Am I a loser if I still live at home at 28?

[vwdsg2468]

I live with my dad. I'm 28. I have never moved out. I currently work for uber and lyft. I have 34000 dollars in car loans on 2 vehicles. 2006 Toyota Tacoma and a 2014 Volkswagen Golf tdi. I dont really have an employable skill to get a good job. I'd like to be moved out by the time I turn 29 years old in December. What should I do misc? What's a good employable skill I can learn that doesnt take too long? Srs.
Thanks.

[DoctorKazama]

I have 34000 dollars in car loans on 2 vehicles. 2006 Toyota Tacoma and a 2014 Volkswagen Golf tdi.

uwotm8

[Lolip0p]

Apply for UPS or Fedex driver position, make 100k after 4 years

[BeginnerGainz]

Become a truck driver.srs.

Took me straight into the middle class, but not all companies are equal.

[vwdsg2468]

Become a truck driver.srs.

Took me straight into the middle class, but not all companies are equal.

What company?

[DDSF1]

Assuming this is serious...

keep living with your father. Keep working. Start taking classes at JC until you can transfer to your closest State school. If you don't have any particular topic or field that you enjoy, then get an accounting or finance degree and possibly a masters, maybe even biology or computer science. Those are the standard "you can find a decent job in the field, related field, or government" degrees.

Work hard and you can be out of it in a few years. I know several irl miscers that dramatically changed their lives in their 30s and 40s, even one brah in his 50s.

[nikeoneplatinum]

Nope, I lived with my Mom till I was 40. Didn't pay any rent. No matter how hard she tried to get rid of me I would find a loophole.
i saved my money the whole time and contribute nothing to the household. Then she accidentally fell down the stairs and I inherited the property.

[BeginnerGainz]

What company?

While you are living with your parents go to the nearest community college and see if they have driving classes. There are a lot of companies that pay very well starting out.

[vwdsg2468]

Assuming this is serious...

keep living with your father. Keep working. Start taking classes at JC until you can transfer to your closest State school. If you don't have any particular topic or field that you enjoy, then get an accounting or finance degree and possibly a masters, maybe even biology or computer science. Those are the standard "you can find a decent job in the field, related field, or government" degrees.

Work hard and you can be out of it in a few years. I know several irl miscers that dramatically changed their lives in their 30s and 40s, even one brah in his 50s.

Thanks man but I dont think I should live with my dad into my 30s. A degree will take 4 years. Unless there is a degree where I can get a decent job in that field half a year or a year into it and then finish that degree part time while working that job.

[kingHanley]

CDL srs, I’m 26 and on pace to move out by age 28 with $12 k in emergency savings and 0 debt srs , go to school and save . Move out when you’re ready.

[Miscbob]

Thanks man but I dont think I should live with my dad into my 30s. A degree will take 4 years. Unless there is a degree where I can get a decent job in that field half a year or a year into it and then finish that degree part time while working that job.

You don't realise it but 28 is still young as hell. Go for the degree and you can keep ubering on the side. Otherwise what is your other option? Ubering forever...


Being 32 with a degree living at home is 1000x better than not having a degree, in debt, no degree and ubering.

At least sell one of the cars right now and pay down the loan you mongoloid. You don't need us to tell you this.

[Ratfish]

you're srsly choosing a global pandemic to try to get a job, sonfriendboy?

[vwdsg2468]

you're srsly choosing a global pandemic to try to get a job, sonfriendboy?

No even remotely worried about it. I'm a lyft uber driver. I'm exposed the most and I have zero symptoms. Most of it is a crusade by worthless virtue signaling Trump hating politicians.

[alwayzfaded]

yeah. big time loser

most alpha/driven dudes by early 20's wanna get the fuk out. guess you never party or bring girls over? just lol

tour was over long time ago.

[nm1891]

I recommend taking out another vehicle loan.

[lupus002]

Oy vey! Move out and start paying a landlord rent goyim.

[nin-com-poop]

I'm living with my mom because she lost her job, and would have trouble paying for her apartment and I'm older than you.

[FingerNailsBrah]

You should find a job and sell one of your cars. Stay at home till you have the other one paid off. Lol at moving out with two auto loans.

[alwayzfaded]

I'm living with my mom because she lost her job, and would have trouble paying for her apartment and I'm older than you.

cope

[vwdsg2468]

yeah. big time loser

most alpha/driven dudes by early 20's wanna get the fuk out. guess you never party or bring girls over? just lol

tour was over long time ago.

Never been intrested in any of that stuff. My have to do with my high IQ.

[vwdsg2468]

Bump

[Phobaphobia]

Assuming this is serious...

keep living with your father. Keep working. Start taking classes at JC until you can transfer to your closest State school. If you don't have any particular topic or field that you enjoy, then get an accounting or finance degree and possibly a masters, maybe even biology or computer science. Those are the standard "you can find a decent job in the field, related field, or government" degrees.

Work hard and you can be out of it in a few years. I know several irl miscers that dramatically changed their lives in their 30s and 40s, even one brah in his 50s.

Fukk that man. He's 28 and in debt. He shouldn't go to uni unless he knows for sure there's something there he WANTS to do.

OP, your best bet is to get an apprenticeship for a solid trade. I recommend HVAC. You will get an okay, but somewhat low wage for the first year or so, but it's a good career for the long run. Drive your rideshare at night. Time to put your big boy pants on and work hard, pay your debt off and move out.

[Fuqdatass]

You’re definitely a fuking loser, to answer your question

[stonesfan99]

yes.

[vwdsg2468]

Fukk that man. He's 28 and in debt. He shouldn't go to uni unless he knows for sure there's something there he WANTS to do.

OP, your best bet is to get an apprenticeship for a solid trade. I recommend HVAC. You will get an okay, but somewhat low wage for the first year or so, but it's a good career for the long run. Drive your rideshare at night. Time to put your big boy pants on and work hard, pay your debt off and move out.

Thanks man. Isnt Hvac extremely subject to whether there is construction going on or not?

[Phobaphobia]

Thanks man. Isnt Hvac extremely subject to whether there is construction going on or not?

Not really. What happens when a homeowner needs a furnace or AC unit installed? They look to craigslist or some place like that. HVAC guys advertise there and charge a lot. $400-500 for a 2-3 hour job kind of thing. Lots of demand for these guys from commercial and residential.

[*ShaGGs*]

I live with my dad. I'm 28. I have never moved out. I currently work for uber and lyft. I have 34000 dollars in car loans on 2 vehicles. 2006 Toyota Tacoma and a 2014 Volkswagen Golf tdi. I dont really have an employable skill to get a good job. I'd like to be moved out by the time I turn 29 years old in December. What should I do misc? What's a good employable skill I can learn that doesnt take too long? Srs.
Thanks.

If you're at home taking care of your parents or saving for a house that's different, but if you're just living there because you can't handle the real world then yeah...you're a loser and you already know it.

[nin-com-poop]

cope

You must be sad because you constantly reflect on the fact you are consistently rejected by people that hate you but are suppose to love you.

[RainingBlood]

not a loser.

we all have different paths in life and you should disregard the naysayers. i know plenty of 20-25 year olds on their own, paying for their own place + bills while working their chitty job that was supposed to be "temporary" but now is looking like a long term thing. did i mention that these people can never afford chit because all their money goes to the ridiculous rent, bills, student loans, etc.?

at the end of the day, you have a place to live. thats miles ahead from the adults and children who are homeless.

[vwdsg2468]

Bump