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    Originally Posted by Fang2 View Post
    Why does getting married matter though? You can do the same things being in a serious long term relationship as being married.
    Right that’s why I’m not looking to remarry. I want to just stay single either with fwb or a bf.

    The ONLY way I would consider remarriage is if the guy is attractive AND good character AND wealthy.

    Chances of that are about zero so that is why I’m not looking for marriage at all. Marriage has zero benefits to me other than in those narrow circumstances.

    Now for people who want kids I think marriage makes sense because it’s best for kids to grow up in a nuclear family.
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    Originally Posted by FailedPotential View Post
    Yep.

    Makes me think about the whole "be yourself" thing. People may tell you they want you to be yourself... but they don't. They want you to be as they want you to be, which is probably not your true self.
    I'd be interested to find out where the 'just be yourself' mantra began but I would presume it started as a tool for alleviating anxiety among children.

    It isn't necessarily bad advice. By 'being yourself' you'll attract people into your life who are naturally compatible with your personality.

    But it does encourage ignorance of interpersonal relationships and what they are founded on. However if I'm correct in assuming it was aimed at children then at that age it doesn't really matter.

    What does trouble me is you see the same advice given in dating as well. It's true. You should be yourself to an extent, as in don't become someone you don't identify with to attract a certain person. But people shouldn't be fooled into thinking their partner doesn't want something from them.

    If you're an intolerable phaggot in life and wonder why being yourself isn't working, it's because you're intolerable. Ironically even intolerable people don't want to hang around copies of themselves.
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    vast majority of marriages are like this. even women that have some self realization admit their youth is for many chads and then you find a guy you can stomach that's wealthy.

    the average dude would literally blow a gasket if they took a step back and gave their situation an objective look.
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    Originally Posted by RoxyFoxy22 View Post
    I believe most successful marriages are the ones where the people took into account the money before saying yes. I also believe it would be so much easier to talk nicely to your husband in a 12 bedroom penthouse rather than talking nicely to him in a rented studio in some ugly poor city.
    Yes I think money makes everything easier.

    That said my marriage didn’t end over money. We were broke when we got married but we were making a lot of money when we got divorced.
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    Originally Posted by Silencespeaks View Post
    Right that’s why I’m not looking to remarry. I want to just stay single either with fwb or a bf.

    The ONLY way I would consider remarriage is if the guy is attractive AND good character AND wealthy.

    Chances of that are about zero so that is why I’m not looking for marriage at all. Marriage has zero benefits to me other than in those narrow circumstances.

    Now for people who want kids I think marriage makes sense because it’s best for kids to grow up in a nuclear family.
    What if you married a rich guy who lost his business in a global pandemic or other total loss scenario?
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    Originally Posted by ErnieMccracken View Post
    What if you married a rich guy who lost his business in a global pandemic or other total loss scenario?
    If I loved the guy I would absolutely stick by his side. I was with my ex through financial problems, health problems, other problems. When you truly love someone those problems are really all surmountable.
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    In our modern society, you really shouldn't be happy for that. Women are subject to leave you on a whim, and you want all of her whims to be based on her attraction to you. Not a very good idea with how things are.
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    Originally Posted by RoxyFoxy22 View Post
    I believe most successful marriages are the ones where the people took into account the money before saying yes. I also believe it would be so much easier to talk nicely to your husband in a 12 bedroom penthouse rather than talking nicely to him in a rented studio in some ugly poor city.
    this is why everyone thinks you are a rotten person.

    You think most of things in life revolve around money, and the fact that you cant fathom living happily with someone in a studio if you had to goes to show a lot about your character and value as a human. I dont care how good looking your face is, your boobs are, or your butt is, i wouldnt touch you with an attitude like yours if I had a lot of money or didnt.
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    I think atleast 50% of marriages are this way
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    Originally Posted by Jestbrah View Post
    this is why everyone thinks you are a rotten person.

    You think most of things in life revolve around money, and the fact that you cant fathom living happily with someone in a studio if you had to goes to show a lot about your character and value as a human. I dont care how good looking your face is, your boobs are, or your butt is, i wouldnt touch you with an attitude like yours if I had a lot of money or didnt.
    Maybe you can be happy with someone in a studio, but why to be happy in a studio when you can be happy in a penthouse ?

    Also I'm hardworking, I deserve a penthouse, maybe I can pay half of it when I'm 35
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