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    Mixed signals

    Need advice brahs will try and keep it short

    Met girl on tinder had been chatting for 3 months due to lockdown

    Met up for first date few drinks , good chat but was not sure if interested ... sometimes touching other minutes not even making eye contact pretty cold towards me at some points . Then completely changed started having deep conversations about what we’re looking for .

    Ended up back at hers made out , said she would not have sex On first night Got In to bed ended up having sex

    Thought she might regret it in morning . Had morning sex . Thought this was a one night thing yet she asked me to stay with her all day walked her to her work holding hands and kissed me in front of others .

    Is this a sign of wanting something more ? Friends with benefits ? Yet so publicly open about it already?

    I’m 22 she’s 28 if that makes any difference
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    I need more information. How has she been towards you since?

    Women can be very hot and cold. Just because they are loving and affectionate towards you monday, doesn't mean they will be like that on tuesday
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    Originally Posted by drvillain View Post
    I need more information. How has she been towards you since?

    Women can be very hot and cold. Just because they are loving and affectionate towards you monday, doesn't mean they will be like that on tuesday
    Asked her how she was feeling after seeing as we had a lot of drinks and was back at work half expected no reply And thought that might be it but she responded ... Not said anything about a second date yet though .
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    Originally Posted by drvillain View Post
    I need more information. How has she been towards you since?

    Women can be very hot and cold. Just because they are loving and affectionate towards you monday, doesn't mean they will be like that on tuesday

    Probably should say as well I’ve never done the whole tinder hook up thing as I had been in a relationship since 17 so don’t know how any of this works
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    Originally Posted by BigAnonn View Post
    Asked her how she was feeling after seeing as we had a lot of drinks and was back at work half expected no reply And thought that might be it but she responded ... Not said anything about a second date yet though .
    My advice to you would be to not read into anything that happened on your first date. This thread seems a little premature, and you seem a tad bit too invested already. Cool your jets and just let things happen. Keep in mind and accept that you may or may not ever see her again.

    If anything else happens, just post about it ITT

    edit: just saw your other response. Yeah, just play it cool man hookup culture is fukd, and inexperienced men will get their hearts eaten alive lol.
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    Originally Posted by drvillain View Post
    My advice to you would be to not read into anything that happened on your first date. This thread seems a little premature, and you seem a tad bit too invested already. Cool your jets and just let things happen. Keep in mind and accept that you may or may not ever see her again.

    If anything else happens, just post about it ITT

    edit: just saw your other response. Yeah, just play it cool man hookup culture is fukd, and inexperienced men will get their hearts eaten alive lol.

    Thanks for the advice bro . How long would u suggest leaving it before potentially organizing something again ?
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    Originally Posted by BigAnonn View Post
    Thanks for the advice bro . How long would u suggest leaving it before potentially organizing something again ?
    Since you already messaged her:

    if you guys are already casually chatting, I would try to plan something and probably cut down on the casual chat.

    If there is no casual chatting going on, then just give it a few days to let her process everything (yourself too) and make plans.
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    if a woman fuks you on the first date, they're usually sloots who fuk many men and will ghost after hooking up and move on to the next guy
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    Originally Posted by spazzin View Post
    if a woman fuks you on the first date, they're usually sloots who fuk many men and will ghost after hooking up and move on to the next guy
    You think so , when even texting for 3 months leading up to it ?
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    Originally Posted by BigAnonn View Post
    You think so , when even texting for 3 months leading up to it ?
    oh didnt read that part, thats fukkin weird tbh you guys were basically pen pals

    also i didnt say all, i said usually. This chick is weird to make you walk her to work and kiss in front of others, its almost like she's trying to show you off like you're a trophy lol
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    Originally Posted by BigAnonn View Post
    You think so , when even texting for 3 months leading up to it ?
    Generally speaking, younger women love having someone to text. Dont put any value into that either.
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    stop thinking so much and ride it out.
    be the turtle in the race.
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