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    Originally Posted by Rabbitjb View Post
    DrVillain you’re probably right I am comfortable in relationships,

    But if you’re playing the field I don’t think you get to slag off an entire gender cos you are targeting women who do the same

    Because you may grow out of that sowing your oats phase, and so may they (contentious on misc)



    You say that but in your youth you probably had a fair few flings, not hating so did I, never more than 1 at a time though

    There were pubs and clubs and trips, places where you can meet random strangers everywhere. There’s no exponential growth in the number of people you can shag just cos dating apps open the field to greater distances.

    We had the expectation that if you agree to go out, there is only you until you say nope not working

    The fact you now need to have a conversation to ensure your date isn’t dipping in someone else’s pot is corrupt in modern society - disposability
    Yup, it's pretty disheartening and sucks to be single now when I grew up with that mindset. I've never been one to be having sex with more than 1 man at a time, as I am definitely a one man woman. When I'm with someone I'm into, I could not care less about anyone else.

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    ^^^^^^^^^Agree 100%^^^^^^^^^^^

    You articulated this perfectly. Disposability. In a bar there is a finite amount of people to meet in that location. Online you could be anywhere.
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    No, just like others ITT have said assume they are, and you should be as well until talks of exclusivity happen.
    Women have access to dozens of local guys in the area from their fingertips and imore often than not it is Naive and foolish to think that you are the only one a woman is talking to in this day and age, especially with younger women.
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    If I know she is still actively with another man, nope not interested, not trying to catch the honey tip.
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    That would be pathetic behaviour. If it was strictly a FWB where you ONLY Meet up for sex then i guess i would be ok.

    But imagine taking a girl out on a date, seeing a movie with her, or even going out for a walk with her (Not having sex every time) whilst she goes to a random chad's house and has sex with him, but it's okay because you are not exclusive. That is just cuck behaviour. I know a guy in this situation and it's sad. He is dating a girl for over 6 months, takes her out for dinners and dates but she also (probably) bangs other dudes who put in 0 work.

    Such is life in the dating world in 2020,

    A girl has

    a) The guy who does everything for her and treats her like queen
    b) the chads she can bang when she wants
    c) the simps/betas that shwer her in compliments on social media

    lmfao.


    Imagine you're a guy right and you have a girl tht takes you out and you can **** with but dont really like her so you just ride with it, then you have hot girls you can **** when you want if you get bored of your first girl then you have a tonne of girls hitting
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    I don't understand where this expectation of your date only talking/seeing you comes from. There will always be competition, what makes you so special that someone who has a lot of options will drop everyone else for you? Knowing that most new people you meet are not commit-able d/t lack of chemistry/values ect; it would be foolish to put all your eggs in one basket.

    I don't care if the guy I go out with is seeing multiple girls. Until he asks for exclusivity I'm going to assume he's not serious about me so I'm not wasting any time on him.
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    If I am not emotionally invested in here I don’t care at all. Why would I?
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    Exclusivity is ofc always preferred but not always attainable.

    Even in relationships and marriage btw.
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    Originally Posted by SweetDreamz View Post
    I don't understand where this expectation of your date only talking/seeing you comes from. There will always be competition, what makes you so special that someone who has a lot of options will drop everyone else for you? Knowing that most new people you meet are not commit-able d/t lack of chemistry/values ect; it would be foolish to put all your eggs in one basket.

    I don't care if the guy I go out with is seeing multiple girls. Until he asks for exclusivity I'm going to assume he's not serious about me so I'm not wasting any time on him.
    It's not so much about seeing other people while you get to know each other and decide if you want to be in a relationship with that person, it's about having sex with multiple people. People who don't want STDs have every right to put it out there that they are not interested in having sex with someone who's having sex with others.
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    Originally Posted by drvillain View Post
    I agree with you on all accounts. I don't hate women at all, so perhaps it isn't fair of me to say sloots gon sloot when men sloot as well. I'm also damn near out of the sowing oats phase as well, but I still just think you have to have a different mindset & reality check these days.

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    also in perfect timing, this morning I woke up to a confirmation on social media that I am a side dude. I've intentionally cut every woman but this one off lately (because I'm highly attracted to her. would never date) but my belief that there is likely someone else in the picture has saved me from any potential pain & suffering.
    Story of my life brother. As a man, if you are a catch, women will try SO HARD to make themselves appear innocent. I've saved myself a lot of drama by being able to spot subtle slip-ups. Been the side piece for too many women and it doesn't feel that great.
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    Originally Posted by Legz422 View Post
    It's not so much about seeing other people while you get to know each other and decide if you want to be in a relationship with that person, it's about having sex with multiple people. People who don't want STDs have every right to put it out there that they are not interested in having sex with someone who's having sex with others.
    Well yeah just move on then, don't be emotionally invested until they prove to fit your standards and invest in you. It's pretty simple. Not everyone is out there sleeping around, but I do think people should be dating around to know what they want/don't want.
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    Originally Posted by SweetDreamz View Post
    Well yeah just move on then, don't be emotionally invested until they prove to fit your standards and invest in you. It's pretty simple. Not everyone is out there sleeping around, but I do think people should be dating around to know what they want/don't want.
    Of course it's simple to me, but not to a lot of people. I've already dated enough to know what I do and don't want.
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