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    Thumbs down got dumped 2nd time in the last 4 months lmao

    feels bad man.

    had 3.5 months relationship with some girl
    from December 2019 till April 02.
    Started dating a new girl on April 16,
    till yesterday.
    3.5 months as well.
    you know whats crazier?
    they have the same name.
    and they both dumped my ass.

    Because of me? maybe.
    this girl, unlike the previous , I called her today (after the breakup call last night) and literally begged her to "give it a last chance".

    She just kept saying "I thought about it and we have no future together, we have a different approach and everything.. we just don't fit togethet"
    and I ended the call with "please think about it one more time and let me know,call me"
    and shes like "don't expect for anything, I don't promise ill call u, my decision is final."
    lol.. wtf never thought I'm gonna be such a beta but yeah I wanted this rs to last more and shes kinda important for me so I had the need to fight for it. but it seems like she already decided.

    You know whats crazy?
    she's a 3/10
    she's 26 (and I'm 24)
    she was a VIRGIN till I met her AND never kissed a guy before!! (srs).
    II mean she had no clue how to kiss or have any type of sex.

    So I'm literally the first guy she ever dated (she claimed that she went out on 2 fail dated with some dude and thats it).

    So let me understand how can she dump me and how didnt she fell in love with the first guy who actually gave her any attention ??
    I thought she will want to have me for ever because of this because I'm her first. first in everything!! first kiss, first bj,hj, sex, first guy who slept in her home and met her parents in family gathering.. wtf how can she just leave me?

    guys I'm so done with girls I mean I have no more energy for that kind of chit...

    cliffs:
    dated a girl for 3.5 months
    she's 26 and I'm 24
    I'm her first in everything.
    first guy she ever dated, first kiss, sex, met her parents, everything.

    she just dumped me lol with no regrets.
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    Why would you get in a relationship with a 3/10 and beg her?

    Good riddance
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    Originally Posted by DustinTheHuss View Post
    Why would you get in a relationship with a 3/10 and beg her?

    Good riddance
    I'd I guess I needed a rebound after the first breakup .. and it turned to be a rs and a very convenient one.. she lives 15 minutes by foot from me. its great to come by at 10pm and leave at 12am.. cuz I study all day long ..
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    Originally Posted by TheTyler2013 View Post
    I'd I guess I needed a rebound after the first breakup
    If all she is was a rebound why are you so needy towards her?

    Woman can sense this and it's a huge turnoff.
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    Originally Posted by skinnyfat88 View Post
    If all she is was a rebound why are you so needy towards her?

    Woman can sense this and it's a huge turnoff.
    because it's so comfortable bro!
    she lives 15 minutes from me by foot and 2 min with a car.

    That means I can just walk to her whenever I want without making big ass plans or waste time on driving..

    all my previous girl lived at least 20-30 minutes by car from me.. so yeah I kinda feel in heaven rn by that.

    idk bro.. I mean part of me being needy and desperate to get her back is because im a solid 5-6/10 and her first guy.
    she's 3-4/10 so I thought she would never even think about leaving me..
    I guess I was wrong lol.

    and most of all, I'm in an exams period right now, 3 weeks of non stop studying. so its more conevint for me to get a girl who lives 10 minutes from me than start dating a new random girl that lives who knows where and spend time on getting to know her and all that bs first dates thing..
    I'm out of time or energy for that ..
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    Originally Posted by MIKES3 View Post
    Why not take a break and figure out things. Thats exactly what I'm doing. I've never felt better
    because I already feel like chit. I. studying non stop so I have 0 time for family or friends. so at least I spent some nights with the girl.. had some good meals, some relationship bs, sex and etc..

    I'm not good at staying single and "figuring out things".. I'm always chasing and getting on that Tinder till I find someone and then I screw it up.
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    Originally Posted by TheTyler2013 View Post
    I'd I guess I needed a rebound after the first breakup .. and it turned to be a rs and a very convenient one.. she lives 15 minutes by foot from me. its great to come by at 10pm and leave at 12am.. cuz I study all day long ..
    I would have found a better rebound lol. 3/10s are untouchables
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    Even a 3/10 has hundreds of guys chasing her. Forget this chick and find a better one. Maybe a more attractive one.
    For me, i'd rather fap than go anywhere near a 3/10, but to each their own.
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    I dunno man. Tough to have any sympathy for you whatsoever if you had no serious/longterm intentions with this girl but were begging and pleading for her to stay strictly for your short term enjoyment.

    Work on yourself until you feel confident and worthy of the type of women you want.
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    Originally Posted by marinevet63031 View Post
    Women don't want a guy who is needy. There is the big problem. You must act like a man. Women like a plan, someone confident.
    dude that's some misc immature logic here
    I mean yes, you are absolutely right about women don't want a needy or soft guy.

    but on the other hand , she knows I'm a "real" man. There is no shame at all in fighting for the woman you want even if she says "no".
    There is nothing beta in trying to get her back if she means something for ya.

    update:
    so I went to her place 2 hours ago, and called her and told her "hey, I'm outside your door"
    she opened up and let me in.
    we talked about 2 hours while sitting on her bed.
    I thought that coming to her and talk face to face will soft her up because as I said I'm a 5-6 and shes a 3.. and maybe hugs and kisses will soft her up.
    she barley touched me lmao.
    she cried and was very strict about not getting back and told me "I have 0 feeling for you right now, I'm sorry. I still care about you, but nothing else"
    that sentence killed me and I left right after it.
    she texted me "look, I appreciate the fight but I don't want u to get wrong expections. I care about u so im telling u to use that energy on other important things like your study."

    I texted "ok, thanks." and thats it..

    I guess its over..
    so yep, 2 dumps in 4 months. chit hurts
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    Originally Posted by backinthegymbro View Post
    Even a 3/10 has hundreds of guys chasing her. Forget this chick and find a better one. Maybe a more attractive one.
    For me, i'd rather fap than go anywhere near a 3/10, but to each their own.
    her body is 5/10 but face is 3/10.
    for me her body is 8/10 cut shes thicc af and have perfect thights and boobs. so idc about the face.

    idk it feels lame to get back to fapping rather than have a girl that lives 15minutes away from u..

    maybe you guys are right and I should work on myself and start getting at least 5's.. idk

    p.s
    your first sentence was "even 3's have guys chasing them"
    as I said man, she had 0 guys before me.
    I'm her first kisser, first sex, everything, even first date. (not really because she dated some wierd guy for 2 dates and stopped it) but besides that, nothing.

    so its even more wierd for me to dump the only guy that gave u any attention in your entire 26 years life.
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    Originally Posted by TheTyler2013 View Post
    dude that's some misc immature logic here
    I mean yes, you are absolutely right about women don't want a needy or soft guy.

    but on the other hand , she knows I'm a "real" man. There is no shame at all in fighting for the woman you want even if she says "no".
    There is nothing beta in trying to get her back if she means something for ya.

    update:
    so I went to her place 2 hours ago, and called her and told her "hey, I'm outside your door"
    she opened up and let me in.
    we talked about 2 hours while sitting on her bed.
    I thought that coming to her and talk face to face will soft her up because as I said I'm a 5-6 and shes a 3.. and maybe hugs and kisses will soft her up.
    she barley touched me lmao.
    she cried and was very strict about not getting back and told me "I have 0 feeling for you right now, I'm sorry. I still care about you, but nothing else"
    that sentence killed me and I left right after it.
    she texted me "look, I appreciate the fight but I don't want u to get wrong expections. I care about u so im telling u to use that energy on other important things like your study."

    I texted "ok, thanks." and thats it..

    I guess its over..
    so yep, 2 dumps in 4 months. chit hurts
    talking for 2 hours? what are you a female?
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    To me it sounds like she could sense your neediness and this scared her away. Considering you were only dating for 3.5 months you seem way too invested. And if you think you’re the only guy who gave her attention I’ve got some bad news for you.

    Also you sort of ruined any chances of getting back with her by the way you handled the break up. If a girl dumps you, the last thing you should do is start calling and begging for her back, all that does is confirm her reason(s) for breaking up with you. Now she knows she can have you whenever she wants. You should have gone no contact. Not sure why you’re so bothered though if she was just a rebound and a 3/10? Oneitis maybe?
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    Originally Posted by TheTyler2013 View Post
    p.s
    your first sentence was "even 3's have guys chasing them"
    as I said man, she had 0 guys before me.
    I'm her first kisser, first sex, everything, even first date. (not really because she dated some wierd guy for 2 dates and stopped it) but besides that, nothing.

    so its even more wierd for me to dump the only guy that gave u any attention in your entire 26 years life.
    I was my ex girlfriends first too. After we broke up, she slept with a different guy every single week, one night stands and everything.
    Became the biggest sloot i've ever known irl, when she used to be innocent.

    Once women get a taste of dick, they'll want more of it. A lot more.
    And all those guys hitting her up, she'll want to try like she's in a candy store that gives away free candy.
    So you being her first is usually the red flag on its own, because there are 2 types of women in this world.
    Virgins and sloots. Well, you got rid of her virginity so guess what she became now?

    Of course it's possible she's one of the extremely rare women who rather stays single and not love all the male attention etc.
    But if she downloads any dating app like tinder or whatever, you bet her inbox will get blown up with thirsty dudes.
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    What reason did they give for dumping you?
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    Originally Posted by MuzzieChik786 View Post
    What reason did they give for dumping you?

    The first one was depressed (took pills to balance and chit and cut her veins when she was a teen girl) and the sex was horrible which means:

    she was too scared to use the pull out method
    she was too scared to have sex while her parents are awake
    she was too scared to meet me even at my place/hers while there is covid-19 chit around

    she also lived 35 minutes from me and had no car, so I was the only one who made the drive each time and it's exhausting because I also have a lot of study on top of my head..

    So all that leaded to seeing her once a week for half a day.. almost no sex and feels like she's always stressed while we have sex because of the no condom chit. (she even cried once after we finished fawk)

    She was also a vegan so... basically not so fun to go out and eat somewhere because we need to find some place who have good vegan meals but also good "normal" meals lol.

    So all those stuff leaded to non stop arguments, fights and tension until we had another fight and she told me she can't do it anymore and it's not healthy for her mental health to fight and cry every 3 days.. (yeah we fought alot)

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    The second girl was a virgin. she's 26. Also never dated a guy, never even kissed a guy and done anything sexual with him.
    3 weeks going out till we had sex. It was great and we had so much fun.
    Then my exams period (idk how it's called in the US) came, which basically means I have an exam every week for a month and a half.
    So I need to study 24/7.

    Good thing is she lives 15 minutes away from me, by foot, and 2 minutes by car.
    So I could just jump to her place 2-3 times a week at 10 pm and return at 11am.. and we can watch some netflix, have some sex, sleep together.. good stuff.

    But we argued alot (like the previous girl) because....again:
    I felt like i'm the only one who initaes sex and I actually needed more sex from her
    I felt like it's kinda bummer to come by at 10pm, and then she just falls asleep at 12.. so we barley have 2 hours together.. she fell asleep cuz she woke early to work.
    So we fought alot in the last 2 weeks and we had the fights that end with "ok this is the last time it happens. If we fight even one more time. we need to break it up because we can't continue like this".

    Yeah I know I fawked this up because I had no reasons at all to be mad at the 2nd girl...

    So this week, on Monday, 2 days ago, I had an exam.
    After the exam she asked me if I wanna hang out today and I said yeah of course.
    I told her "i'm going to watch some netflix and grab something to eat" and she told me "yeah sure.. no pressure cuz I also doing some work for my course"(she also studies).
    3 hours later i'm like "umm so I guess we're not meeting up today" and she was like "why not?" and i'm like "cuz it's late and I did no get any text from u that u done your work"
    she replied "if u really wanted to meet you could just send me a text and say whats up, but u didnt do it.. so dont't play these games with me because it seems like that you who didnt want to meet up. I just waited for you text because you said you're going to eat and watch netflix".
    i'm like "chit.. don't start the drama"
    she continued a little bit, I did not reply.
    she's like "oh so you gonna ignore and not try to fix it? or call me?"
    I ignored that also.
    2 minutes later
    "well fine. so I don't see any reason to call you either"
    I ignored it.
    and 3 minutes later she called me and said on the first sentence "umm I think we need to break it up"
    I said "ok" and hanged up.
    she did not text me .
    Then I called her a day after that to explain her that I want her and blah blah blah and convince her to give it a last chance.. and she's like "sorry, we just not fit together".
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    sucks when a girl literally lives 2 minutes away and still doesnt want to be with you anymore..
    happened a few times.

    always end up talking to girls who live an hour away because theres something wrong with scarborough girls where they arent into me
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    Originally Posted by TheTyler2013 View Post

    So this week, on Monday, 2 days ago, I had an exam.
    After the exam she asked me if I wanna hang out today and I said yeah of course.
    I told her "i'm going to watch some netflix and grab something to eat" and she told me "yeah sure.. no pressure cuz I also doing some work for my course"(she also studies).
    3 hours later i'm like "umm so I guess we're not meeting up today" and she was like "why not?" and i'm like "cuz it's late and I did no get any text from u that u done your work"
    she replied "if u really wanted to meet you could just send me a text and say whats up, but u didnt do it.. so dont't play these games with me because it seems like that you who didnt want to meet up. I just waited for you text because you said you're going to eat and watch netflix".
    i'm like "chit.. don't start the drama"
    she continued a little bit, I did not reply.
    she's like "oh so you gonna ignore and not try to fix it? or call me?"
    I ignored that also.
    2 minutes later
    "well fine. so I don't see any reason to call you either"
    I ignored it.
    and 3 minutes later she called me and said on the first sentence "umm I think we need to break it up"
    I said "ok" and hanged up.
    she did not text me .
    Then I called her a day after that to explain her that I want her and blah blah blah and convince her to give it a last chance.. and she's like "sorry, we just not fit together".
    This is pathetic. Just call her and make firm plans about what time you'll hangout and this all could've been avoided.
    You said in an earlier post you are a "real man" but this is not acting like it.
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    Originally Posted by Nicklol View Post
    sucks when a girl literally lives 2 minutes away and still doesnt want to be with you anymore..
    happened a few times.

    always end up talking to girls who live an hour away because theres something wrong with scarborough girls where they arent into me
    so much this....
    dude she's literally the first girl I had in my life that lives 2 minutes away and not 30 minutes by car.
    I got used to it, it's more than perfect..I can't start dating girls that live 30 minutes away because it will feel like hell considered to what I had here.
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    Originally Posted by skinnyfat88 View Post
    This is pathetic. Just call her and make firm plans about what time you'll hangout and this all could've been avoided.
    You said in an earlier post you are a "real man" but this is not acting like it.
    yep I agree bro. I acted like a child and I understand it just now. I was lecturing her for 2 hours on the phone and for 2 hours yesterday infront of her, and nothing helped bro..
    I was making firm plans and told her "look. It's not gonna happen again. I get it now. I value the thing we have and I don't want it to blow.
    I mean it's fawking crazy, think about it! If we hanged out yesterday, all this could be avoided, so lets try this one more time.. I mean come on... think about all the good time we had and not the last 2 weeks.. We had 3 good months together and 3 more bad weeks, thats not a reason to throw everything."

    And stuff like that.
    Nothing helped.
    She just continued to tell me it's final and there is no going back for her and she doesn't see me as a potential partner anymore. She actually told me that.
    "I just don't look at you as I used to anymore"

    p.s lol @ you always try to help me with these stuff and I always blow it up again and again and again..
    a new thread every 2-3 months.
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    Originally Posted by TheTyler2013 View Post
    yep I agree bro. I acted like a child and I understand it just now. I was lecturing her for 2 hours on the phone and for 2 hours yesterday infront of her, and nothing helped bro..
    If you're in a relationship where you need to lecture anyone it's doomed.

    You can't show that anything they do rustles you.

    "The Way of the Superior Man" would be a good read for you.

    Some simple reasons why these two relationships failed. The first one you put her on a pedestal. The second one you thought you were superior to her.
    A relationship should flow much better with someone you see as an equal (and you should get yourself to a place where you don't put anyone on a pedestal above you).
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    Originally Posted by TheTyler2013 View Post
    The first one was depressed (took pills to balance and chit and cut her veins when she was a teen girl) and the sex was horrible which means:

    she was too scared to use the pull out method
    she was too scared to have sex while her parents are awake
    she was too scared to meet me even at my place/hers while there is covid-19 chit around

    she also lived 35 minutes from me and had no car, so I was the only one who made the drive each time and it's exhausting because I also have a lot of study on top of my head..

    So all that leaded to seeing her once a week for half a day.. almost no sex and feels like she's always stressed while we have sex because of the no condom chit. (she even cried once after we finished fawk)

    She was also a vegan so... basically not so fun to go out and eat somewhere because we need to find some place who have good vegan meals but also good "normal" meals lol.

    So all those stuff leaded to non stop arguments, fights and tension until we had another fight and she told me she can't do it anymore and it's not healthy for her mental health to fight and cry every 3 days.. (yeah we fought alot)

    ----------

    The second girl was a virgin. she's 26. Also never dated a guy, never even kissed a guy and done anything sexual with him.
    3 weeks going out till we had sex. It was great and we had so much fun.
    Then my exams period (idk how it's called in the US) came, which basically means I have an exam every week for a month and a half.
    So I need to study 24/7.

    Good thing is she lives 15 minutes away from me, by foot, and 2 minutes by car.
    So I could just jump to her place 2-3 times a week at 10 pm and return at 11am.. and we can watch some netflix, have some sex, sleep together.. good stuff.

    But we argued alot (like the previous girl) because....again:
    I felt like i'm the only one who initaes sex and I actually needed more sex from her
    I felt like it's kinda bummer to come by at 10pm, and then she just falls asleep at 12.. so we barley have 2 hours together.. she fell asleep cuz she woke early to work.
    So we fought alot in the last 2 weeks and we had the fights that end with "ok this is the last time it happens. If we fight even one more time. we need to break it up because we can't continue like this".

    Yeah I know I fawked this up because I had no reasons at all to be mad at the 2nd girl...

    So this week, on Monday, 2 days ago, I had an exam.
    After the exam she asked me if I wanna hang out today and I said yeah of course.
    I told her "i'm going to watch some netflix and grab something to eat" and she told me "yeah sure.. no pressure cuz I also doing some work for my course"(she also studies).
    3 hours later i'm like "umm so I guess we're not meeting up today" and she was like "why not?" and i'm like "cuz it's late and I did no get any text from u that u done your work"
    she replied "if u really wanted to meet you could just send me a text and say whats up, but u didnt do it.. so dont't play these games with me because it seems like that you who didnt want to meet up. I just waited for you text because you said you're going to eat and watch netflix".
    i'm like "chit.. don't start the drama"
    she continued a little bit, I did not reply.
    she's like "oh so you gonna ignore and not try to fix it? or call me?"
    I ignored that also.
    2 minutes later
    "well fine. so I don't see any reason to call you either"
    I ignored it.
    and 3 minutes later she called me and said on the first sentence "umm I think we need to break it up"
    I said "ok" and hanged up.
    she did not text me .
    Then I called her a day after that to explain her that I want her and blah blah blah and convince her to give it a last chance.. and she's like "sorry, we just not fit together".
    You are WAY too needy. Seriously, get your testosterone checked. Dudes aren't supposed to be like this.

    And men DO need more sex than women, so obviously you'd be initiating most of the time. I don't see what the problem is here. Why are you complaining that you have to do all the work???

    Women want to be with men, not girly men. And sorry, but your drama would be a lot of a female to handle. Tone it down a bit.
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    was going to comment seriously then saw red and a wall of text.
    Good luck if not trolling red insect
    do it. comment seriously or don't comment at all.
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    Originally Posted by skinnyfat88 View Post
    If you're in a relationship where you need to lecture anyone it's doomed.

    You can't show that anything they do rustles you.

    "The Way of the Superior Man" would be a good read for you.

    Some simple reasons why these two relationships failed. The first one you put her on a pedestal. The second one you thought you were superior to her.
    A relationship should flow much better with someone you see as an equal (and you should get yourself to a place where you don't put anyone on a pedestal above you).
    check the rest of my previous comment.
    I did not put her on a pdestal , we always fought and I threatened to break up from her because I thought that will "change" her into what I want. because I thought that she will always need me because im the best guy she can get (for real bro..) but I guess this is not the case.
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    Originally Posted by MuzzieChik786 View Post
    You are WAY too needy. Seriously, get your testosterone checked. Dudes aren't supposed to be like this.

    And men DO need more sex than women, so obviously you'd be initiating most of the time. I don't see what the problem is here. Why are you complaining that you have to do all the work???

    Women want to be with men, not girly men. And sorry, but your drama would be a lot of a female to handle. Tone it down a bit.
    Please explain me what exactly is "drama" .
    I just got frustrated because of her not meeting my gf expectations...so I was drama because I was tired of negative thoughts about "I need more sex"
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