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    DMed girl what does she want

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    So I DM this girl randomly (I don't know her but we follow each other), just shooting random shots. She actually replies and we have a decent convo for 30 minutes. Then she stopped responding suddenly and its been silence since. In the middle of the convo she tells me she would be keen to catch up for coffee (not used to chicks making the first move tbh). But we were talking about uni stuff (I'm a senior) so I don't know if she just wants to pimp me out for uni info or is actually interested.

    Any advice brothers? I would be inclined to believe she was interested as she actually responded to me and had a good chat but since then its been silence. Should I just ask for the coffee?
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    I don’t get how people are so clueless lol.

    Just message and say “Hey what’s up? Are you free X day? Let’s go grab that coffee.”

    Simple.
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    She was bored and really has no interest probably thinking you’re weird but didn’t mind bull****ting for a bit
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    1. If you are experienced in raising attraction face to face hit her up and set up a date.
    2. Know that her interest in you is pretty low right now.
    3. Be prepared to get flaked on even if she agrees.
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    kinda weird to give advice without seeing the actual convo but i would've been out once she said yes to the coffee. leave her wanting a bit instead of carrying on for 30 minutes.

    like, you got her, then you talked her out of it from the sounds of things. still worth maybe asking her out if you give it a day or two.
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    Originally Posted by Murph0408 View Post
    kinda weird to give advice without seeing the actual convo but i would've been out once she said yes to the coffee. leave her wanting a bit instead of carrying on for 30 minutes.

    like, you got her, then you talked her out of it from the sounds of things. still worth maybe asking her out if you give it a day or two.
    I would agree with what you said but she was the one who asked me out for coffee, which makes me think she is quite interested, now the silence lol. Unless like I said, she purely wants to talk about school lol
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