Starting to realize life doesn’t get any better

[KingofLifts]

Life is what you make out of it.

Grow a pair and start living.

Inb4 the merge.

He doesn't sound like a whiny b1tch to me.. just a guy who's lost.

[BigElephant]

If you're unhappy now, adding a girlfriend into your life isn't going to magically make you a happy and fulfilled person. I used to think that a relationship alone would make my life worth living. If you go through life with this expectation you're going to let yourself down. If you do happen to find a girl for a relationship, this mentality is just going to put added pressure on you and by extension your girl.

[mesobuild]

build your network in systems respecting seniority. relating to people outside your network from a higher stature comprises the majority of older people's pleasure, and it actually does more for you than the youthful pleasures like entertainment.

[vitruv]

Kinda weird how that’s your avi and no one likes your posts

Also do you have any backup plan? I’m all for young dudes trying the influencer route but you have to be willing to experiment with lots of tech and stomp on others to move up

[SlashandDash]

Female here - Think you need to find something that gives you purpose and fulfilled. Hope you are ok!!

[F.A.P.]

Anyone over 25 could tell you that. There is no getting better, only worse.

[wannabe-strong]

Whats your diet brah??? stop trying to be ripped and have aesthetics. gotta join the powerlifting/endurance diet crew and crush carbs/good fats (along with a ton of veggies tho).

[MuslimBrahSwag]

Look up tawhid and read the Qu ran

[bfdehewdbyywhn]

pretty sadd story. will tell to my grand kids

[Battlefury]

Loser mentality right here.

[PimpMasterC]

I’m 24

Yes I think I have mental issues

I always wanted to be a influencer on instagram for like fitness and stuff but I never post because no one likes my posts

And I work at a grocery store atm

Find another goal/dream than being an influencer lmao. That niche is already super oversaturated anyway, unless you really love it and is your passion. Build a home for yourself, write a book, make music or something. And meditate

[wincel]

I was like u bruh. Go to therapy srs. It will help you. Don't wait til u hit rock bottom.

[Samraiwise]

Life is what you make out of it.

Grow a pair and start living.

Inb4 the merge.

Couldn't agree more, my friend!

[StarfaceChris]

It won't unless you somehow become a millionaire so do that or just ldar.

[sandman2019]

OP you sound like me, trust me it will get better . my story;


- Insecure/ugly growing up
- inspired by zyzz
- start lifting and get aesthetic
- but don't actually get girls because bad social skills
- look up to aesthetic brahs
- despite being "aesthetic" and getting laid still feel depressed
- finally get a gf (trashy tinder hoe)
- happiest I've ever been in my life, cuddling, picking her up, going gym together, never felt these feels. she was cute as **** and had such a baby voice. Just wanted to kiss her all over every time I was with her
- op acts beta, girl cheats after 7 mnths.
- devastated but completely changed me
- realised I lifted all these years and cared so much about girls
- realised girls aren't ****
- now happier


good luck op

[Ironface]

100% guarantee a girlfriend won’t solve your problems. What if she gets bored and leaves you? Are you going to go back to this mindset? Only you are responsible for your own happiness.

[HayZues Christi]

I listen to this daily.

[Alie865656]

Go to Kho Samui Island and teach English living in paradise.. Get a nice Thai Girlfriend easy as chit... done


https://www.teflworld-koh-samui.com/

[backinthegymbro]

It doesn't just ''get'' better op. You're not going to wake up one day with an hbb in your bed and a great career/social life/whatever your aspirations are.
You gotta work hard to make it happen.

[HalfDragon]

Your goal is to be a fitness influencer? Lmfao

You know that they are all either shilling their own products, having gay sex for money, or pay tens of thousand of dollars to become famous right?

[brosapiens]

That age is when you become a man. It's tough. I've been there and it's was hard as fukk but it gets much better.
Had nights when I would drink and cry because I was so alone and very much in denial of who I was vs who I thought I was.
Started being honest with myself, accepted all my flaws to the point I was going around only thinking about stuff that is wrong with me until I got bored and stopped caring.
After a while I noticed that I would wake up and just feel good and positive. It''s just a period in everyone's life when you have to come at peace with your self and become a man.
Have faith and be strong brah!

[vitruv]

Idk op may have a point with his influencer ambition if he’s 24 and has no other clear path. Problem is that these influencers had to first get other jobs to afford celltech, which is what gave them the followers

The divide between 99% and 1% is getting way worse from covid, and maybe OP thinks he might as well try and become that 1% like Jeff seid, David laid, etc

[Kev1972]

I hate seeing healthy young men with this loser mentally.

Look at all you have been blessed with. Many people have things much worse and remain positive and hopeful.

https://www.baltimoreravens.com/news...l-hall-of-fame

[vitruv]

I hate seeing healthy young men with this loser mentally.

Look at all you have been blessed with. Many people have things much worse and remain positive and hopeful.

https://www.baltimoreravens.com/news...l-hall-of-fame

It’s called the 80/20 rule boomer. Most men are not meant to make it in today’s world. OP can possibly make it if he commits himself more

[MBisonSon]

Grow the **** up with your little gay boy first world problems.

"Wahhhhhh, I'll never be famous".

Meanwhile people are dying of disease and starvation (two easily avoidable problems in 2020) you're crying because you're never gonna be famous.

Idiot.

[MBisonSon]

Congrats bro, you are exactly like every other dumbfuk young person out there.. Greatest hope in life is to become a fuking influencer, diagnoses himself as mentally unstable and no skills or anything to offer so works in grocery store..

Good news is you're still young man.. Learn a real skill and better your mind and body.. Not for the internet or sloots, but for yourself.. Eat good healthy food, get enough sleep and most importantly have a legit goal in your life.. Guarantee your mental problems will vanish but it will take time and effort

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[vitruv]

Most dudes peak in HS/college srs, but if you have enough hustle and SMV you don’t have to peak so early

[DizzySmalls]

Grow the **** up with your little gay boy first world problems.

"Wahhhhhh, I'll never be famous".

Meanwhile people are dying of disease and starvation (two easily avoidable problems in 2020) you're crying because you're never gonna be famous.

Idiot.

You know what problem the first world and third world both have?

You are a rotting meat sack that will expire and there will be very little difference in short order whether you had ever existed at all. You don't need starvation to realize that you aren't chit

[DizzySmalls]

That is interesting. Have your tried living in a third world chithole?

You'd be surprised who has - and no you can't tell a book by the cover.

I haven't even tried living in a first world country, let alone a chithole.

[ProEra]

Negative mindset