since you will be happy, and they will want a piece of it.

    When I first became single, it sucked, and honestly it was the worst around the holidays since everyone else spends time with their SO's and they post photos and stuff. However, after a while I started to get back into it. I started to feel a lot better about myself and learned what I wanted in a partner. Then one day I ran into someone and we started to talk. They later told me that it seemed like I knew what I wanted in life, and that they shared similar goals to mine so she kept hitting me up. We ended up dating for 2 years until she broke up with me lol. So now I'm single again and honestly I couldn't be any happier at the moment. I have a lot of huge things coming up in my life that I have worked very hard for, and I want to seem them come to fruition.

    I would say that not having direction in your life, or a goal is one of the most unattractive things for a potential partner. You're a risk in their mind because they aren't sure what they are going to get, and if you will either bring them down or bring them up.
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