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    Do you have any experience with friends/family NOT paying you money they owe you? SRS

    Isnt this the ****tiest feeling? I have two stories:

    -Childhood friend, kind of friend you learn how to ride a bike with and stay at his place on the weekends after elementary school etc. Few years ago i mentioned to him that i was upgrading my phone and he asked me to sell the old one to him. Probably was an Iphone 5 or something like that, i told him sure and that i was even going to give him a good price (im never one to make profit with people that i consider friends, maybe im to blame). The phone had a market value of something like 450 or 500 bucks cant remember, and i told him i was going to give it to him for $400, even threw in the headphones (because i was going to get new ones with the new phone anyway).

    The guy shows up at my house, i give him the phone and he gives me $200, i awkwardly tell him we agreed on $400 and he said he knew, but he just needed to get the other 2 hundred bucks and to just give him a couple of weeks. I said ok because in my mind there was no way i was going to have to chase this bitch around for 200 bucks. Well he never paid me the other half, he moved shortly to other city for a job and we never talked again. I decided to just cut him off my life anyway instead




    - 5 days ago some guy i know who i wouldnt call friend friend but still we are (or were) cool calls me asking me for a service that i do for work. Its 200 mere bucks and i told him sure thing. Still hasnt paid lol, and he has went NC since yesterday. Im going to harass him tomorrow tho but i for sure never doing business with him. Hell even gave him a good discount








    So i guess im being too nice with people? Im a very noble person but two experiences like this is all it takes for me to say fuk it and never be the "oh dont worry pay me later" kind of guy. Anybody else has experiences like that?
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    Yah I don't give money out to anyone other than to pay my mom's bills
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    Originally Posted by Lexira View Post
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    Working very well so far.
    New member of this crew srs.
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    Yes a few months ago I paid half of my sisters rent bitch still hasn't paid me back
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    Originally Posted by steve447 View Post
    Yes a few months ago I paid half of my sisters rent bitch still hasn't paid me back
    she never will unless u bring it up relentlessly
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    she never will unless u bring it up relentlessly
    Last time I asked she said I'm being mean and should just let it ok but no it was 900$ dollars
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    Yeah I don't lend money to anyone, except my parents and my brother, my Aunt owes me over $600 from years ago and has never made an attempt to pay me back. That's just a loss now, but know not to ever lend them money. I also lend money to my other aunt, like $50, took her weeks to pay me back and even made it seem like I was offending her by reminding her that she owed me. Never again. Anyone ask me for money, I'm broke.
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    Used to when I was younger. They would go into hiding and I wouldn't bother looking for them

    Doesn't happen anymore because I don't lend anyone money
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    Originally Posted by Donny2Yucky View Post
    it's a learning experience OP, many people including me have made this mistake before.

    there is no better way to end a friendship than to lend out money. most people are notoriously bad at repaying it back, forcing you to constantly nag them. it's a horrible feeling because you just wanna get your money back and move on with your life.
    Yes, complete lack of integrity like some other miscer said. Sucks because im the kind of guy that will actually harass you if i owe you money, there is no way im not going to pay you back ASAP or worst case scenario, im going to give you a good explanation as to why i havent and just pay as soon as i can.

    But at least in my two experiences, it was just a small amount. 200 bucks, meh, kind of a cheap price to pay to get rid of someone that will backstab you in the future if it means saving himself. Glass half full i guess

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    took her weeks to pay me back and even made it seem like I was offending her by reminding her that she owed me. Never again. Anyone ask me for money, I'm broke.
    lmao what a bitch. Should have called her out.

    When its small amounts of money like that its even worse because you feel like such a bitch asking them for the money even if its yours anyway regardless of the quantity.
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    Helped out a friend with 5k since they were going through a brutal divorce and he had just lost his job, gave him enough to put down money for an apartment and a couple weeks to get by. Dude went full depression mode and couldn't keep the apartment because he didn't bother looking for a job and couldn't afford rent. Knowing his situation I would take him out for food and drinks while letting him rant. Couple years go by, we don't talk as often but I see on his social media he is now employed. Dig a little bit deeper and this dude is going out to eat all the time and adopted two giant ass dogs. He reached out a couple weeks ago telling me he needed to set up a payment plan with me, haven't heard from him since lol.
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    Friend of like 20 years borrowed 200$ and paid it back, borrowed another 200 and never paid back
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    interesting. you made me realize no friend has ever asked me.

    i think i gave my old cell phones away to 2 guys i worked with at my first job, but that was me telling them i would
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    Always. reason i never like lending money. I don't care about small amounts but when i was in college and lent someone like $20 and never got paid back it pissed me off. Not that it's a lot of money but a matter of principle. I had one friend who constantly did this. He paid me back eventually but took literally months to pay back like $10.
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    never "borrow" money to friends/family and expect it returned.

    "loaning" friends and family = gifting them money 97% of the time
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    Originally Posted by atomicbbgum View Post
    Yeah I don't lend money to anyone, except my parents and my brother, my Aunt owes me over $600 from years ago and has never made an attempt to pay me back. That's just a loss now, but know not to ever lend them money. I also lend money to my other aunt, like $50, took her weeks to pay me back and even made it seem like I was offending her by reminding her that she owed me. Never again. Anyone ask me for money, I'm broke.
    why would you make your parents pay you back? how do you think you got here. also don't you not work you said in another thread that you live off your husband
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    Originally Posted by 8pieces View Post
    why would you make your parents pay you back? how do you think you got here. also don't you not work you said in another thread that you live off your husband
    Lol I never said I made my parents pay me back, and if you could read this was years ago, I've worked before, but right now I'm a stay at home wife and mom.
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    you have to be careful with depressed people. often times they feel resentment which creates an entitlement and they'll backstab you

    it's like they're suffering and missing something so they feel entitled to it so once they get it they don't feel any obligation or connection to it; because they were entitled to it anyway

    not all are like this, but a lot are. i just got through with it with this guy that i was driving to work. he got a dui and was in program so he wasn't able to drive. one of the dudes i worked with volunteered me to pick him up because i lived close, which he did, really close actually, so it was no big deal. but i could tell he was slippery by the way he treated people buddy-buddy that he barely knew

    once i got done driving him he changed. so basically once that was over, he forgot that i voluntarily did that for him. same thing recently with his unemployment. he was contacting and bishing to me when he wasn't getting it, but now that he's gotten it haven't heard a peep from him

    again, the problem is their twist on their mistreatment and the resulting entitlement. it's probably apt since someone low on money like that is LIKELY depressed
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    Originally Posted by steve447 View Post
    Last time I asked she said I'm being mean and should just let it ok but no it was 900$ dollars
    get her on a payment plan. My sisters the same way. She still owes me money and asked the other night to pay for her cats on going medical bills. Cats 17-18 and she owes me 5 grand. She made me feel like **** for over a year about her owing me.tried to make me out to be the bad guy. So I finally just told her bank of frank is closed to her and yet she’s asking me this now.
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    Actually no. I almost never loan money out to anyone. I would do it only for close family and close friends if they needed it.

    I have given money to people or paid for stuff with zero intention of getting it or wanting it back though.

    And if I did loan out money, I wouldn't ask for it back. I would hope I only give it out to someone I trust, and who will have my back for me if I ever need something.
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    yeah definetely, chitty feeling but teaches you to not lend money, same reason why banks try to insure and secure debt. Mexicans are very prone to this, they would rather fuk up their "friends" and ruin their relationships than ask the bank for money.

    - Back in the day both me and a friend were looking to move out of our places at the same time, we agreed to get an apartment and I signed the down payment for both of us - he first went NC for a few days and later decided to not commit to the apartment,
    - Lost a few thousand USD loaning money at clubs - most of this people refused to pay claiming they never commited to this and that they were drunk
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    Originally Posted by Beast92 View Post
    yeah definetely, chitty feeling but teaches you to not lend money, same reason why banks try to insure and secure debt. Mexicans are very prone to this, they would rather fuk up their "friends" and ruin their relationships than ask the bank for money.

    - Back in the day both me and a friend were looking to move out of our places at the same time, we agreed to get an apartment and I signed the down payment for both of us - he first went NC for a few days and later decided to not commit to the apartment,
    - Lost a few thousand USD loaning money at clubs - most of this people refused to pay claiming they never commited to this and that they were drunk
    lol, did you make a thread about this? Think i remember a story like that.
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    Absolutely under no circumstances allow anyone to use money except as strictly as possible. I do not even lend people $5. I will give them money. Never lend.

    If they can justify taking your money for one pinch, they will always find another reason to prioritize before paying you back.

    Especially small time acquaintances, you do not owe any favors between. One of the surest paths to trouble, letting some small fry do you a favor. He will come back with way too much entitlement.
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    Originally Posted by VisionaryLarry View Post
    Actually no. I almost never loan money out to anyone. I would do it only for close family and close friends if they needed it.

    I have given money to people or paid for stuff with zero intention of getting it or wanting it back though.

    And if I did loan out money, I wouldn't ask for it back. I would hope I only give it out to someone I trust, and who will have my back for me if I ever need something.
    ^^^ This exactly.

    My late father kept telling me, "Never lend money, just give it to people if you really have to."

    The strange thing is that people who said emphatically and repeatedly "I'll pay you back." never did so and quiet ones are always the ones who paid me back.
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    Originally Posted by Samraiwise View Post
    ^^^ This exactly.

    My late father kept telling me, "Never lend money, just give it to people if you really have to."

    The strange thing is that people who said emphatically and repeatedly "I'll pay you back." never did so and quiet ones are always the ones who paid me back.
    Best advice.

    Also, quickest way to get rid of somebody is to loan em cash. I have heard all sorts of stories about friends who loan people money and they get totally ghosted. I think it's the shame really. "I'm gonna pay up, but I better not say anything till I can pay up." And they never get the money.
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    when it comes to close family or friends I do not "loan" money, I give it with no expectation of return, even the n they swear they will repay me.


    everyone else tends to get a cold shoulder(srs). I do not loan money out to anyone
    You would be surprised just how much time I have to waste.
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    You gave one of your best buds a break by selling him your chitty old phone for $400 instead of the $450 you might have been able to get if you dealt with degenerates one Craigslist for a few weeks

    Wow you’re a hero

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    Originally Posted by Bobgnarley View Post
    Helped out a friend with 5k since they were going through a brutal divorce and he had just lost his job, gave him enough to put down money for an apartment and a couple weeks to get by. Dude went full depression mode and couldn't keep the apartment because he didn't bother looking for a job and couldn't afford rent. Knowing his situation I would take him out for food and drinks while letting him rant. Couple years go by, we don't talk as often but I see on his social media he is now employed. Dig a little bit deeper and this dude is going out to eat all the time and adopted two giant ass dogs. He reached out a couple weeks ago telling me he needed to set up a payment plan with me, haven't heard from him since lol.
    Damn, that sucks
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