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    Talking Do You Let Your Girl Talk To Her Exes? (SRS)

    So many threads lately about guys whose girlfriends have left them for exes, been texting exes, or who are dating girls who "talk to" exes.

    Curious, what are your personal boundaries re: women "being friends with" ex boyfriends?

    Personally I don't fukk with (even date) girls who interact with exes as it has the potential to blow up. Not sure if I'm seen as too harsh though ayyy.
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    my dinks bigger than any of her exs so I'm not worried
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    There is zero reason for them to stay in contact with an ex besides them keeping the relationship open if their current situation doesn't pan out. The only time it's acceptable is if she has kids with an ex and or is going through/went through a divorce that requires them to be in contact for legal reasons. That's it. I can kind of get behind if someone was with someone for an extremely long time and it ended cordially and the families were really close, but I feel like that rarely happens and I'd still be weary of it.
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    Cool

    I dnt give a fk what she does as long as shes throwin it back and suckin the nut out of me when we are together. U cant expect loyalty so as long as i get mines its all good
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    Not sure I'd bother with a woman with whom setting boundaries was a difficult task.

    Doesn't bug me under most circumstances if they're still friends or w/e on social media/friendly in person if they end up at the same social gatherings but IMO they definitely shouldn't be close friends.
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    idgaf as long as i am the only person she is doing sexors with. if she starts doing sexors with these other guys or close to it then i dump her.
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    Originally Posted by billclintonnn View Post
    There is zero reason for them to stay in contact with an ex besides them keeping the relationship open if their current situation doesn't pan out. The only time it's acceptable is if she has kids with an ex and or is going through/went through a divorce that requires them to be in contact for legal reasons. That's it. I can kind of get behind if someone was with someone for an extremely long time and it ended cordially and the families were really close, but I feel like that rarely happens and I'd still be weary of it.
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    No that is not ok.

    Only reason fir her to stay in contact with ex is if she still have feelings for him or if she just wants the extra attention.

    Both are bad reasons and unacceptable. Same with girls keeping male friends around.
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    Originally Posted by Silencespeaks View Post
    No that is not ok.

    Only reason fir her to stay in contact with ex is if she still have feelings for him or if she just wants the extra attention.

    Both are bad reasons and unacceptable. Same with girls keeping male friends around.
    This. Absolutely disgusting if someone tries to justify why they remain in contact with their ex. Even if the girl has good intentions, the guy is only thinking about putting that schmedium in between the walleroos.
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    I don't "let" them do anything. I'm not going to tell them how to not disrespect me. If they are talking to their x's I just next them and move on. That said, I can't recall ever having that issue because every girl I thought was decent enough to date was smart enough to know that thats a really bad idea.
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    Well you can't control them, just move on if this kind of garbage is going on, I wouldn't even bring it up just get the heck out of there.
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    Originally Posted by J411 View Post
    I don't "let" them do anything. I'm not going to tell them how to not disrespect me. If they are talking to their x's I just next them and move on. That said, I can't recall ever having that issue because every girl I thought was decent enough to date was smart enough to know that thats a really bad idea.
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    I let them do whatever they want.

    However, if I find out a girl I'm with is still in contact with an ex, I automatically dump her, or at least demote her to fwb with no possibility of parole. Never seen a situation like that where their friendship ended up being something innocent, besides people being divorced with kids. Never.
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    I dont "let" anybody do anything. Adults make their own decisions and I judge them accordingly.
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    Originally Posted by Schnitzl View Post
    This. Absolutely disgusting if someone tries to justify why they remain in contact with their ex. Even if the girl has good intentions, the guy is only thinking about putting that schmedium in between the walleroos.
    Yes and I think girls know that deep down. Just like they know deep down that their male friends want sex. Girls are just not honest about it and deny it to keep the benefits like attention.
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    If she won't drop her ex for you, you need to ditch that beyotch and NC her. It is gonna burn you otherwise.

    And if she is lying or being shady....drop her asap. I know I wish I followed my gut instinct. Have some respect for yourself and never talk to her again.
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    Originally Posted by Silencespeaks View Post
    Yes and I think girls know that deep down. Just like they know deep down that their male friends want sex. Girls are just not honest about it and deny it to keep the benefits like attention.
    Do you know girls who do this, being a girl?
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    It's not that I don't 'let' them, I just don't date women with attachment to their exes.
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    Truly depends on the scenario.. I still talk to an "ex" every now and then difference is this ex lives in a different country and it's been over 4 years and we are best friends. Shes dating girls and is gay and has only been out with girls since.

    Another reason would be if this ex had a child with her.. I dont think theres anyway around this one tho. If they're still talking to their ex and nothing has happened like the above I would never allow it.
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    Originally Posted by FU3L View Post
    It's not that I don't 'let' them, I just don't date women with attachment to their exes.
    How do you spot it though? It's not always a thing they bring up.
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    A girl I was dating way back last year was still speaking to her ex, whom she’d also just split from a few months before I met her. In hindsight these were obviously both huge red flags but with this being my first serious relationship I didn’t really know what I was doing.

    As other guys have said, and what I’ve now realised, a girl keeping in contact with an ex is just their way of keeping their foot in the door at potentially reconciling. Or their way of checking up on them to see if they’ve moved on quicker etc. I also think it makes it more likely they’re just using you as a rebound, which is what happened to me.
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    There is never a reason to date a girl who still talks to her exes or has them on social media. I've never not "let" a girl talk to her exes, because I've never dated a girl who'd want to do that. Awful idea
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