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  • Breakup and NC

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  • NC immediatly

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    NC or breakup then NC?

    Details in this thread.
    https://forum.bodybuilding.com/showt...hp?t=178188981

    Couldn't add a poll to the other one.

    sooo.



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    Don't just NC someone after a 1 yr relationship. Be a man, do the right thing, and move on.
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    Text her saying you need to talk on the phone/in person.
    If she doesn't reply, call after ~30 minutes.
    If she doesn't answer, dump over voicemail and NC.

    At least give the effort to breakup like a man, but if she's going to be a child, treat her like a child.
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    Originally Posted by bov188 View Post
    Don't just NC someone after a 1 yr relationship. Be a man, do the right thing, and move on.
    this

    Originally Posted by Shayded View Post
    Text her saying you need to talk on the phone/in person.
    If she doesn't reply, call after ~30 minutes.
    If she doesn't answer, dump over voicemail and NC.

    At least give the effort to breakup like a man, but if she's going to be a child, treat her like a child.
    and this

    you deliver the decision of breaking up as assertively and clearly as possible (no need to justify every nuisance, just be clear)
    then, for your mental health and out of respect for her (mainly to avoid creating false expectations), you buy a one-way ticket to NC
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    Originally Posted by bov188 View Post
    Don't just NC someone after a 1 yr relationship. Be a man, do the right thing, and move on.
    OP's sloot is doing the exact same thing tho.

    Good on you for being a man btw OP.
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    Call her first...or meet up with her if you can and talk to her about this, not the misc.
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    Originally Posted by bov188 View Post
    Don't just NC someone after a 1 yr relationship. Be a man, do the right thing, and move on.
    Fair enough honestly. Going NC straight up seems like a pussy move. Even if she deserves it. I need to hold myself to a higher standard.

    Originally Posted by Fang2 View Post
    Call her first...or meet up with her if you can and talk to her about this, not the misc.
    Literally against the law for me to meet up with her atm. lol
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    If you go NC after a certain period of time, like 2 months +, then you are a poos and anything else is cope
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    Originally Posted by NicholasMango View Post
    Fair enough honestly. Going NC straight up seems like a pussy move. Even if she deserves it. I need to hold myself to a higher standard.



    Literally against the law for me to meet up with her atm. lol


    Come on man. Don’t kid yourself
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    Originally Posted by meanstringbean View Post
    Come on man. Don’t kid yourself
    My state is a mandatory shelter in place.
    There is no need for me to drive 3.5 hours round trip to break up with her anyway.

    I texted her and told her she needs to call me. If she refuses I'll do it over text.
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    Option 5: That bish ain't hot enough to have 2 threads about her.
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    Be a man, end it with a phonecall. If she doesn't take the phonecall, leave a voicemail for her to call you back.

    If she doesn't leave a voicemail explaining the situation, and that's it.
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    Originally Posted by tripod29 View Post
    Option 5: That bish ain't hot enough to have 2 threads about her.

    I didn't want to make a second thread but it wouldn't let me add a poll to the existing thread.

    Got to be better than another OMG THE GYM IS CLOSED WUT DO thread.
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    you are going to regret calling or texting her because she won't care enough that you're breaking up with her and that's going to kill you more than the actual break up. Hell, you may even be getting just an "Ok" when you tell her "This isn't working."

    My advice is to send her a quick text message saying "This isn't working good luck" then block her on everything right away and go full NC. Otherwise you're dragging this on and gonna get destroyed in the process.
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    Originally Posted by bov188 View Post
    Don't just NC someone after a 1 yr relationship. Be a man, do the right thing, and move on.

    This OP now do it
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    Originally Posted by Noliberals4 View Post
    you are going to regret calling or texting her because she won't care enough that you're breaking up with her and that's going to kill you more than the actual break up. Hell, you may even be getting just an "Ok" when you tell her "This isn't working."

    My advice is to send her a quick text message saying "This isn't working good luck" then block her on everything right away and go full NC. Otherwise you're dragging this on and gonna get destroyed in the process.
    You might be right. But I'm not sure it matters. NC with no explanation is just hiding and it's the beta way out.
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    Communication is key. Be a man and tell her-- doesn't sound like she'll care much but she deserves to know.
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    Originally Posted by NicholasMango View Post
    You might be right. But I'm not sure it matters. NC with no explanation is just hiding and it's the beta way out.
    no, it's fine. She doesn't care. In fact, she'll probably just roll her eyes and go back to texting the other guy.

    Just text her "This isn't working out good luck" then maybe a sentence explanation and run away. You will regret talking to her.
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    Originally Posted by bov188 View Post
    Don't just NC someone after a 1 yr relationship. Be a man, do the right thing, and move on.
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    Communication is key. Be a man and tell her-- doesn't sound like she'll care much but she deserves to know.
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    Originally Posted by Noliberals4 View Post
    no, it's fine. She doesn't care. In fact, she'll probably just roll her eyes and go back to texting the other guy.

    Just text her "This isn't working out good luck" then maybe a sentence explanation and run away. You will regret talking to her.

    It's not always another guy. You read misc/MGTOW too much.
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    Do what I said in the thread

    Tell her you're gonna end it if she doesn't sort her act out, then FOLLOW THROUGH

    You said you've voiced this to her before, but she hasn't changed cos you did fuk all about it. So she knows she can get away with it
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    Originally Posted by NicholasMango View Post
    It's not always another guy. You read misc/MGTOW too much.
    Dude, it was your one year anniversary and all she tells you is "morning."

    Bro, this relationship is already over. You are sticking needles in your body for no reason. at this point by talking to her you are harassing her.
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    Originally Posted by smashedurgfx10 View Post
    Do what I said in the thread

    Tell her you're gonna end it if she doesn't sort her act out, then FOLLOW THROUGH

    You said you've voiced this to her before, but she hasn't changed cos you did fuk all about it. So she knows she can get away with it
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    Man, Chill the **** out and take miscers advice with a grain of salt especially when it comes to relationship problems.

    I have been on this forum for 10 years and miscers will always give go NC advice no matter how petty the problem is in a relationship. If I was you I would not rush into a decision not like you are gonna break up w her right now and be fukkin mad sloots in your place that's gonna be hard if everyone is quarantined so why RUSH.

    There is a lot of uncertainty about this virus right now and you don't know the type of private issues she may be going through that she may be embarrassed to talk to you about. Maybe she is on brink of losing her job/getting laid off and is wondering how she's gonna pay her bills or if she's gonna be homeless, maybe her parents are having those same problems and shes stressed about that or it could be 100's of other things that could be impacted by this virus and the quarantine put in place.

    If everyone is quarantined like you said I doubt she is cheating on you. I would say forget texting call her up and talk to her and let her know you were worried about her not responding and how it affects you when she doesn't respond especially right now.
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    Man, Chill the **** out and take miscers advice with a grain of salt especially when it comes to relationship problems.
    I agree with this; however...

    ...from the OP, girls with clinical depression are hard to deal with, and OP seems burned out from it; it's not a coward thing to admit that you cannot handle such a burden forever without burning out (I'm assuming that this is a recurring event)

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    Originally Posted by Weezy32 View Post
    Man, Chill the **** out and take miscers advice with a grain of salt especially when it comes to relationship problems.

    I have been on this forum for 10 years and miscers will always give go NC advice no matter how petty the problem is in a relationship. If I was you I would not rush into a decision not like you are gonna break up w her right now and be fukkin mad sloots in your place that's gonna be hard if everyone is quarantined so why RUSH.

    There is a lot of uncertainty about this virus right now and you don't know the type of private issues she may be going through that she may be embarrassed to talk to you about. Maybe she is on brink of losing her job/getting laid off and is wondering how she's gonna pay her bills or if she's gonna be homeless, maybe her parents are having those same problems and shes stressed about that or it could be 100's of other things that could be impacted by this virus and the quarantine put in place.

    If everyone is quarantined like you said I doubt she is cheating on you. I would say forget texting call her up and talk to her and let her know you were worried about her not responding and how it affects you when she doesn't respond especially right now.
    She works in a lab that is currently doing vaccine research. She's critical infrastructure and will not be laid off. She has been working long hours lately. If she's cheating on me she was doing it before the lockdown, and it only happened once. She's been to bars a few times but only a house once. I believe her story that it was coworkers since she went straight from work on friday every time it happened.

    But she's been closed off since before COVID. It wasn't this bad, but I was almost always the one texting first, or driving to see her, or calling her. etc. I've complained about this multiple times and she dismissed it has her being tired every time.

    I don't know exactly whats going on with her (I expect she'll tell me when she realizes its over) but I don't want to have a relationship where someone isn't going to be there for me. I was going through shet, and I had to do it alone and that is bullshet.


    Originally Posted by ncnc View Post
    I agree with this; however...

    ...from the OP, girls with clinical depression are hard to deal with, and OP seems burned out from it; it's not a coward thing to admit that you cannot handle such a burden forever without burning out (I'm assuming that this is a recurring event)

    sauce: ex had clinical depression, ups n downs almost fukked my mental health (even went to therapy for awhile), broke up and mental health skyrocketed (should have cut it off sooner in retrospective)
    This. I can handle almost anything. But I can't handle someone who will just shut me out and not even work on the problem. I can't help her if she wont let me, and I'm not gonna just wait and hope she magically gets better.
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    Can you still sleep with her during the lockdown cause you won’t be able to get tinder action very easily or a hooker
    Is it legal for me to go visit her? No. Could I? Yes. I'd be stuck with her though since my families house is quarantined. No one enters unless they've been quarantined at least 14 days.

    Do I want to do that? Nope. Some things just aren't about sex.
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    Originally Posted by NicholasMango View Post
    Is it legal for me to go visit her? No. Could I? Yes. I'd be stuck with her though since my families house is quarantined. No one enters unless they've been quarantined at least 14 days.

    Do I want to do that? Nope. Some things just aren't about sex.
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