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    My friend told me he might marry his borderline/bipolar gf

    I told him i would go to the court hearings to explain hes a good dad that should be able to see his kids 2 weekends a month. Srs. Can’t tell if he comprehended what i was saying. I broke it down further. 50% of marriages end in divorce.. where do you think yours will lie.. emphasis on the lying
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    It is hard enough to be with a bipolar gf(had one once), marrying one? lol
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    have a friend who had a kid with a (undiagnosed) bipolar chick because he was thinking with the wrong head and now he can't ever get away from her. He tried making things work even though she's a loon and has no career ambition besides doing the bare min as a teacher, but she's clearly not right for him and he finally accepted it.

    She already made up a fake story that he hit her and threatened to take the daughter away from him.
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    Make him read all of the responses in any of the many borderline threads on misc. Then see if he wants to still marry her.

    He needs to see that basically everyone agrees these relationships are always a disaster. No matter how hard the non-borderline person tries.
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    you can't help idiots like this

    they'll forever be a slave to the puzzy

    i have a few of these, they always get some crazy dumb gf who isnt even very attractive

    I tell them that theyre bad and theyre constantly telling me about them breaking their TV or hitting them or some shiit, but insist that their girl "is chill and cool"

    then I stop talking to them, 2 months later they call me to hangout and tell me that shes in jail or something and they finally broke up with them

    then they go and do the same shiit few months later
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    Had two bipolar ex gf’s. Here one similarity I can definitely point out to you.

    Hypersexuality, especially when they’re manic. That part is a double edged sword because on one hand the sex is fukking amazing. But if you work a job where you’re away from her too much or she’s in an environment (college for me) where they’re around other dudes, they’re mania takes control over them and they get sex crazed. You can’t trust them not to cheat at some point.

    One of those exes became a hooker or “sex worker” as she likes to call it, after we broke up. I had to walk on eggshells because god forbid I made a joke she deemed offensive. I passed her my bong and said “don’t worry, I’m not tryin to Bill Cosby you.” And she flipped the fuk out. I admit it was a joke in poor taste but I said I DIDN’T wanna “Bill Cosby her.” I was in essence making fun of the guy. and she just wouldn’t drop it.

    The other one was a compulsive shoplifter who tried several times stealing a couple thousand dollars worth of products from Walmart by cramming all the products in garbage bins she purchased. The kunt did it multiple times and at like 2am in the morning, lmao. At least go on a busy day like right when school is starting. Dumb bitch. She filled my apartment up with all this sh!t I thought she bought me but actually stole. She ended up calling my parents in a rage when I wouldn’t take her back and revealed some really personal sh!t to them. Like how my father wasn’t really my actual father because he was infertile and my mom needed a sperm donor for my brother and I. She dropped that bomb on them because I wouldn’t stay with a thief. My dad wasn’t supposed to know we knew. Gets me mad just thinking about it.
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    Borderline Personality Disorder is not bipolar. Bipolar can be treated with drugs.

    BPD is very different than bipolar. There is likely something he needs to deal with as well if he is with such a person. There is nothing you can do to save him he will have to find out first hand sadly.
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    she prob a beast in the sack and hes thinking w his dik instead of his brain like most of us
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    Originally Posted by Caeculus View Post
    Borderline Personality Disorder is not bipolar. Bipolar can be treated with drugs.

    BPD is very different than bipolar. There is likely something he needs to deal with as well if he is with such a person. There is nothing you can do to save him he will have to find out first hand sadly.
    This ^^ Coming from someone who's bipolar, while I'd definitely avoid a bipolar chick, I've met girls who manage to keep it in check more or less thanks to treatment. Borderline on the other hand, avoid at all costs.
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    Just send him an article about the Johnny Depp/Amber Turd divorce court hearings, maybe it'll set him straight.
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    Bipolar or borderline? Huyyyuge difference.

    Bipolar = legit mental condition. It's more serious than major depression albeit less likely to end in suicide, and less serious than schizophrenia.

    Borderline = evil person.
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    BPP is one of the few personality disorders that are basically untreatable.
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    I had a bipolar gf who was very sweet, but depressed most of the time. Sex was great, she was very nice, but a downer to be around her, she also wanted kids before 30 and i didn´t (almost 40 and still don´t want them lol).

    In retrospective, not my worst gf in the slightest lol, but not something i would recommend.
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    One of those exes became a hooker or “sex worker” as she likes to call it, after we broke up. I had to walk on eggshells because god forbid I made a joke she deemed offensive. I passed her my bong and said “don’t worry, I’m not tryin to Bill Cosby you.” And she flipped the fuk out. I admit it was a joke in poor taste but I said I DIDN’T wanna “Bill Cosby her.” I was in essence making fun of the guy. and she just wouldn’t drop it.
    She became a sex worker and expects you to walk on egg shells to show her the utmost respect. You cracked a joke?! Oh heavens, no! Meanwhile she's selling her gash and you're supposed to pretend it's some empowered expedition and not trashy, sleazy degeneracy. Your joke somehow eclipses her selling her holes. 2020.
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    I've dated someone that was bipolar, it wasn't fun. You can see the good in someone like that, but that doesn't mean you should be with them. That's the hand they were dealt, don't make it your jail cell.
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    Originally Posted by CrimsonSteel View Post
    She became a sex worker and expects you to walk on egg shells to show her the utmost respect. You cracked a joke?! Oh heavens, no! Meanwhile she's selling her gash and you're supposed to pretend it's some empowered expedition and not trashy, sleazy degeneracy. Your joke somehow eclipses her selling her holes. 2020.
    Oh it gets worse. She showed no remorse for getting involved in that life and tried every way to justify it. “You’re paying for it one way or another!” Or “How is it any different than having multiple one night stands like regular people do?”

    I told her because it’s a dangerous profession. I asked her “Do you not know what happens to prostitutes?” And she accused me of victim blaming because she got “raped” which she was very vague about and my guess is the guy wanted more than what he paid for, thus no charges were filed. Plus she was committing an illegal act, no matter how deeply she believes it should be legal.

    I said to her, “If I got involved in drug trafficking, and some dealer beats the living fuk outta me, and I go to the cops and tell them my drugs got stolen, would it be ‘victim blaming’ if I was told “You see, this is why it’s not wise to get involved in the drug trade.” Would that be victim blaming? Of course not. But if a “sex worker” gets raped and you tell her she shouldn’t be getting involved in illegal prostitution, that means I’m somehow blaming her for her own rape. It’s nonsense.

    If I tell my daughter “Don’t get blackout drunk at the frat house.” Am I victim blaming or telling her there are sh!tty people out there and she needs to protect herself by avoiding putting herself in those situations?
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    I thought 100% of all people have BPD, am I really wrong if you think about it for a second?
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    I told him i would go to the court hearings to explain hes a good dad that should be able to see his kids 2 weekends a month. Srs. Can’t tell if he comprehended what i was saying. I broke it down further. 50% of marriages end in divorce.. where do you think yours will lie.. emphasis on the lying
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    borderline personality disorder is also a mental condition and it doesn't define what kind of person you are, having BPD and using it an excuse to be a piece of chit is what an evil person is, having BPD and recognizing it and working through it even though it's affecting your life in every way possible is what a normal person would and should do, but most people with BPD don't know they have it, because it's not as known as bipolar disorder, and many times people with BPD get diagnosed with bipolar disorder and they don't get the help they need. stop talking out of your ass.
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    Borderline personality disorder is a spiritual issue first, and an issue of the mind second; a malfunction of cross talk between these two seemingly seperate functions leads to BPD, amongst a whole repertoire of other similar 'personality disorders'.

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    Originally Posted by krejn View Post
    BPD is mostly caused by childhood trauma and it depends a lot on the person in the way it manifests, and I imagine it's even worse if you're a woman and have it, because they might act even worse and just be categorized as "crazy bitches", not even considering they might have other disorders too on top of it, claiming BPD is not a mental condition and acting like they're just evil people is extremely damaging and ignorant. But can't expect too many intellectuals on here.
    That is true, and I respect your opinion which is based on professional psychiatry, rooted in science - to the best of our contemporary understanding, of course.

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    Originally Posted by krejn View Post
    BPD is mostly caused by childhood trauma and it depends a lot on the person in the way it manifests, and I imagine it's even worse if you're a woman and have it, because they might act even worse and just be categorized as "crazy bitches", not even considering they might have other disorders too on top of it, claiming BPD is not a mental condition and acting like they're just evil people is extremely damaging and ignorant. But can't expect too many intellectuals on here.
    It isn't a mental condition if it is defined by a person's behavior, because that is a choice. And these people choose to cause others pain and actually feel pleasure from doing it. If anyone experiences "trauma" they tend to develop MORE empathy because they know what pain really is, not lose the ability to experience any empathy at all.
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    Originally Posted by krejn View Post
    What? You seem like you have no idea what you're talking about. Many mental conditions are defined by what a person does, and it is a choice to the normal person, but not to the mentally ill person, unless they are aware enough and seeking help. BPD are not people that choose to cause others pain and feel pleasure from it, you might be confusing it with something else. Do some research before you decide to spew dumb chit on the internet.
    So if someone labeled with BPD doesn't have any behavior that would indicate they have BPD anymore they are cured? It's called Dialectical BEHAVIOR therapy because they choose to BEHAVE in a way that dysfunctional. It isn't a mental condition because they have the ability to chose to behave in a different way but they chose not to most cases.
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    Originally Posted by Caeculus View Post
    So if someone labeled with BPD doesn't have any behavior that would indicate they have BPD anymore they are cured? It's called Dialectical BEHAVIOR therapy because they choose to BEHAVE in a way that dysfunctional. It isn't a mental condition because they have the ability to chose to behave in a different way but they chose not to most cases.
    Dude, they behave that way because it feels good to them, or it feels like the 'right' thing to do - this is because their mind-ego complex/matrix or whatever you want to call it has literally shut down a portion of their soul. This is why they say it's caused by childhood or general trauma.

    It's the body's way of ensuring its own survival, so that the soul can continue its journey in this incarnation - healing can occur later through various interactions.

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