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    Girl forgot pill

    Girl and I have had some tension around the pill. Initially I’d double check with her that she’d taken the pill and she got defensive that I wasn’t trusting her. I’m just aware that the pill requires pretty strict adherence for effectiveness.

    Seems like she came around though after I discussed how it’s both our responsibility to make sure she takes it every day on time.

    I still don’t think she takes it as seriously as I do though. We had sex this morning, and then I checked her pill pack and she missed last night. I asked her to take it immediately, since it’s week 1, as per the instructions etc, and she said she’ll take a double dose tonight.

    She said it makes her nauseous to take in the morning and she’ll puke within an hour if she takes it. So would rather take a double dose tonight.

    It seems like the guidance says it’s okay and protected if taken within 24h of missed dose.

    Idk, am I just paranoid?
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    Originally Posted by Luc1fer View Post
    Girl and I have had some tension around the pill. Initially I’d double check with her that she’d taken the pill and she got defensive that I wasn’t trusting her. I’m just aware that the pill requires pretty strict adherence for effectiveness.

    Seems like she came around though after I discussed how it’s both our responsibility to make sure she takes it every day on time.

    I still don’t think she takes it as seriously as I do though. We had sex this morning, and then I checked her pill pack and she missed last night. I asked her to take it immediately, since it’s week 1, as per the instructions etc, and she said she’ll take a double dose tonight.

    She said it makes her nauseous to take in the morning and she’ll puke within an hour if she takes it. So would rather take a double dose tonight.

    It seems like the guidance says it’s okay and protected if taken within 24h of missed dose.

    Idk, am I just paranoid?
    Not really. you don't want a pregnancy and not taking medication as described can cause this. My sister got pregnant while taking the pill perfectly!!!

    Your GF isn't being responsible in this area.
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    She’s looking to capture that seed brah!

    Stay safe out there boyo
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    Originally Posted by ReadyToLift2019 View Post
    She’s looking to capture that seed brah!

    Stay safe out there boyo
    I honestly don’t think she wants to get pregnant. She’s 23. Says she’s been on the pill for 5 years and missed a day here and there but never got pregnant. Poor logic imo.

    CDC guidance says it’s okay to miss 1 dose, and still protected, but I’m aware of increased risk regardless.

    More bugged she wouldn’t take it immediately, and why it’s been me that had to remind her a couple of times now. Told her to set a reminder on her phone, but didn’t respond. Probably feels embarrassed that she forgot after claiming she’s very good about it.
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    Get her to get an IUD or the birth control implant that goes in the arm. Takea out the room for human error in forgetting to take it.
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    How autistic are you guys to believe a woman? Just because she says she's on the pill doesn't mean she actually is.
    Half the sloots i know regularly forget to take the pill and unless you take it strictly every day, it won't work as intended.
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    Originally Posted by WrestlerDude86 View Post
    Get her to get an IUD or the birth control implant that goes in the arm. Takea out the room for human error in forgetting to take it.
    THIS. Nexplanon arm implant for the win. sometimes i even bite down on my girls' right before i cum in her to test it's strength.
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    Just lol @ trusting anyone else with your contraception.

    You can’t make her take contraception seriously, all you can do is take charge of your own protection and wrap it up or dump her and hopefully not end up in the same situation with the next one.
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    Also lol @ checking her pill pack. She could easily take a pill out every day and flush it down the toilet.
    If she wants to get knocked up by you, then she will since you're too gullible.
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    1 day late generally doesn't make a difference as long as the double dose is taken properly.
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    You don’t double dose, you take as soon as you remember

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    Originally Posted by Rabbitjb View Post
    You don’t double dose, you take as soon as you remember

    Something stinks here Lucifer

    Sorry
    She did take it in the afternoon, probably 15 hours late. The instructions claim protection is still there with 1 missed, but of course the probability increases.

    Basically she insisted she’d puke it up if she took it that morning since she was already nauseous from sickness. It is known to increase nausea, and puking it up will do no good. So I suggested to go eat and take it afterwards.

    We had a serious talk and she now has a daily reminder set.
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    Originally Posted by Luc1fer View Post
    She did take it in the afternoon, probably 15 hours late.
    I’ve done that before, if you’re generally consistent it tends to be fine

    But there are other forms of birth control yaknow
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    Originally Posted by Rabbitjb View Post
    I’ve done that before, if you’re generally consistent it tends to be fine

    But there are other forms of birth control yaknow
    Ye it’s probably fine, but it was the somewhat nonchalant attitude about missing it that bothered me and she was okay waiting until that night for a double dose.

    I’m going to bring up IUD again. Is there a different hormonal impact?
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    Originally Posted by backinthegymbro View Post
    Also lol @ checking her pill pack. She could easily take a pill out every day and flush it down the toilet.
    If she wants to get knocked up by you, then she will since you're too gullible.
    When I created this thread, I was ready to ignore paranoid “red pilled” posts like this. And here it is.

    It’s called trust btw and it’s key to any healthy relationship. It’s gradual, careful and earned.

    Don’t bother responding to me because I already know what you’ll say. Just chuckle to yourself knowing that you’re smarter than every other guy that believes or trusts any woman.
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    Originally Posted by Luc1fer View Post
    When I created this thread, I was ready to ignore paranoid “red pilled” posts like this. And here it is.

    It’s called trust btw and it’s key to any healthy relationship. It’s gradual, careful and earned.

    Don’t bother responding to me because I already know what you’ll say. Just chuckle to yourself knowing that you’re smarter than every other guy that believes or trusts any woman.
    Do i chuckle knowing i'm smarter? No.
    This is a relationship help section. So i come here to give advice.
    Of course nobody actually takes advice in here and likes to learn the hard way.

    If you want to blindly trust your girlfriend, then that's what you should do.
    If you ever want to marry and not sign a prenup because you're in love and trust she'll stay with you for life, then you should do just that.
    And if you have a kid and decide not to take a dna test because you trust your baby momma, then go for it.
    It's your life, not mine. I neither chuckle nor feel bad if you end up regretting your actions.
    You do you.

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    When I created this thread, I was ready to ignore paranoid “red pilled” posts like this. And here it is.

    It’s called trust btw and it’s key to any healthy relationship. It’s gradual, careful and earned.

    Don’t bother responding to me because I already know what you’ll say. Just chuckle to yourself knowing that you’re smarter than every other guy that believes or trusts any woman.
    You can trust all you want but trust does not control what actually happens irl.

    If you want control then use condoms.
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    Originally Posted by Silencespeaks View Post
    You can trust all you want but trust does not control what actually happens irl.

    If you want control then use condoms.
    You are technically correct, but irl there are gray areas and trade offs. You shouldn’t project your past marriage experiences onto everyone else. You were young, dumb and naive, and trusted someone blindly.

    Nobody would ever have a healthy relationship if they took your advice, srs. You’ve recoiled to ultra defensive, don’t trust anyone, controlling mode.

    There is a good balance between trust and control. It’s a gradual mechanism like I already stated.
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    Originally Posted by Luc1fer View Post
    You shouldn’t project your past marriage experiences onto everyone else. You were young, dumb and naive, and trusted someone blindly.
    Project? No. But usually people learn from their mistakes. Only the truly dumb keep falling for the same chit.
    You can have a perfectly healthy relationship without 100% trusting the other person. You should always be on guard even for a little and look out for red flags.
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    Originally Posted by backinthegymbro View Post
    Project? No. But usually people learn from their mistakes. Only the truly dumb keep falling for the same chit.
    You can have a perfectly healthy relationship without 100% trusting the other person. You should always be on guard even for a little and look out for red flags.
    There's a massive difference between watching for red flags and automatically jumping to the conclusion that if a pill has been taken from her pack she could be flushing it to trick you. You sound like you're overdosing on Maury episodes bro, not just red pill philosophy.

    This is the equivalent of assuming that when your gf says she's meeting a friend for coffee she's actually going to get railed. Is it possible? Sure, but unless you have a good reason to suspect that, you should never operate on the assumption. I once dated a girl like this--she'd been cheated on in the past, so she was hyper vigilant, possessive, toxic, and paranoid. Most suffocating (short) relationship of my life.

    And btw, what the OP found wasn't even a red flag, it's consistent with her story. A red flag would be if her entire packet was empty, or something like that.
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    Originally Posted by backinthegymbro View Post
    Do i chuckle knowing i'm smarter? No.
    This is a relationship help section. So i come here to give advice.
    Of course nobody actually takes advice in here and likes to learn the hard way.

    If you want to blindly trust your girlfriend, then that's what you should do.
    If you ever want to marry and not sign a prenup because you're in love and trust she'll stay with you for life, then you should do just that.
    And if you have a kid and decide not to take a dna test because you trust your baby momma, then go for it.
    It's your life, not mine. I neither chuckle nor feel bad if you end up regretting your actions.
    You do you.

    Also having common sense isn't being red pilled. It's called rational thinking.
    It’s not

    It’s self defeating bullchit

    Trust and honour are vital to a relationship
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    Originally Posted by backinthegymbro View Post
    Project? No. But usually people learn from their mistakes. Only the truly dumb keep falling for the same chit.
    You can have a perfectly healthy relationship without 100% trusting the other person. You should always be on guard even for a little and look out for red flags.
    No you cannot and you should not settle for this

    But what do I know?
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    Originally Posted by Rabbitjb View Post

    Trust and honour are vital to a relationship
    Yes those are vital. But absolute complete blind trust? That's setting yourself up for a possibl train wreck to come.

    Or are you the type of person who would be 100% fine if your man had weekly sleep overs at his hot female friend?
    Would you never suspect a boyfriend/husband no matter how shady he'd be acting?
    Cuz trust is everything right?

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    Originally Posted by Rabbitjb View Post
    No you cannot and you should not settle for this

    But what do I know?
    Lol i guess you are the person to blindly trust someone 100%.
    Can't argue with that. Hopefully it works out for you.

    Originally Posted by Rebel012 View Post
    There's a massive difference between watching for red flags and automatically jumping to the conclusion that if a pill has been taken from her pack she could be flushing it to trick you. You sound like you're overdosing on Maury episodes bro, not just red pill philosophy.
    I never said i would jump to that conclusion.
    I said if a woman does want to trap you, she could easily trick you by simply making it appear that she takes the pill and not actually take it.

    Reading comprehension, try it some time.
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    Originally Posted by Silencespeaks View Post
    Lmao she’s gonna trap you.

    Does she know about your net worth.
    STFU. How does someone like you even give advice with a straight face?
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    Originally Posted by backinthegymbro View Post
    Yes those are vital. But absolute complete blind trust? That's setting yourself up for a train wreck to come.

    Or are you the type of person who would be 100% fine if your man had weekly sleep overs at his hot female friend?
    Would you never suspect a boyfriend/husband no matter how shady he'd be acting?
    Cuz trust is everything right?
    I trust that he would never act shady or give me any cause to doubt his honour and integrity

    Because I value him and in his moral code i the same way he values me and mine

    And yes I believe that to be fundamental
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