never understood those 35yo+ single women

[iloveus]

Idk if this was to me or in general. But I was already married for a long time. I got married young at 26 and was married all through my 30’s.

Now I’m in my 40’s and divorced and have zero interest in remarrying (other than in very specific circumstances the chances of which are basically zero).

So really there is no need to settle since I don’t want kids or remarriage anyway. Casual dating is a better option for me.

Now if by lottery odds I do meet someone amazing one day who does meet my standards then sure I would want remarriage. But the odds of that are so low that it’s not even worth considering as an option.

[BigHugeLawls]

No meed to understand em OP

just bang em. Best sex of your life

[kimm4]

One of my coworkers is 48 and engaged to a guy ten years younger. They are getting married February. I have never seen the guy though so have no idea what he looks like.

My youngest sister is 42 and married a man 11 yrs younger. When they got married he knew she never wanted kids and was ok with it. Now that he's older he changed his mind. She wants him to have that and to be happy so she recently divorced him.

They ended on good terms but I'm crushed because I miss him.

[r32gojirra]

Bad personalities, high stadards, poor life choices, etc.

^^^tgis

[kinzu1996]

That's the only option, the casual thing with chads. Nobody wants a relationship with woman that old..except in SS's case apparently everyone wants a relationship...but in general even the men our age or even older want younger women. So what option do we have?

I do blame men also, but you have to understand when you are 40+ not everything is centered around looks, how about finding someone with who you can build a good friendship and a good relation, the disney love at your age shouldn't be considered, but having at someone to rely and he at you.

Idk if this was to me or in general. But I was already married for a long time. I got married young at 26 and was married all through my 30’s.

Now I’m in my 40’s and divorced and have zero interest in remarrying (other than in very specific circumstances the chances of which are basically zero).

So really there is no need to settle since I don’t want kids or remarriage anyway. Casual dating is a better option for me.

Now if by lottery odds I do meet someone amazing one day who does meet my standards then sure I would want remarriage. But the odds of that are so low that it’s not even worth considering as an option.

your biggest problem is high standards, and only focusing on looks while being 40+, looks are focused while being young, i think at your age you should be looking at other aspects of males, and what happens when you hit 50+ ? and ask yourself do you find it normal a woman your age using a snapchat ? everyone is free to do whatever they want, but sometimes ask yourself where you are headed.

[savageoldman]

Same I’m not sure what is behind that.

My fwb A of three years repeatedly asked me to have a baby for years and has talked about marriage too. He has dated young girls too during that time and always said he didn’t like them and he only wants me. Idk what he was thinking. Anyway that relationship is over now.

Then another fwb B that I’ve talked to on/off for three years also always asks me for a srs relationship. I’ve actually tried to get back to fwb with him recently because my other fwb A relationship is over. But every time I ask to see him he says he only wants to see me if we start actually srs dating and start a srs relationship where I’m his gf. Then I tell him I only want casual fwb with him and he gets mad every time. Idk why. Oh and he also said he wishes we could have a baby.

lol you are delusional

[eod8989]

It isn't even normal to be single after 35. So it has to be a standards thing for women. Nobody likes just sitting at home alone especially into their 40's and 50's lol.

[Cass40]

My youngest sister is 42 and married a man 11 yrs younger. When they got married he knew she never wanted kids and was ok with it. Now that he's older he changed his mind. She wants him to have that and to be happy so she recently divorced him.

They ended on good terms but I'm crushed because I miss him.

Sorry to hear

Luckily for us we've always been on the same boat on not wanting kids. I think we would've stayed together regardless..even if one of us wanted a kid. Luckily didn't come to that because I just never had my chit together nor have any family support out here.

I do blame men also, but you have to understand when you are 40+ not everything is centered around looks, how about finding someone with who you can build a good friendship and a good relation, the disney love at your age shouldn't be considered, but having at someone to rely and he to you.

Of course. I have no idea but I am basing my observations on things that I hear other women my age say. I just never see anyone our age finding anything out there...except that one coworker so there are few exceptions but it's not common.

[Silencespeaks]

I do blame men also, but you have to understand when you are 40+ not everything is centered around looks, how about finding someone with who you can build a good friendship and a good relation, the disney love at your age shouldn't be considered, but having at someone to rely and he at you.


your biggest problem is high standards, and only focusing on looks while being 40+, looks are focused while being young, i think at your age you should be looking at other aspects of males, and what happens when you hit 50+ ? and ask yourself do you find it normal a woman your age using a snapchat ? everyone is free to do whatever they want, but sometimes ask yourself where you are headed.

Yes I have thought it through very carefully in the past and have seriously considered dating men I’m not physically attracted to but who have other good qualities like good character, stable financially etc.

Have thought this through carefully both in theory AND in practice actually going out on dates with multiple men who I was not attracted to just to “give them a chance.”

After careful consideration I concluded that NOPE I cannot date someone I’m not physically attracted to. No matter how wonderful his character may be or how stable he is financially, I just can’t do it. I can’t bring myself to kiss someone or worse have sex with someone or live with someone that I’m not attracted to.

Just can’t do it. I do understand that many other women may make a different choice and I understand their strategy. But I just can’t and I’d really rather stay single with fwb than settle for someone I’m not attracted to.

[kinzu1996]

Of course. I have no idea but I am basing my observations on things that I hear other women my age say. I just never see anyone our age finding anything out there...except that one coworker so there are few exceptions but it's not common.

You have to consider that it is not normal to be single at that age, don't listen to no one, plenty of people i know are still married, because most people are married at that age, you are an anomaly, ask yourself what did happen to your life to be single atm, was it because of your fault or someone's else, look if a woman get multiple divorces, she is the problem, and i do think it's sad to be single at that age, humans are not made to live alone nor having "fwb", did that even existed before ?

[Cass40]

You have to consider that it is not normal to be single at that age, don't listen to no one, plenty of people i know are still married, because most people are married at that age, you are an anomaly, ask yourself what did happen to your life to be single atm, was it because of your fault or someone's else, look if a woman get multiple divorces, she is the problem, and i do think it's sad to be single at that age, humans are not made to live alone nor having "fwb", did that even existed before ?

I would never divorce but what if he kicks the bucket..god forbid

[VTheKing]

Nearly all the upfront attention women get in online dating is desperation or probabilistic play - that is, men hitting up as many women as possible in hopes that one of them will reciprocate. That doesn't exactly translate into actual long-term relationship prospects, considering there's nothing separating nearly all of these men outside of the fact they're thirsty/desperate. And likewise, from the men's perspective, they will move on as soon as a different pair of tits appears to be more attainable.

So when some of these women claim that all men are the same sex-obsessed fiends, they aren't wrong - if that's the experience they subject themselves to. But that's what most online dating platforms systematically encourage.

[BlackJack619]

4, focusing on building a career

This is what my wife was doing

[Icepops81]

Gotta follow your gut. Could be many reasons a woman that age is single. Introverted, widowed, crazy! You’ll find out at some point. Could take a few years if you’re not an expert on identifying red flags. Worst case scenario you’ll end up poor, in jail, or murdered by her new boyfriend.

[kimm4]

I would never divorce but what if he kicks the bucket..god forbid

FWB and lots of hobbies...I won't ever marry again srs.

[savageoldman]

Please be gentle with her, she is old and alone, be considerate, yes?

lol piss off

[ErnieMccracken]

FWB and lots of hobbies...I won't ever marry again srs.

lmao why not? Aren't you firmly team marriagecel?

[Silencespeaks]

lol you are delusional

How so?

I love having young fwb and I’m realistic that it will never be anything srs or long term.

[Fang2]

How so?

I love having young fwb and I’m realistic that it will never be anything srs or long term.

That's good since you have the mentality of an 18 year old immature princess.

[aleeboy]

They have eyes for senior executive level chads

Incapable of thinking of anyone but themselves

Daddy issues

Abandonment issues

Bad personalities

Too clingy/ stalkerish

Plenty of girls 35+ earning lots of money. They plough all their cash into Dogs & Dildos.

[A-GAME]

High standards obv

What kind of cat do you have and what colour is your dildo??

[Silencespeaks]

What kind of cat do you have and what colour is your dildo??

Don’t have either!!

I don’t like pets and don’t want any. I love animals but they belong in nature. Animals living in people’s houses is unhygienic imo.

[Silencespeaks]

That's good since you have the mentality of an 18 year old immature princess.

So what exactly should 40+ year old mentality be?

To settle for someone you don’t even like just to not be alone?

[iloveus]

Animals living in people’s houses is unhygienic imo.

How so?

[Silencespeaks]

How so?

Just think it’s unhygienic. Animals belong outside, not in a house as substitutes for human companions. Especially when people let them sleep in their bed and eat in their kitchen etc. Just don’t like the concept of pets in general.

[TrickHenry]

The cock carroussel might be fun to ride, but it takes its toll..

[Lasik2000]

100% mental problems

[CrookedDink]

Just think it’s unhygienic. Animals belong outside, not in a house as substitutes for human companions. Especially when people let them sleep in their bed and eat in their kitchen etc. Just don’t like the concept of pets in general.

Cats and dogs belong outside? You're talking like they're racoons or something.

[Silencespeaks]

Cats and dogs belong outside? You're talking like they're racoons or something.

Not saying existing pets should be put outside. Of course they should be lovingly cared for.

Just think it’s weird that humans are breeding animals to keep inside their homes. It’s unhygienic.

And I think people who are super close with their pets and treat them as people or children are weird.

[anonymous]

Bro this is a myth. There is no wall. Male thirst is infinite.

Not a myth, but it is understood.


When a female hits the wall, she is invisible to Chad and perhaps even Brad.
There is a wall, but not for Timothy, his thirst and desperation is endless. Fact of the matter is... The less attractive the woman is, the more thirsty the Timothys get..