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    Question misc lawyers: can I be sued for harassment? srs

    so here's the deal. I had got into an argument with a female friend and she blocked my phone number. A few weeks later I sent her a message on social media and she blocked me without saying anything. I sent another message through a different account, and she responded by saying if I contacted her again she'd take "legal action." I responded to that message and made it clear I wouldn't contact her again, at which point she blocked my account.

    this whole thing happened over a year ago. I'm over it, I haven't contacted her since and never will. None of my messages were threatening or malicious, I was basically apologizing and trying to fix the friendship the whole time.

    My question is regarding the last message I sent, could she sue me for that (?), since technically she said not to contact her again and then I responded. Could that be considered cyberstalking or something?

    yeah and it's all very pathetic, I was in a terrible place mentally and was super drunk. Not gonna defend my behavior, I'm just looking for answers from people who know the law.
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    I called my lawyer and he said she can legally fist your anus for each pathetic text you sent her.
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    Take the hint and stop ****ing messaging her dumb phuck
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    Originally Posted by MuscleXtreme View Post
    Take the hint and stop ****ing messaging her dumb phuck
    guess you didn't read my posts huh.
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    Originally Posted by MuscleXtreme View Post
    Take the hint and stop ****ing messaging her dumb phuck
    Are u the dude who made that weird misc song about getting mod repped?

    also OP relax it was a year ago if she wanted to do something she wouldve by now
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    Firstly

    No, legally she doesn't have a leg to stand on. To successfully sue for harassment she would have to prove a pattern of behaviour that would cause a reasonable person to feel alarm or scared for their safety.

    A few text messages doesn't reach that threshold.

    Not to mention, the cost of taking any legal action (including a harassment order) is actually pretty damn prohibitive so unless she's absolutely loaded, it's unlikely she'd pursue it. A lot of people make threats of legal action but wouldn't even be able to afford the first lawyers visit.

    However, more importantly:

    Do yourself a favor and move on and forget her. She's not worth your time or energy. Any girl who threatens you with legal action over a few texts is mentally ill and probably prone to making false "metoo" complaints, too. You don't need that drama.
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    Originally Posted by Caldef View Post
    Firstly

    No, legally she doesn't have a leg to stand on. To successfully sue for harassment she would have to prove a pattern of behaviour that would cause a reasonable person to feel alarm or scared for their safety.

    A few text messages doesn't reach that threshold.

    Not to mention, the cost of taking any legal action (including a harassment order) is actually pretty damn prohibitive so unless she's absolutely loaded, it's unlikely she'd pursue it. A lot of people make threats of legal action but wouldn't even be able to afford the first lawyers visit.

    However, more importantly:

    Do yourself a favor and move on and forget her. She's not worth your time or energy. Any girl who threatens you with legal action over a few texts is mentally ill and probably prone to making false "metoo" complaints, too. You don't need that drama.
    Thanks for the response, much appreciated. I thought getting blocked on 3 separate occasions might be considered crossing the threshold. I should also mention my last message to her was pretty salty, didn't call her names or anything but I said she was a sh*tty friend. Her comment about "legal action" pissed me off and I reacted poorly. Ever since I've been plagued with thoughts that she'll try to win a lawsuit out of anger.
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    Not really.
    She would need to show continued and persistent threatening behavior on your part. You were persistent, not nothing was threatening, and you have stopped.

    Also, she would have to prove damages. How did what you do damage her in anyway? It doesn’t sound like it did

    Sounds like you don’t have anything to worry about brah.

    If she was going to take any action, she probably would have done it back then, not wait a year
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    Why should you go to jail for a crime someone else noticed?
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    Originally Posted by Bigbuster1 View Post
    Also, she would have to prove damages. How did what you do damage her in anyway? It doesn’t sound like it did
    I mean, the only thing would be if she claimed I was "emotionally abusive" cause in my last message I called her out for being fake. Not sure how the law works, or where the line is drawn. Clearly this person isn't very honest, which is why I'm overly paranoid.
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    Why should you go to jail for a crime someone else noticed?
    wut?
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    Originally Posted by Henry2001x View Post
    I mean, the only thing would be if she claimed I was "emotionally abusive" cause in my last message I called her out for being fake. Not sure how the law works, or where the line is drawn. Clearly this person isn't very honest, which is why I'm overly paranoid.

    wut?
    Brah you seem to have a very high level of anxiety.
    Would seek help if I were you
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    this is true.
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