Need Advice BF Can't Last in Bed

[elj9]

I need advice on how to bring this up to him from a male perspective. I've been seeing him for about 5 months and he's great. We have a great time together and everything is good up until the point of actual sex.

I've put up with him finishing too fast this entire time but I've reached a point where I feel like I need to say something. He definitely finishes each and every time but I do not. I have held off on getting too into it in bed because I feel like that makes it worse and he REALLY can't last.

I think the longest he's ever lasted was probably 1-2 minutes.

Hypothetically if you were having this problem, how would you prefer your wife/gf to bring it up? I don't want to hurt his feelings but I'm to the point now where I feel like something needs to be said.

[bernipes]

I need advice on how to bring this up to him from a male perspective. I've been seeing him for about 5 months and he's great. We have a great time together and everything is good up until the point of actual sex.

I've put up with him finishing too fast this entire time but I've reached a point where I feel like I need to say something. He definitely finishes each and every time but I do not. I have held off on getting too into it in bed because I feel like that makes it worse and he REALLY can't last.

I think the longest he's ever lasted was probably 1-2 minutes.

Hypothetically if you were having this problem, how would you prefer your wife/gf to bring it up? I don't want to hurt his feelings but I'm to the point now where I feel like something needs to be said.

Communication is all. I think you should talking with him.
This problem happens for lot of mens actually. Almost half of us ! That not mean there is nothing to do.

i can see 2 things:
- First of all, if he don't do it, he can help you to come by using theses fingers at the same time than penetration.
- 2nd, there is some exercises to improve the performances
> slightly bite his tongue,
> count backwards
> keep the TV on and watch it when he is close to the end.

The goal is to don't be too exited an think about something else than sex during sex

Usually, more people have theses issues at the beginning of their sex life. But some still have it later because they never fixed it.

i hope my answer can help you !

[NealIRC]

So what if he finishes fast?

He would need to ejaculate less often.

[steve447]

Pics of u

[skinnyfat88]

Try to be casual about it and don't act like it's a big deal at first.

"Babe, I want to have sex for longer. How can we do this?"

He might not be actively trying whatsoever and just gets excited and wants to nut asap not knowing this isn't what you want.
Slow it down, change positions.

[AshkenaziJew]

I need advice on how to bring this up to him from a male perspective. I've been seeing him for about 5 months and he's great. We have a great time together and everything is good up until the point of actual sex.

I've put up with him finishing too fast this entire time but I've reached a point where I feel like I need to say something. He definitely finishes each and every time but I do not. I have held off on getting too into it in bed because I feel like that makes it worse and he REALLY can't last.

I think the longest he's ever lasted was probably 1-2 minutes.

Hypothetically if you were having this problem, how would you prefer your wife/gf to bring it up? I don't want to hurt his feelings but I'm to the point now where I feel like something needs to be said.

Do you go multiple rounds? After the first round he should be able to last longer.

[drvillain]

so he finishes and what? Is that it? Does he not try to help you finish?

You telling him he can't last wont do anything but give him performance anxiety. He is probably aware already.

Now if he is selfish, that's something that needs to be addressed

[AdikinBawls]

Pics of u

This + rear glute spread and the misc will be able to get to the bottom (lol) of this problem.

[WrestlerDude86]

Using condoms?

If not get some thick ass trojan enz condoms. Try that to build up his premature ejaculation

Positions where he is in control may help some also. Less foreplay for him and more for you may work. Pm me if you want.

[Hella Toof]

Does he just pound away until he blows? Tell him you want to go for longer, stop when he gets close, give it a minute then resume. You can train him to last longer by doing this. If he is just pounding away until he busts a nut and doesn't care for your enjoyment then you are probably a masturbatory device for him.

[SleepWithFan89]

Roman PE meds it’s 57$ for 3 months a low dose ssri

He’ll last 5-10 min

[Mr Beer]

He should just eat you out until you cum first, then it doesn't matter if he busts quickly.

Many women don't get there just from getting dicked anyway so it's kind of a no-brainer to get them off first.

[J411]

Get a giant didlo and stretch yourself out on the regular. If there isn't any friction he will last a lot longer.

Lube can also help reduce friction.

You can buy special condoms that desensitize the penis.

[darkninja67]

He should just eat you out until you cum first, then it doesn't matter if he busts quickly.

Many women don't get there just from getting dicked anyway so it's kind of a no-brainer to get them off first.

This right here or he can take a round out of the chamber beforehand.

[elterrible987]

I need advice on how to bring this up to him from a male perspective. I've been seeing him for about 5 months and he's great. We have a great time together and everything is good up until the point of actual sex.

I've put up with him finishing too fast this entire time but I've reached a point where I feel like I need to say something. He definitely finishes each and every time but I do not. I have held off on getting too into it in bed because I feel like that makes it worse and he REALLY can't last.

I think the longest he's ever lasted was probably 1-2 minutes.

Hypothetically if you were having this problem, how would you prefer your wife/gf to bring it up? I don't want to hurt his feelings but I'm to the point now where I feel like something needs to be said.

best thing you can do in this situation is go on a web forum, make a new account of your opposite gender, so since youre a real chick IRL then make an account as a dude and then ask the people on that forum what they think. I recommend bodybuilding.com to make your fake account.

[BullittEV]

plot twist:

subtle brag thread for a whale that needs self confidence.

[radrd]

plot twist:

OP is Nonsense916

[LightsXout28c]

Go No Contact

[ansh1337]

Become fat/ugly and he may last longer

Ignore the advice if already fat/ugly

[Manc33]

Do it again.

[Kev1972]

Call me after he leaves.

[ItalianGigaChad]

I need advice on how to bring this up to him from a male perspective. I've been seeing him for about 5 months and he's great. We have a great time together and everything is good up until the point of actual sex.

I've put up with him finishing too fast this entire time but I've reached a point where I feel like I need to say something. He definitely finishes each and every time but I do not. I have held off on getting too into it in bed because I feel like that makes it worse and he REALLY can't last.

I think the longest he's ever lasted was probably 1-2 minutes.

Hypothetically if you were having this problem, how would you prefer your wife/gf to bring it up? I don't want to hurt his feelings but I'm to the point now where I feel like something needs to be said.

Video or it never happen .

[cadetduke]

Damn! See these tips

https://lovematters.ng/sex/sex-probl...rection-longer

I don't think the erection is the problem here.

[Kay4Kool]

plot twist this is all a reddit thread

[Nicklol]

you can just say it.
idk.
if its been 5 months and youre only bringing it up now.. you wasted 5 months where he could have changed something for you.

you gotta be able to communicate. its not worth it.

girls who fake it is the same thing.. they are depriving themselves for no reason.

[PxV]

Do you guys even foreplay?

[Kewbrah]

You have my sympathy for having such a tight and stimulating pussy OP.

Maybe when he finishes and rolls onto his back you should straddle his face and make him clean you up with his mouth until you get off

[Briangumble]

Try OTC medicine like melotonin, Unisom, or Benadryl. If those don't work then see a Doctor to get a prescription for ******.

[JustMoved24]

Premature ejaculators are not going to make it

[larryjdd7]

Roman PE meds it’s 57$ for 3 months a low dose ssri

He’ll last 5-10 min

Does this actually work?