I have four.
Two are in Germany, the third in the US, and the fourth in the Czech Republic.
And one of them is actually family, sadly.
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There’s about 7-8 people who would be happy I died, and it’s mostly because they don’t know what really happened, and wouldn’t believe me if I told them. It’s easier to cope with bad things when you have somebody to blame.
I've been seeing the past in one eye and the present in the other. So, I thought I could only see patches of reality, never the whole picture. I felt like I was watching a dream I could never wake up from. Before I knew it, the dream was over.
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07-31-2020, 05:45 PM #7
Zero and if you have serious enemies as an adult, you may need to look at what you are doing with your life and the type of environment you are living in.
"A stupid man's report of what a clever man says can never be accurate, because he unconsciously translates what he hears into something he can understand."
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08-01-2020, 01:16 AM #21
I agree with others about "enemy" being a stronger word for some people than others. Rival or bad intentioned actor may be a better term for most people's lives.
One of my wife's sister's husband is constantly trying to make me look bad.
There are often people at work that wait for opportunities to smear someone, but this is never a surprise.
In both cases it is nothing personal. I am not being targeted because of me being me, but for the typical power struggle reasons and do not see them as enemies. They are all just hazards.
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08-01-2020, 02:18 AM #22
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I don't hold personal grudges because I'm an adult. Whatever they did to me in the past is long gone.
HOWEVER, there are several communists that I wouldn't mind having a "re-education" session with.MAGA --- ΜΟΛΩΝ ΛΑΒΕ
Tamorlane: No one really cares except for people like you. Wow he wore a blackface, guess what back in the day many people did that. It was a different time period. Not full of PC little betas like you that cry foul over every little thing.
SillieBazzillie: Under Obama we always strove to be the best at everything. Trump really has ruined everything.
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08-01-2020, 07:04 AM #26
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Zero. I don’t treat people poorly online or in real life.
When there is something I disagree with, I try to debate with that person online. I do try to get the opposite point of view, even if it’s on the “other side”. If the evidence is strong I will change my mind. In the real world it’s better most times just to ignore ignorant people though.
One interesting note. There are a few responses in this thread from people who I’ve seen post openly hateful comments about another group of people (for their political stance, religion, race, gender etc) say they try to be holy. Just making an observation since no religion teaches any of that.
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