Thai gf is broke due to covid

[Dale1988]

Should send her money? Shes been laid off for 2 months due to covid and was just rehired but only 10 days per month.

Known her for two years never sent her money before and shes always bought me tons if food when I visit.

Just feel bad for her as there are no jobs there right now and shes just been moping around her room for months unemployed and how shes broke. I'm making $400 per day and I think shes short $400 ,per month. Her normal salary is $800 per month.

I'm worried that jobs won't recover for several months though and also I wanted to go back to school in the fall

[steve447]

Pics or neg

[oaktownabroad]

I know many people around the world are struggling and I doubt she's just trying to milk you for money. Nonetheless, get a girlfriend who's close enough to you to at least have sex with a few times a week, especially if you're going to start dishing out coin.

Also, every Thai girl I know in Bangkok with a remote foreign BF has more than one remote foreign BF.

[Dale1988]

I know many people around the world are struggling and I doubt she's just trying to milk you for money. Nonetheless, get a girlfriend who's close enough to you to at least have sex with a few times a week, especially if you're going to start dishing out coin.

Also, every Thai girl I know in Bangkok with a remote foreign BF has more than one remote foreign BF.

I had one here for last 3 months but we just broke up. I kept thai gf secret of coarse.

Yea that's common but more so from bar girls. Not really sure this girl has multiple bfs.

I am stuck working 6 on 1 off until November and cannot have a life until then so it's nice to at least chat with her on video call after work. I work 13 hour days hard labour so my day off I just lay around

[Mr Beer]

Not going to dive into the whole conversation about having a long distance Thai GF who lives in Thailand.

That aside, if she's always treated you right, and you are making 6 figs, and she needs a comparatively trivial amount of $ to get by, why wouldn't you help her out? Sounds like it's pocket change to you. I would however put some kind of end date on it if you're going back to school means your income drops drastically.

[oaktownabroad]

Nothing wrong with it then if you're getting the entertainment out of it and it helps you get through the long days of hard work. Just don't start with $400 and have it end up keep going higher because new things pop up. As long as you're not blowing money you can't afford to on her it shouldn't be a problem. I'd still advise to look for another local though, long distance is rough.

[Nicklol]

I mean.. if you make 12k per month... and you loved her
thats nothing
but dont let her become reliant on anything

[Dale1988]

Nothing wrong with it then if you're getting the entertainment out of it and it helps you get through the long days of hard work. Just don't start with $400 and have it end up keep going higher because new things pop up. As long as you're not blowing money you can't afford to on her it shouldn't be a problem. I'd still advise to look for another local though, long distance is rough.

Yeah, it is not a permanent solution maybe for a month or two only. I'm trying to get her a job in canada as a temp foreign worker before I give her money though just not sure where is hiring or set up to import unskilled labour

[Mr Beer]

If she needs the money now and it's trivial $ to you, why not just send it now instead of leaving her impoverished and wondering what to do while you look around for job opportunities? Assuming you actually like her and she's always done the right thing by you.

I get it if you don't want to get taken advantage of but you must realise that getting used for your ability to put her into a much higher socioeconomic status is just a risk that you take on with hitching up with a Thai girl.

[elterrible987]

I wouldnt pay the full 400.

For starters you set a precedence, once you pay her 400 a month she is always going to expect it, so start lower. Also her other boyfriends are probably going to pay her too so you dont have to cover the whole amount.

[Dale1988]

If she needs the money now and it's trivial $ to you, why not just send it now instead of leaving her impoverished and wondering what to do while you look around for job opportunities? Assuming you actually like her and she's always done the right thing by you.

I get it if you don't want to get taken advantage of but you must realise that getting used for your ability to put her into a much higher socioeconomic status is just a risk that you take on with hitching up with a Thai girl.

All women use men for resources status etc thsi girls are just more upfront about it. Love is not important to them like it is here, providing for her and her kids is #1.

I did make $700 today. so maybe I'll send her $250 or $300 and tell her she should find a job asap if possible.

The ****ty part is thailand is closed to tourists until dec at least. I dont want to pay her monthly until then. Thailand is literally decimated in the tourist towns not much work. Besides maid work she has very limited options

[Schnitzl]

Simps gonna simp

[KathleenRyan]

Yea that's common but more so from bar girls. Not really sure this girl has multiple bfs.

If she wasn't already a bar girl, she is one now after being unemployed for two months.

[Dale1988]

If she wasn't already a bar girl, she is one now after being unemployed for two months.

Lol the thai bar girls are all back on the rice farm no customers anymore no tourists

[Luc1fer]

Such a weird thread. Do you trust her or not?

Nobody else here knows her.

If you're in a serious relationship, then yes of course you should help support her. Thai or not.

If you don't trust her, then break up.

[Dale1988]

Such a weird thread. Do you trust her or not?

Nobody else here knows her.

If you're in a serious relationship, then yes of course you should help support her. Thai or not.

If you don't trust her, then break up.

Lying is a national pastime in thailand I'm not sure how any Thais are trustworthy.

She lies about wierd small things that makes no sense.... never caught her in a big lie