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    Arrow Girl I hooked up with in past wants to hang out, then flakes?

    Long story short she texts me at 2am Friday while she was out asking what I’m up to. I’m asleep. I text her the next morning inviting her to my loft for some drinks tonight. She agrees. Text her around noon and ask what her drink of choice is, she texts back 7 hours later saying “would you hate me if we move this to tomorrow?”

    No skin off my back but you think she’s playing games? Just gauging my interest?

    Figure I’ll wait two hours to get back to her.
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    You're low on her list of priorities.
    I'd say if she bails again go NC but if you already have plans definitely don't alter them for her.
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    She was drunk and horny at 2 AM and changed her mind after sleeping it off. Nothing more to it. Don't overthink it.
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    I personally would be really happy if a past hookup hit me up

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    She is just checking to see if you're available. Do not accept her plans for tommorow, make them in the future on your terms.
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    You are probably plan b. Don't contact her.
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    Originally Posted by Caldef View Post
    You are probably plan b. Don't contact her.
    You’re right. Man if these girls are out here playing games like that then Ill start too. As much as clapping those cheeks would be nice I think this insight is going to be more valuable in the long term.
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    Originally Posted by qawsedb View Post
    You’re right. Man if these girls are out here playing games like that then Ill start too. As much as clapping those cheeks would be nice I think this insight is going to be more valuable in the long term.
    Don't play games. That's a feminine trait. Just be an authentic man.

    And quit going after low quality women who are about that bs.
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    Originally Posted by qawsedb View Post
    Long story short she texts me at 2am Friday while she was out asking what I’m up to. I’m asleep. I text her the next morning inviting her to my loft for some drinks tonight. She agrees. Text her around noon and ask what her drink of choice is, she texts back 7 hours later saying “would you hate me if we move this to tomorrow?”

    No skin off my back but you think she’s playing games? Just gauging my interest?

    Figure I’ll wait two hours to get back to her.
    Dude she rescheduled, thats not flaking
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    Her - “would you hate me if we move this to tomorrow?”
    You - "Yes absolutely, but I know you're going to make it up to me as soon as you see me, 8pm. Ill see you then"

    Now it sets the tone that she has to put work in for you.
    Take me seriously at your own risk.

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    Originally Posted by qawsedb View Post
    Long story short she texts me at 2am Friday while she was out asking what I’m up to. I’m asleep. I text her the next morning inviting her to my loft for some drinks tonight. She agrees. Text her around noon and ask what her drink of choice is, she texts back 7 hours later saying “would you hate me if we move this to tomorrow?”

    No skin off my back but you think she’s playing games? Just gauging my interest?

    Figure I’ll wait two hours to get back to her.
    She's trying to flip the script by making herself feel like she controls the desire dynamic of this interaction. Her goal isn't meeting up, it's making you give her some indication of interest so she doesn't feel like being pumped & dumped once again.
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    Originally Posted by qawsedb View Post
    Long story short she texts me at 2am Friday while she was out asking what I’m up to. I’m asleep. I text her the next morning inviting her to my loft for some drinks tonight. She agrees. Text her around noon and ask what her drink of choice is, she texts back 7 hours later saying “would you hate me if we move this to tomorrow?”

    No skin off my back but you think she’s playing games? Just gauging my interest?

    Figure I’ll wait two hours to get back to her.
    You will look like a fool clearing out your schedule for the next day just to accommodate her. There's still a way to salvage your dignity. Just text her back "Lol, you really think I wanted to hang out with you? I just agreed to chill because I felt sorry for your stupid@ss. You obviously have daddy issues and mosquito bite boobs. Lol, so long have a good life peasant!" Hurry up OP, longer you wait the more desperate you look.
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    she's not flaking if she's offering a reschedule date dude. especially if it's the next day. it's hardly next week

    that said, you should still make yourself appear busy.

    just say yeah sure, but has to be after X time (don't say why)

    Originally Posted by rtljmc17 View Post
    Her - “would you hate me if we move this to tomorrow?”
    You - "Yes absolutely, but I know you're going to make it up to me as soon as you see me, 8pm. Ill see you then"

    Now it sets the tone that she has to put work in for you.
    this is also a good response
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    Plan A finally texted her back.
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    Glad to see not all of RH has gone full retard...

    Originally Posted by rtljmc17 View Post
    Her - “would you hate me if we move this to tomorrow?”
    You - "Yes absolutely, but I know you're going to make it up to me as soon as you see me, 8pm. Ill see you then"

    Now it sets the tone that she has to put work in for you.


    Originally Posted by taskmob View Post
    You will look like a fool clearing out your schedule for the next day just to accommodate her. There's still a way to salvage your dignity. Just text her back "Lol, you really think I wanted to hang out with you? I just agreed to chill because I felt sorry for your stupid@ss. You obviously have daddy issues and mosquito bite boobs. Lol, so long have a good life peasant!" Hurry up OP, longer you wait the more desperate you look.
    Ban this troll

    Originally Posted by smashedurgfx10 View Post
    she's not flaking if she's offering a reschedule date dude. especially if it's the next day. it's hardly next week

    that said, you should still make yourself appear busy.

    just say yeah sure, but has to be after X time (don't say why)



    this is also a good response
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    Plan A finally texted her back.
    Who the **** cares, dude? The order is have fun -> sex -> relationships. There's still a lot of hoops SHE has to jump through.
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