Idk guys I hate feeling like this, the feeling of feeling alone all the time. Even when I’m with my friends I feel alone. Never had a girlfriend, always tell myself that this shyt will heal but it never does. At this point I really stopped looking for someone I’ve gotten to the point where I just don’t care about anything. A couple of days ago I went to a party and when I left I drove on the freeway crying and speeding hoping I crashed but I didn’t. Some days I feel great for like 5 minutes then all the emotions just start to pour in. As much as I try to stay positive I just always end up getting negative thoughts. My dreams are starting to fade away everyday and I just don’t know how I can cope with it any longer.
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08-03-2020, 07:22 PM #1
Starting to realize life doesn’t get any better
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08-03-2020, 07:32 PM #4
A girlfriend won’t make that feeling go away. You’ll just have one more thing that makes your relationship hard to work out. You sound legit depressed, and nobody on the misc can fix that for you. We aren’t qualified to give you that kind of advice, because you know you better than we do. Figure out what it is that makes you discontent with your station in life, seek counseling, and be vigilant.
I've been seeing the past in one eye and the present in the other. So, I thought I could only see patches of reality, never the whole picture. I felt like I was watching a dream I could never wake up from. Before I knew it, the dream was over.
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08-03-2020, 07:40 PM #11
You have a lot of time to grow. I felt the same way as you until I was almost 29 years old. Turned my life around, so it's not too late.
I have also been consumed by my mental issues for most of my life. Take this stuff seriously, and find a way to grow past it so it doesn't affect your future. It doesn't have to, unless you let it.
You want to be an influencer? You have a lot of competition now days, but you can do it. Spend more time in the gym, eating, take fkn hormones if you need to. Work on yourself and your personality so people gravitate towards you.
Your attitude is everything. Bad attitude like yours in the OP is guarantee setting yourself up as a incel failure.
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08-03-2020, 07:41 PM #12
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08-03-2020, 08:03 PM #14
this
Other generations used to be able to get married, have kids, buy a house, have a non s*it tier job all by their mid 20s.
Now, its like you can barely claw your way to these things by 40 if you're lucky.
Without these things, man is just drifting.
All I can say is find a cope OP. I love videogames so I just make life about enjoying those and other things I like. Empty, but not as depressing as just nothing
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08-03-2020, 08:58 PM #19
Bro, I feel you
There were days I felt like that too. Taking huge risks because I just didn't give a ****
Keeping this to yourself is probaply not a good idea though. Reach out to someone, even if they can 't help you directly. Just putting that **** out there can already make a big difference
A girlfriend may seem like the answer but I can tell you are not ready for a relationship
What you need is a goal in life. What do you want to do? Who do you want to be? and become
Life rarely gets better on it's own
You need to actively work on a better future. The reason you are depressed is likely because you drift around aimlessLast edited by MadFury; 08-03-2020 at 09:06 PM.
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08-03-2020, 09:01 PM #20
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Congrats bro, you are exactly like every other dumbfuk young person out there.. Greatest hope in life is to become a fuking influencer, diagnoses himself as mentally unstable and no skills or anything to offer so works in grocery store..
Good news is you're still young man.. Learn a real skill and better your mind and body.. Not for the internet or sloots, but for yourself.. Eat good healthy food, get enough sleep and most importantly have a legit goal in your life.. Guarantee your mental problems will vanish but it will take time and effort
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08-03-2020, 09:02 PM #22
24 is young AF
You have an entire life ahead of you to make it what you want it to be. But you have to put in the effort to get there. Invest in yourself via education (formal or informal) and hard work. Think of the type of person you want to be and work towards being that person. You can do it, bro! But the self-pity and negative feelings, you gotta block those out. If you're focused on improving and moving forward and working hard you won't have any time to mope, so get to work!---GIVE-------------------------------
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08-03-2020, 09:15 PM #23
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You’re 24 and never had a GF? You seem like a decent dude. It’s not uncommon, even though she was a miscer I didn’t have my first GF till I was 21. My 21st birthday passed and I got emotional after a few beers cause I had never even slept with a girl up to that point. It’s cool don’t get me wrong but it’s also pretty overrated OP. You create the drive in your life, you have to find what gives you purpose and a woman won’t fill that void. I have those days also, but I also have things that while not always they do bring me joy.
Guitar, gym, misc, etc.
You’re gonna make it brahNo man has the right to be an amateur in the matter of physical training. It is a shame for a man to grow old without seeing the beauty and strength of which his body is capable.
-Socrates
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08-03-2020, 09:29 PM #27
OP its time to get serious about your life brah. What do you ENJOY doing? Start working on getting some skills that can be useful. I've recently started working on learning to fix things around the house because it is far cheaper than calling someone to do it and it's actually quite enjoyable once you get pasted some frustrating bits. I've done a lot of painting, plumbing (fixing sprinkler system not legit plumbing lmao), and doing vehicle maintenance. I've honestly considered trying to start a small business just doing some car detailing and maybe getting to the point where I can paint cars or do a full car wrap. It is really interesting to me the idea of being able to make a car look close to new with a solid clean and buff.
Hopefully something of this gives you an idea fam.Fitness connoisseur
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