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    Originally Posted by NicholasMango View Post
    I think it would be cruel to just dump her in the middle of this
    Not really, if things aren't working, they're not working.

    And from the rest of your OP, it sounds like this is a good time to focus on yourself, because that's a lot of chaos going on in your life.
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    Dang bro. I'm sorry, I know what that feels like. I got slight anxiety just reading the texts.

    She's being disrespectful and rude.
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    Originally Posted by Brosnbroccoli View Post
    Yeah, call her and tell her that you’re breaking up and that you won’t reply or write her anymore.
    Then when you hang up do exactly that.

    Do NOT be a huge phaggot and go NC without telling her. Only insecure trash do that.
    If she doesn’t pick up the phone after you’ve tried calling a couple if times just text her “i tried calling because I wanted to say this, but you’re not picking up the phone so here it goes...”

    You go NC only AFTER you have told her that you’re done.
    This.

    OP, it sounds like breaking up is the right thing to do. If someone cares about you, they wouldn't be that silent. That's not acceptable in a relationship, especially not a 1 year relationship and on your anniversary to boot.
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    OP she's basically trying to go NC on you but you keep messaging her. Yet you're expected to be courteous and let her know you're going NC?
    Fukin lolz

    Rip the band-aid off and go NC.
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    white guys are so clueless, def alpha bro
    cuz we are just too cool to care
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    Dude you've absolutely got to drop this girl, it doesn't sound healthy for either of you. So here's what you're going to do, you're going to rip the Band-Aid off and split with her, and then you are going to pour every ounce of heart, soul and energy into something - ANYTHING- but it has to be for you. Improve your fitness, learn a new language, learn IT skills, doesn't matter. Set mini goals and start feeling the satisfaction of achieving them. Focus on yourself for now, when you have a healthy enough relationship with yourself then you can consider adding a person into your life.
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    OP is 100% delusional and coping now from his responses. Move on now before you ruin any bit of self respect you have left.

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    The honeymoon phase typically lasts about a year (give or take a few months) and that’s when you learn whether the relationship is love or lust. Misc cannot possibly understand the nuances of your relationship from a single post or screenshot. We only know what you tell, but based on that it does not look good.

    She’s showing that she’s either lost interest, is angry at you and giving you that shutout chit sloots like to give or is genuinely depressed. I’d say I listed each possibility in order of likelihood.

    A temporary NC is a good option right now. Wait for her to come to you and explain herself. If she loves you she’ll miss you (or at least the attention) quickly and reach out on her own.

    Srs question, are you two long distance? Why couldn’t you see her for your anniversary? She could be upset about that. Dates are important af to some women.

    Wishing you the best of luck, OP. Report back soon.
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    Originally Posted by NicholasMango View Post
    been dealing with crippling anxiety (partially about her. She lives in a real **** neighborhood and the world is about to fall apart) but it's literally bad enough that at times I literally feel like I'm having a heart attack.
    and depression of my own
    WTF bro??? how do u get anxiety because of a woman?!!

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    She's definately shopping for your replacent, while u are on denial. Lol!!!
    This one, let her go and get your chit-together.
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    you know what to do. sack up and do it. It'll sting for a few weeks but you'll come out stronger if you handle it correctly. My ex started doing similar and complaining about bs. I facetimed her one night, said it's over, blocked her upon hanging up and went on my merry way. Things were good up until that point but if you understand the female brain, you'd peace the fuk out when those flags go up homeboy.
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    As the previous incel miscers stated, no need to comfort her, if she got to this point of neglect and not caring about you, I think the relationship does not need to be fought for.

    Its already over don't be pathetic

    after you tell her its over, you'll know for sure if there is a chance of this working again or not.

    Either way breaking up is the way to start
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    Who cares about texting, but if she ain't surrendering all 3 holes weekly thats when u go NC. So u still hittin it or nah?
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    it's tough. get away. Pour everything into something cool. I've bneen where you're at. I learned to crochet and got a lot better at spanish after getting over the depression i threw myself into.

    do it like this



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    Slightly different perspective here,

    Pick up the phone, ring her.

    Texts are absolutely no replacement for hearing someone's voice

    The whole world is turning to chit right now, more than ever it's important to have real connections and texts just don't cut it.

    If she doesn't answer your calls then yeah that's your answer, but for the love of God please don't tell her "you're ignoring me so it's over", because that just sounds cringey and pathetic. Just stop texting and calling if she doesn't reciprocate.
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    Originally Posted by Caldef View Post
    Slightly different perspective here,

    Pick up the phone, ring her.

    Texts are absolutely no replacement for hearing someone's voice

    The whole world is turning to chit right now, more than ever it's important to have real connections and texts just don't cut it.

    If she doesn't answer your calls then yeah that's your answer, but for the love of God please don't tell her "you're ignoring me so it's over", because that just sounds cringey and pathetic. Just stop texting and calling if she doesn't reciprocate.
    This is true. It's better to have a real phone convo than texts.
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    I'd have zero issues cutting her out and going NC, she's not into it anymore. It seems that you will relapse though when she manipulates you with a sob story, so an official break up is necessary along with blocking her number if you're serious about it
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    Originally Posted by Caldef View Post
    Slightly different perspective here,

    Pick up the phone, ring her.

    Texts are absolutely no replacement for hearing someone's voice

    The whole world is turning to chit right now, more than ever it's important to have real connections and texts just don't cut it.

    If she doesn't answer your calls then yeah that's your answer, but for the love of God please don't tell her "you're ignoring me so it's over", because that just sounds cringey and pathetic. Just stop texting and calling if she doesn't reciprocate.

    OP said she hangs up as soon as she can. It's over
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    Originally Posted by HouseOfISRAEL View Post
    white guys are so clueless, def alpha bro
    I wish I cared about anything as much as you care about white guys.

    Go NC, OP. At this point I don't even think you owe any explanation. She clearly doesn't take your "relationship" as seriously as you do so move on.
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    well, for one thing, she's hideous

    she probably got mad when you called her "pretty girl" because she hates liars
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    Originally Posted by redraider86 View Post
    Not really, if things aren't working, they're not working.

    And from the rest of your OP, it sounds like this is a good time to focus on yourself, because that's a lot of chaos going on in your life.
    Fortunately I am getting my life in order now. It's been a long time coming but I have professional help now and I'm making good progress.


    Originally Posted by ScramFranklin View Post
    Dang bro. I'm sorry, I know what that feels like. I got slight anxiety just reading the texts.

    She's being disrespectful and rude.
    Thanks man.

    Originally Posted by Legz422 View Post
    This.

    OP, it sounds like breaking up is the right thing to do. If someone cares about you, they wouldn't be that silent. That's not acceptable in a relationship, especially not a 1 year relationship and on your anniversary to boot.
    Yeah honestly I have to agree. Sucks but this is bull****.

    Originally Posted by LtGoose View Post
    OP she's basically trying to go NC on you but you keep messaging her. Yet you're expected to be courteous and let her know you're going NC?
    Fukin lolz

    Rip the band-aid off and go NC.
    haven't texted her since sunday. Mostly debating if I should tell her she's dumped nor or later. But I don't see a way out of this.

    Originally Posted by DCutch View Post
    Dude you've absolutely got to drop this girl, it doesn't sound healthy for either of you. So here's what you're going to do, you're going to rip the Band-Aid off and split with her, and then you are going to pour every ounce of heart, soul and energy into something - ANYTHING- but it has to be for you. Improve your fitness, learn a new language, learn IT skills, doesn't matter. Set mini goals and start feeling the satisfaction of achieving them. Focus on yourself for now, when you have a healthy enough relationship with yourself then you can consider adding a person into your life.


    Originally Posted by SickKuntz View Post
    OP is 100% delusional and coping now from his responses. Move on now before you ruin any bit of self respect you have left.

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    Not delusional or coping. She's just not cheating on me. That doesn't mean the relationship isn't over.

    Originally Posted by GuineaDago585 View Post
    The honeymoon phase typically lasts about a year (give or take a few months) and that’s when you learn whether the relationship is love or lust. Misc cannot possibly understand the nuances of your relationship from a single post or screenshot. We only know what you tell, but based on that it does not look good.

    She’s showing that she’s either lost interest, is angry at you and giving you that shutout chit sloots like to give or is genuinely depressed. I’d say I listed each possibility in order of likelihood.

    A temporary NC is a good option right now. Wait for her to come to you and explain herself. If she loves you she’ll miss you (or at least the attention) quickly and reach out on her own.

    Srs question, are you two long distance? Why couldn’t you see her for your anniversary? She could be upset about that. Dates are important af to some women.

    Wishing you the best of luck, OP. Report back soon.
    We live about 2 hours away. (I was pissed when she moved there too.) I got in a car accident shortly before our anniversary so I couldn't drive to her (~90 minutes away)


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    WTF bro??? how do u get anxiety because of a woman?!!

    Anyhow don't forget women watch all these redpill youtube videos too!!
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    - Anxiety
    - Depression
    - Living with your moms!!!
    - e.t.c.

    She's definately shopping for your replacent, while u are on denial. Lol!!!
    This one, let her go and get your chit-together.
    I'm a student bro. CSE at the University of Michigan. Obviously I don't work full time.
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    -I came here to take care of my mom and sisters during COVID-19. I have my own car and my own apartment that I pay for. I don't "live with my mom"

    I don't have "anxiety over a woman" I have severe anxiety in general and I was worried about how safe she would be from looters and **** as a woman living alone in a **** neighborhood. It's not the cause of, or the majority of my anxiety.


    Originally Posted by truesteez View Post
    you know what to do. sack up and do it. It'll sting for a few weeks but you'll come out stronger if you handle it correctly. My ex started doing similar and complaining about bs. I facetimed her one night, said it's over, blocked her upon hanging up and went on my merry way. Things were good up until that point but if you understand the female brain, you'd peace the fuk out when those flags go up homeboy.
    Honestly I don't know how much this one is gonna sting. My last relationship hurt a lot, but this one...idk I feel numb right now.

    Originally Posted by AlphaArabian View Post
    As the previous incel miscers stated, no need to comfort her, if she got to this point of neglect and not caring about you, I think the relationship does not need to be fought for.

    Its already over don't be pathetic

    after you tell her its over, you'll know for sure if there is a chance of this working again or not.

    Either way breaking up is the way to start
    Not sure if breaking up or just going NC is better. Honestly for me the end result is identical. The relationship is over, it's just a matter of when she learns that. Is it cruel to do it in the middle of the world falling apart? Or is it more cruel for her to think its ongoing and that I'm just patiently waiting for her?

    I don't hate her and I don't wish her any ill. But she clearly needs to work out her own issues, and she wont let me help and I can't keep bearing the brunt for both of us without any emotional support in return. It just isn't fair and I refuse to live the rest of my life this way.

    Originally Posted by Caldef View Post
    Slightly different perspective here,

    Pick up the phone, ring her.

    Texts are absolutely no replacement for hearing someone's voice

    The whole world is turning to chit right now, more than ever it's important to have real connections and texts just don't cut it.

    If she doesn't answer your calls then yeah that's your answer, but for the love of God please don't tell her "you're ignoring me so it's over", because that just sounds cringey and pathetic. Just stop texting and calling if she doesn't reciprocate.
    I've called and tried to have conversations with her. She just rushes me off the phone ASAP. She often doesn't even answer.

    Originally Posted by Fairplay View Post
    I'd have zero issues cutting her out and going NC, she's not into it anymore. It seems that you will relapse though when she manipulates you with a sob story, so an official break up is necessary along with blocking her number if you're serious about it
    No. It's over. I promised myself I wasn't going to date anyone more than a year. Dump or propose...I think proposing right now is bat**** insane.


    I make a lot of decisions like this ahead of time so I don't have to when I'm in the midst of things that could cause me to make bad decisions. Just have to trust that past me knew what he was doing. This relationship is over.

    Maybe if she goes and gets help we could have a new one in the future, but I doubt it. And I certainly wont be waiting around for her. As soon as COVID lets up I'm looking for a new one. Should give me time to get the rest of my **** straightened out.
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    Originally Posted by Caldef View Post
    Slightly different perspective here,

    Pick up the phone, ring her.

    Texts are absolutely no replacement for hearing someone's voice

    The whole world is turning to chit right now, more than ever it's important to have real connections and texts just don't cut it.

    If she doesn't answer your calls then yeah that's your answer, but for the love of God please don't tell her "you're ignoring me so it's over", because that just sounds cringey and pathetic. Just stop texting and calling if she doesn't reciprocate.
    1) the whole world isnt turning to chit, your country is one of the lesser restrictive ones right now and you still are acting like its the end of the world

    2) he already stated he does call her and gets the same cold shoulder

    3) OP is delusional thinking she isnt talking to/sleeping with another guy. Girls dont keep relationships going and turn cold unless theres another guy, they will end it or talk to you if its just depression/anxiety. I can say with about 99% confidence shes talkking to another guy, the 1% doubt is only because i havnt seen it in person.
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    Originally Posted by Jestbrah View Post
    1) the whole world isnt turning to chit, your country is one of the lesser restrictive ones right now and you still are acting like its the end of the world

    2) he already stated he does call her and gets the same cold shoulder

    3) OP is delusional thinking she isnt talking to/sleeping with another guy. Girls dont keep relationships going and turn cold unless theres another guy, they will end it or talk to you if its just depression/anxiety. I can say with about 99% confidence shes talkking to another guy, the 1% doubt is only because i havnt seen it in person.

    1.) My state has a mandatory stay at home order and 3 hospitals have run out of ventilators. An entire hospital system (Beaumont) is very nearly run out of ventilators. People are going to be dropping like flies when ventilators run out. It aint chit yet, but it's going to be.

    2.) doesn't require my response.

    3.) I'm not saying it's impossible, but I really don't think it's likely. Doesn't really matter I guess. I just don't have any evidence of it and I've seen her in depressed episodes before, she shut out literally everyone except her dad and me. Wouldn't talk to her best friends (hid in her room to avoid her best friend/roommates birthday party) I think this is the same ****, but for whatever reason I'm not the exception anymore. I don't see any reason to say she's cheating when there is an explanation that makes more sense.


    But again, I don't see how it makes a difference since this behavior alone is enough to end the relationship.
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    I get it OP. loling at the thought of you crying about her not giving enough attention, but I understand.

    NC and don't look back.

    edit: Just saw pics. On the bright side, no other guy would smash that sober, so I think assuming that there isn't anyone else is a good call.
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    Originally Posted by drvillain View Post
    I get it OP. loling at the thought of you crying about her not giving enough attention, but I understand.

    NC and don't look back.

    edit: Just saw pics. On the bright side, no other guy would smash that sober, so I think assuming that there isn't anyone else is a good call.
    OP sorry to hear what you're going through brah. PM me if you need help. Coronavirus is tough on most of us, idk if I'll have a job to go back to at uni. What this guy said.

    Also without being a dink she's no HBB lol. You can do better.
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    Not that it matters but where did you meet her?

    She seems over it and will dump you next time you see her. Do it first.
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    Originally Posted by BritishTwit View Post
    OP sorry to hear what you're going through brah. PM me if you need help. Coronavirus is tough on most of us, idk if I'll have a job to go back to at uni. What this guy said.

    Also without being a dink she's no HBB lol. You can do better.
    She needed to lose some weight. She eats when she's sad so it's a related problem. Was starting to get her in the gym before all this.
    Oh well her loss.
    Originally Posted by Droopdx View Post
    Not that it matters but where did you meet her?

    She seems over it and will dump you next time you see her. Do it first.
    Tinder. Was supposed to be a FWB but we both caught feels before we even met up. (Clicked hardcore. Had like 8hr phone calls etc) But nah. I think she is gonna be sad about this. She's not gonna dump me. She just thinks it's okay to hide in her own little bubble and come out when she feels like it and I'm just gonna be waiting. I'm not.
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    Bruh.

    Leave now. Everybody else has already said why. Don't text her, don't call her, don't do nothing. Literally cut it off. She ain't responding to you, it's not even worth dealing with. Move on to better things, instead of wasting your time and energy worrying about this girl who clearly isn't as worried about you.

    Time to start thinking about numero uno.
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    LOL bro.

    Just saw the pics.

    Go NC and never look back. How can you care so much about a fukkn troll

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