What to text a girl after first date

[Monsoon178]

I had a pretty good first date today. We went out for lunch and she was very talkative. She laughed and smiled a lot and asked heaps of questions so she was pretty interested. We lasted 2 hours as well.

What do I text her now to say thanks for today?

I said at the end that I’d love to hangout again sometime and she said that sounds good.

[NealIRC]

Wait for her to text you.

[randomuser12345]

Wait for her to text you.

Works when you are Chad swimming in options.

For regular guy: just text her smth neutral next day, like "hey, have a good day"

[ChangeOfStyle]

''Honestly had alot of fun [insert date of first date]. How about we meet up again at [insert location], let's say about [insert time]''

Just be forward with it mate, obviously she's interested in you. Time for you to set up a second date, if she's not interested in it then move on, if she is then good for you

[MaxMaximorum]

If you text her "thanks" you might as well just txt her "please please please **** me, I have absolutely no one else interested, I am begging you, please **** me"

The problem is women use other women's interest in a man as a huge signal. Therefore, you should txt her nothing as if you are already talking to someone else.

[randomuser12345]

If you text her "thanks" you might as well just txt her "please please please **** me, I have absolutely no one else interested, I am begging you, please **** me"

The problem is women use other women's interest in a man as a huge signal. Therefore, you should txt her nothing as if you are already talking to someone else.

yeah right. She has x100 his options and if you think she will be so much into him after 1 freaking date to start chasing you are delusional. Except he is a Chad and if he was he wouldn't ask that question or if she is not attractive.

I mean sure you can just dgaf and be silent but you better be rdy to lose the girl. And i'm not saying this as "haha look at him, what a simp". You just have to decide what is more important for you: to possibly have sex or to appear cool.

[etet1919]

I had a pretty good first date today. We went out for lunch and she was very talkative. She laughed and smiled a lot and asked heaps of questions so she was pretty interested. We lasted 2 hours as well.

What do I text her now to say thanks for today?

I said at the end that I’d love to hangout again sometime and she said that sounds good.

I have a novel idea- why don't you CALL her?? You'll appear different in this way, no matter the current "competition" you may or may not have.

[F.A.P.]

Dikk pics have never been proven to be wrong.

[Midi77]

If you believe you created a connection, let it sit, you want to do the exact opposite in her eyes as to what she's expecting, this approach creates needed tension as well, when you do communicate again, more than likely, if you created that connection, she will reach out, if not, contact her several days from your first date at a time she would NOT expect you to be free, be firm and confident, don't apologize for being distant, or non-communicative, just state you have been busy with your own things if she asks. Once you have her on the line again, you're in, for essentially as long as you want, or until you become needy.

Further, don't listen to guys that say she has endless options and will forget you, if you have done the above, they will still be receptive even months later.

[NealIRC]

So as I said before, wait for her to text or call you.

I mean, you asked her out for the 1st date, so it's only natural that she asks you out for a 2nd date. But if she texts implying she wants to meet again, then go ahead and ask her out on a 2nd date.

[Jms89]

I always tell girls to text me when they get home safely. If they do, they're ususally down for a second date. If you don't hear from them, on to the next.

It's all about your delivery op...you can get alot more done in person than texting on a cell. Always push to be with her in person. Avoid texting her all the time. You have to have a certain swag about you to keep a woman interested.

[JuicedMayhem]

I rape you next time

[BeginnerGainz]

Offer her some fuk

Or as mentioned before call her! Ask her if she’d like to get together and do something fun where you guys don’t have to talk about every little thing.

[Monsoon178]

I said:

“Hey. Thanks for today. I had a really great time. Hope your food was as nice as mine. It was lovely to hang out with you and I’d love to do so again. In the meantime I’m just getting ready to watch a Buzzfeed Unsolved”

We were talking about Buzzfeed Unsolveds during the date.

She said thanks for today a couple of times.

[Caldef]

I said:

“Hey. Thanks for today. I had a really great time. Hope your food was as nice as mine. It was lovely to hang out with you and I’d love to do so again. In the meantime I’m just getting ready to watch a Buzzfeed Unsolved”

We were talking about Buzzfeed Unsolveds during the date.

She said thanks for today a couple of times.

That's ok but......

As other people also said

CALL HER!!!

A phone call is so much better than a boring old text. And yes, texts are boring.

[Monsoon178]

She could have call anxiety. Most people do.

[spadelexus]

Typically next day I'll txt "hey I had a nice time with you last night. I think you are a great girl and I want to see you again"

Short. Simple. To the point. Keeps it open for her to respond and doesn't come across too needy like pushing for a 2nd date with date/time/location.

If I know things are going well on the first date, i.e we start making out/have sex, etc...then I'll typically lock a 2nd date down while I'm with them.

[BlackScorpio91]

Why do you guys make it more complicated than it needs to be?

Just text her something in lieu you had a great time.

[MFarrar74]

"that was fun, i am free on xxx time and date. meet me there."

always be making plans.

[DharmaYoung19]

The girls gave you good advice. Grow some balls and call her (more fun and more time efficient)
The girls are also too nice to tell you directly that the text you sent was lame and boring.

If she's too insecure to answer the phone, why the hell would you want to date someone like that anyway? I'm assuming you consider yourself a catch.

What is the best text to send a girl after the first date?
NOTHING

Wait 4-5 days to see if she wonders about you and reaches out. You should be busy pursuing your goals, working out, family friends, other girls. If 4-5 days go by and she doesn't reach out, call her and ask her when she is free. Set up a definite date and time to pick her up in the EVENING a few days later. Pick her up and surprise her with a fun date somewhere cool (bowling, arcade, dive-par, pool, drinks) and then go to 1 or 2 other fun places after the first place.

BONUS TIP: Make sure the last excursion is somewhere near your place.

[Bdm107]

The girls gave you good advice. Grow some balls and call her (more fun and more time efficient)
The girls are also too nice to tell you directly that the text you sent was lame and boring.

If she's too insecure to answer the phone, why the hell would you want to date someone like that anyway? I'm assuming you consider yourself a catch.

What is the best text to send a girl after the first date?
NOTHING

Wait 4-5 days to see if she wonders about you and reaches out. You should be busy pursuing your goals, working out, family friends, other girls. If 4-5 days go by and she doesn't reach out, call her and ask her when she is free. Set up a definite date and time to pick her up in the EVENING a few days later. Pick her up and surprise her with a fun date somewhere cool (bowling, arcade, dive-par, pool, drinks) and then go to 1 or 2 other fun places after the first place.

BONUS TIP: Make sure the last excursion is somewhere near your place.

This guy gets it.

Yeah only use your phone for logistics/meeting up. The next time you contact should be for meetup 2. If she contacts before then use that as the initiation to setup the next meet.

[Mr Beer]

Yeah only use your phone for logistics/meeting up. The next time you contact should be for meetup 2.

thissssssssssss

Guys always want to know how to seduce a girl via text, I don't see the point in bothering. You can bring 10x as much to the table in person. If you can't get her interested in real life, you sure as chit can't get her interested by sending her messages.

Plus a man shouldn't be chatting on the phone all day long like a woman or a child. That's just a personal opinion but I think you come across like a little pussy if you're texting a girl multiple times per day.

[ItalianGigaChad]

I had a pretty good first date today. We went out for lunch and she was very talkative. She laughed and smiled a lot and asked heaps of questions so she was pretty interested. We lasted 2 hours as well.

What do I text her now to say thanks for today?

I said at the end that I’d love to hangout again sometime and she said that sounds good.

Those first date nerves you’re feeling? She’s feeling them, too. That voice in the back of your mind asking, Do you think she had a good time? She’s hearing it, too. So, if you enjoyed going out with her, you should tell her. You might assume it goes without saying, but it doesn’t. Girls want to hear that you had a great time. Try saying: I really enjoyed getting to know you tonight. Thanks for such a fun evening. Or: I had a feeling our date was going to be fun, but somehow, it was even more fun than I imagined. Thanks for spending your Saturday night with me. It shows her that you’re into her and helps lay the groundwork for a second date.

[PxV]

Some good advices here, usually you feel it either you guys connect or not on the 1st date. I just had one today and she texted me back. We both have busy schedule, though so didn't schedule a 2nd date yet.

[HotlineBling]

Wait for her to text you.

This. Idc what anyone else says.