"C'mon...women will never, ever, ever, ever and ever approach a guy! Period! It's not her role to do that despite the progression women have made in society at large; i.e., salary, jobs, positions, women in military, etc...Gentlemen, regardless if a woman is a CEO of company, a government official, 5 star General, department head in a company, women are still women. You can't change that. It's your inner strength, your character, your personality. It's demonstrating you have high value, are self-amused, your value doesn't come from women but from your own life!"
i remember i saw that on a social media post, very bang on there, but at the same time, that doesn't mean we have to like it.
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08-23-2020, 02:45 AM #31
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08-23-2020, 02:53 AM #32
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08-23-2020, 01:39 PM #33
Because they carry the eggs and have higher parental investment, in our species. Thus, being the selectors.
Less directly, men have higher testosterone and lower fear of rejection. The reason women "signal" subtly, is so that they can't face rejection.
It always has and always will be this way, unless some very strong social force overrides the innate behavior. But forget about it in your lifetime.𝕮𝖍𝖆𝖘𝖊 𝖆 𝖈𝖍𝖊𝖈𝕶, 𝖓𝖊𝖛𝖊𝖗 𝖈𝖍𝖆𝖘𝖊 𝖆 𝖇𝖎𝖙𝖈𝖍
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08-23-2020, 01:49 PM #34
Sounds really cynical but it depends how attractive you are
Quite often when I go out (pre-covid) women would approach me and ask me various questions like "who are you here with?" "Do you go to xyz university?" etc.
sometimes they'll literally just walk up to me and start touching my body or even my face. This is with no initiation from me, literally ignoring all women just trying to drink with my buddies
This never happened when i was at a higher body fat%
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08-25-2020, 06:43 AM #35
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08-27-2020, 11:32 AM #36
The best experiences i had with girls did come from girls that did talk to me first either on person or online.
Dont be another one like every single **** outhere talking to every girl first, and be the one that a girl wants to talk with first.
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08-27-2020, 01:57 PM #37
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08-30-2020, 06:57 PM #38
how about, have you ever had a girl asked you out before? as in, ask you out first? or ask for your number first? but yes, it will always be the only thing i've hated about being born male, some say it could be possibly that i grew up with a dominant mom and submissive dad, or low testosterone, or just its naturally, genetically how you are, because people argue and say that guys, men, are supposed to instinctively, innately, naturally, enjoy and embrace being the ones to approach women, but that has never been the case for me, and i'm sure many other guys worldwide as well.
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09-20-2020, 09:34 PM #39
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09-20-2020, 09:44 PM #40
You should read this: https://www.amazon.com/Red-Queen-Evo.../dp/0060556579
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09-21-2020, 07:01 PM #41
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09-21-2020, 08:54 PM #42
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09-26-2020, 02:44 PM #43
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12-28-2020, 05:56 PM #44
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12-28-2020, 06:45 PM #45
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12-28-2020, 10:06 PM #46
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12-29-2020, 09:07 AM #47
even though competing for resources, protect and provide is an entire different matter.
Anyway, i read this from a book, the author was a woman, she said this:
"Men’s “Survival Needs”: Production, Reproduction = Survival.
Women’s “Survival Needs”: being protected, being provided, Reproduction = Survival.
So our sexual selection process—and thus our attraction process—is dictated
by our survival goals, whether you believe in evolution or God’s design for us.
And as you can see, women have more “survival goals” or needs than men do. Men were designed to essentially be able to produce and provide on their own, and can protect themselves.
Whereaswomen were designed to need the man for those things. This is why women are a bit more complicated and harder to attract, seduce than men are."
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12-29-2020, 11:28 AM #48
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12-29-2020, 11:34 AM #49
The more attractive and confident you are the more likely you will be approached more by a woman first. The rest of the picture is how you socialize. Even in nature in general the male animal goes out and selects the female mate. The female approves if they send out signals before they select a partner. We are also living creatures so the same rules apply. The male approaches the female and the female normally either gives signals of approval or the female shows interest first they will show signals. If not find an excuse to talk to you or likely just talks to you they will smile at you or blush and look away a bit. But when you see the signals its up to you to make it flow if you are interested or confident enough. Or most of the time it will take time and effort for a lot of ladies to give in
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01-01-2021, 08:25 PM #52
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01-11-2021, 06:11 PM #53
there are times, whenever i'm in a very bad frustrated mood because of the status-quo of life, reality, that dictates that men are expected to talk to women first or make the first move, that i have thought, in case reincarnation is real, the day i eventually pass away, just like no one lives forever or is immortal, i would like to come back as a different animal, because the mating dance, courtship ritual in other animals, looks a lot more easier or simple, straight to the point, point blank, than it is in humans, no mind games or **** tests, no multiple or several steps involved, it's just 2 males battle it out, and the winner gets the girl, thats it, just simple and quick like that.
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01-18-2021, 04:42 AM #54
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01-19-2021, 07:23 AM #56
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01-22-2021, 03:58 AM #58
haha. i know its an old thread but this made me laugh. some girl i talked to once or twice(at a bar) before just jumped out of no where while i was shopping. she literately just jumped through the racking out of no where and just stood in the middle of the isle without saying anything hoping and praying i would notice her and say hi. I could of walked away and crushed her ego so bad lol. but we chatted for a good 15mins. I honestly had no idea where she came from or which direction she came from. it was like she fell from the sky and she didnt even say one word. that shows you how weak women how....
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01-22-2021, 03:05 PM #59
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02-04-2021, 09:09 AM #60
While your question might be an interesting sociology question, I sense that you are asking it in relation to your dating life and I would like to suggest that in the context of your dating life, this question is irelevent.
If you want to talk to someone, you should be able to. Period. Thats it. The rest are just intellectual distraction from the problem right in front of you. When there is someone next to you and you want to say something, you should want to express yourself to be true to yourself, meeting people is really just a side effect.
You ll enjoy this video about self expression, I believe it might challenge some of your perspectives:
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