I’ve noticed that women will not talk to you first thing no matter how good looking you are unless you speak to them first. No matter if it’s being friendly to lead into a friendship let alone dating.
A coworker of mine mentioned to me that a lot a lot of women are his friends at a place we work at which is why they talk to him and not to me but I also made it known that he actually spoke to them first to which he acknowledged.
When did this become a thing or has it always been a thing?
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02-27-2020, 10:35 AM #1
Why do men always need to talk to women first?
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02-27-2020, 12:35 PM #2
Did someone tell you life is fair, my dude? Because if so, sorry to tell you this, but that person lied to you.
Also you’re wrong anyway though guys definitely have to put in more initial work as a rule."A stupid man's report of what a clever man says can never be accurate, because he unconsciously translates what he hears into something he can understand."
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02-27-2020, 12:40 PM #3anonymousGuest
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02-27-2020, 12:44 PM #4
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02-27-2020, 07:52 PM #5
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02-27-2020, 07:59 PM #6
I mean I've had some women talk to me first and others I had to strike up the first conversation. It depends on the woman and if she's attracted to you or not though sometimes just because a woman strikes up a conversation doesn't mean she finds you attractive.
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02-27-2020, 09:54 PM #7
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03-01-2020, 10:51 AM #8
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03-04-2020, 02:01 PM #12
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03-04-2020, 02:42 PM #13
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03-04-2020, 03:12 PM #14
This.
If you’re a dude and complaining about having to open conversation with broads, then that tells me you’re not getting much in the way of signals.
Women can and frequently do initiate, but the form it takes is almost always covert / indirect, e.g. positioning themselves close to you, occasional glances, standing directly in your line of sight, etc. You, as a bloke, merely have to be direct in your response.Last edited by alltrapbrah; 03-04-2020 at 03:20 PM.
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03-04-2020, 04:34 PM #15
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03-04-2020, 04:35 PM #16
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03-04-2020, 05:00 PM #17
We’re talking pretty subtle actions here, none of which are direct. I used to be really bad at noticing it myself but now I see it all the time. A signal is prolonged eye contact, glances, smiling, simply noticing your presence, and stuff like that. No woman is going to walk up to you and say “lemme suck your dick” unless she’s 6 vodka sours deep in a bar.
Just today I was teasing this girl at work that I’ve had some tension with. She stares into my eyes when she’s talking to me like she’s looking into my soul. It’s kinda funny and impossible not to notice. She laughs at mundane **** that I say and responds to my teasing in a way that’s almost overreactive (goofy laughing, etc). Too bad she’s a co-worker, she has huge tits and is cute as hell. I could probably take her in a back office and shoot onto her face if I just asked, but I don’t mess with work chicks.
Point being this stuff can be hard to spot without some experience but a general rule of thumb is that if she’s responding to you positively and not because she’s required to, there’s a good chance she’s into you to some degree.Last edited by FastBack6; 03-04-2020 at 05:16 PM.
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03-04-2020, 05:02 PM #18
Girls start conversations with me, i just don't know how to talk to them
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03-04-2020, 08:38 PM #19
I've had women talk to me first.
most though you need to at least introduce yourself then they will come up and talk to you later after you broke the ice.
others just stand in the open alone hoping you will notice them (full retardation far as i'm concerned)
then you get the one's who seem to teleport 2" from you out of know where and say "oh, hai, I was trying to call my friend" or "hey do you know where I can get a drink at this free outdoor concert?" when you can literally look anywhere and see a beer/drink stand.
so, either I am chad (i'm not) or dudes who never get approached are either fat/ugly (usually not) or extremely awkward and stiff looking when out (majority).
fat - you know it if you are.
ugly is suggestive. i've got some little cousins who looked like they were hit with a shovel at birth pull cheerleaders in high school and some serious hotties in college, but they were all big and lean.
so i'm guessing awkward is the reason why women don't approach or seem friendly.
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03-05-2020, 03:38 AM #20
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03-05-2020, 08:41 AM #24
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Women prolong conversations with me to the point it's become annoying.
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08-15-2020, 10:52 PM #25
i feel i like i view or look at the the word practice in a different perspective now, it annoys and bothers me, i read this on another forum and it changed my perspective, mindset, on talking to women:
A guy was asking for advice on how to get better at talking to women, and people used the word practice
"It bothers and annoys, enrages me a lot when people use the word practice, because for women, the way i see it or the way it looks like, there is no such thing as practicing talking to men, because women's lives are on autopilot when it comes to talking to men since puberty, due to all of the constant attention they've been getting since then, women are forced to, have no choice but to learn how to talk to men, and they gain it right away by doing nothing since they don't have to open their mouth first." "for women, improving their social-skills with men is involuntary, they have no choice but to do it, they are forced to, for men, improving their social wills with women is a voluntary thing, because if a guy doesn't want to improve, its simple for him, don't open your mouth first then, etc."
But to answer the OP, because there never has been and never will be, such thing as fairness, life, society, reality, is meant to be an injustice, do i like this system, gender dynamic? nope, i never did and never will, due to how one-sided it is, it's like why can't women go after men too right?, but i'm afraid theres nothing we can do about it, in the sense about changing that men always have to be the ones to approach women.
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