About to pack my bags and move to Italy to be with my soon to be fiancee

[Bingu]

My girlfriend and I are deeply in love. We met when I was visiting family overseas and we fell in love immediately. She is very good friends with my cousin and she knows my entire family. It is really true love and neither of us have ever felt anything like this before.. We spent 15 days together back in July and I just got back from another 12 days with her over the christmas holidays. I just booked my flight back to be with her in March but we want to possibly get engaged/move in together.

She is Italian but works in Paris right now at a high fashion place as a dress designer. I make really good money here in the states but we both want to move to Italy so she can be closer to her family. She said she would come move to the states with me if I have difficulty finding a job there but I dont think she would really like it here.. I'd feel really guilty taking her away from all of the amazing food/culture/history/her family/life of living in Florence/Milan with all of the art everywhere around you.

Her dad said he could help me find a job there which is apparently very difficult for americans to get a work visa. I know I'd be making like 40% less but I think I would be much more happier there and I need to be with this girl everyday. When we said "a dopo" (see you later. I dont like saying goodbye) after my last visit to her, it was the hardest thing I ever had to do. She was crying a lot and then I started crying seeing her so sad that I was leaving.

Has anyone ever had any luck finding work in Europe? I am looking in both Paris and Italy for anything Finance/Analytical etc. Typical corporate cuck work.

Thanks for reading.

Here is a pic of us in Rome where it was the best day of our entire lives SRS.

[NLnemesis]

I would rather die than live in paris, 100% srs

[umadbroski]

moving to a different continent just to please a woman.

Cuckening.

[Retoaded]

You could at least find a job teaching English somewhere.

[MuzzieChik786]

Trevi Fountain.. very nice.

I loved Italy, especially the southern Amalfi coast. We thought that Milan was the most pompous and snooty of all of Italy.

If you're happy, go for it. Money shouldn't hold you back from getting with her.

[nothingshocking]

Moving to Italy to chase a woman you have known for 27 days.

What could go wrong?

[JoeDelts]

My girlfriend and I are deeply in love. We met when I was visiting family overseas and we fell in love immediately. She is very good friends with my cousin and she knows my entire family. It is really true love and neither of us have ever felt anything like this before.. We spent 15 days together back in July and I just got back from another 12 days with her over the christmas holidays. I just booked my flight back to be with her in March but we want to possibly get engaged/move in together.

She is Italian but works in Paris right now at a high fashion place as a dress designer. I make really good money here in the states but we both want to move to Italy so she can be closer to her family. She said she would come move to the states with me if I have difficulty finding a job there but I dont think she would really like it here.. I'd feel really guilty taking her away from all of the amazing food/culture/history/her family/life of living in Florence/Milan with all of the art everywhere around you.

Her dad said he could help me find a job there which is apparently very difficult for americans to get a work visa. I know I'd be making like 40% less but I think I would be much more happier there and I need to be with this girl everyday. When we said "a dopo" (see you later. I dont like saying goodbye) after my last visit to her, it was the hardest thing I ever had to do. She was crying a lot and then I started crying seeing her so sad that I was leaving.

Has anyone ever had any luck finding work in Europe? I am looking in both Paris and Italy for anything Finance/Analytical etc. Typical corporate cuck work.

Thanks for reading.

Here is a pic of us in Rome where it was the best day of our entire lives SRS.

L Oh fuking L!

*Edit Gandalf up dere^^

[Retoaded]

Moving to Italy to chase a woman you have known for 27 days.

What could go wrong?

lulz I musta skimmed over that part

[umadbroski]

Trevi Fountain.. very nice.

I loved Italy, especially the southern Amalfi coast. We thought that Milan was the most pompous and snooty of all of Italy.

If you're happy, go for it. Money shouldn't hold you back from getting with her.

lol

yeah OP, just go chase some azz you have know for less than a month and disregard your career and your life in the US.

Cuck.

[kelih]

Have fun making 1800$ a month in italy/france if you're lucky. Welcome to our world

[qUaLiTyCoNtEnT1]

Better move her here before she gets raped or kidnapped or acid attacked or hit by a truck.

[dopamine72]

Keep this thread updated so we can see how it turns out for you OP

[Bingu]

paris is a chithole, if you look for work then look for it in milano/florence/venice

I did not like Paris. The food was incredible but I liked Italy 1000x more.

[Bingu]

Keep this thread updated so we can see how it turns out for you OP

Will do my friend. Not listening to any of the guys up top who have never been in love. I've had my fair share of sloots and always trying to find something meaningful. Legit feel true happiness with this girl.

[iwant2beswole]

Have fun coming back as a wagecuck in a few years when you divorce and have no relevant skills for a career here

[MuzzieChik786]

lol

yeah OP, just go chase some azz you have know for less than a month and disregard your career and your life in the US.

Cuck.

I'm not sure how old Opie is, but if he's in his 20's, he can afford the risk to find true love.

Just my opinion.

[BustaCapp]

this can't be real..

[smashedurgfx10]

Im generally quite bitter when it comes to women and dating

but quitting your job and moving abroad for a woman is extreme

I'd consider it an option if I were dating her 3+ years and you still felt the same. No one can keep a facade that long. But given the short time frame how do you know she isn't just putting on an act and trapping you into marriage?

from the pic alone she looks cute (body and hair) and can tell she isn't an ultra sloot. but even so man. you're giving up a lot for this girl.

[Bingu]

I'm not sure how old Opie is, but if he's in his 20's, he can afford the risk to find true love.

Just my opinion.

I'm 25 and have over $70k saved.

I wouldnt move there until I have a job established beforehand but I have been vigorously applying.

[hoganrulz]

If I was you op id get her to take the leap & come to America. Moving in with someone isn't as big of a deal as being engaged. But you moving to her is a bit much.

[Bingu]

Im generally quite bitter when it comes to women and dating

but quitting your job and moving abroad for a woman is extreme

I'd consider it an option if I were dating her 3+ years and you still felt the same. No one can keep a facade that long. But given the short time frame how do you know she isn't just putting on an act and trapping you into marriage?

from the pic alone she looks cute (body and hair) and can tell she isn't an ultra sloot. but even so man. you're giving up a lot for this girl.

I was the same. I gave up on looking for anything meaningful. I thought there was no girl out there who I'd care to invest my time and money into. Until I met her. If any of yall know me, this is out of the ordinary for me. But this is a different kind of feeling, one i have never experienced.

[JoeDelts]

Im generally quite bitter when it comes to women and dating

but quitting your job and moving abroad for a woman is extreme

I'd consider it an option if I were dating her 3+ years and you still felt the same. No one can keep a facade that long. But given the short time frame how do you know she isn't just putting on an act and trapping you into marriage?

from the pic alone she looks cute (body and hair) and can tell she isn't an ultra sloot. but even so man. you're giving up a lot for this girl.

[Bingu]

If I was you op id get her to take the leap & come to America. Moving in with someone isn't as big of a deal as being engaged. But you moving to her is a bit much.

That is what I really want.. Her to move here and find something and we can travel back to Italy as many times as she wants during the year while we save, and maybe in a few years move together back there. Nothing is final yet but she is applying for jobs here and I am applying for jobs there.

[ZeroPercentTip]

8.15839/10 roll bread

[SwimToTheMoon]

As a guy that lives in Europe I would give my left asscheek to move to the States srs... Spent a few months there in 2015 and I'm dreaming of going back.. More opportunities, more chit to do, people are more fun.. Just lmao at even considering France.. Even Italy is a chithole, it's fun to visit for a week but living there?

[nothingshocking]

That is what I really want.. Her to move here and find something and we can travel back to Italy as many times as she wants during the year while we save, and maybe in a few years move together back there. Nothing is final yet but she is applying for jobs here and I am applying for jobs there.

[xam1996]

where in Italy? If in the south, I got some bad news hombre

[Luc1fer]

Fuk it man, you're only 25 - just do it. But don't just do it purely for her, you barely know her.

Keep in mind that it might not work out, and have some provisions for that case. So worst case, you get to experience another culture and travel Europe - most than most miscers can claim.

[Bingu]

where in Italy? If in the south, I got some bad news hombre

in Milan most likely.

[Bingu]

Fuk it man, you're only 25 - just do it. But don't just do it purely for her, you barely know her.

Keep in mind that it might not work out, and have some provisions for that case. So worst case, you get to experience another culture and travel Europe - most than most miscers can claim.

Appreciate it man. I'm going to do it most likely but going to be smart about it. Going to try hard to find some job there, even if it doesnt pay as much as what I make now.