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    WTF i got social proofed !

    i was messaging a girl off tinder she told me to come over i got ready and everything then she asked for my insta so i linked it to her. All i have on there are 3 pictures of me at the gym. She then stopped responding. I got so angry. liteally spent time getting ready and eveyrthing.

    do i nede to put social pics on my insta? what if i don't have any

    **** me im really envious of those dudes who look so popular on instagram

    - pics iwth friends
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    all i have is pics of me at gym

    should i just put fake pictures on my instagram to make it look real?
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    Originally Posted by AdikinBawls View Post
    I'll take Things that didn't happen for $500 Alex.
    I spoke to girl on tinder
    she sent me snaps and said come over tnight then asked for my insta i showed her then she stopped responding
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    Originally Posted by AdikinBawls View Post
    I'll take Things that didn't happen for $500 Alex.
    Its not that unbelieveable. I've had women be hyper interested and then completely vanish off the planet once they seem to get a bit more idea of "who I am" as a person (IE: former swole ass nerd lmao). Social status / perception /archetype matters highly to alot of women from my viewing of the dating world.
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    what is your age OP?

    maybe next time just tell them you dont have isntagram if its only got 3 pictures on it anyways.
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    girls have told me it's weird that i don't have pics of myself on my insta. after they said that i lost interest. happened a couple of times

    my personal belief is posting pics of yourself is narcissistic, so i don't do it. Also im a very private person so don't want to showcase to any old ho what im up to. only have like 50 followers cos i only add people who i'm close to (Stopped adding sloots like the above)

    i have pics of places where i've travelled mostly. i edit them and they all look good as fuq

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    stop caring what girls think op. if theyre gonna judge you for your pictures, they're low value
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    As dumb as I think $hit like that is , its a fkn thing!

    When I was single most of my photos on my social media were me out with friends , pics of the few big vaca's I took , & my kid...

    I met this one broad through a friend of mine.. we met up a few times and everything seemed like it was just working... easy , laid back , good vibes on both sides...

    She asked if I was on social media because she couldn't find me (I have all my $hit locked down & private).. so I sent her the link to my FB and she went cold... I sent a couple text with no reply and just wrote her off. A few days later she felt compelled to send me a text explaining herself... and I quote "I just realized you have a kid and I just dont think I am ready to be a mom yet".... LMAO!!! WUT? My kid already has a mother I wasn't auditioning replacements. I just wanted a hole with a pretty face to park my dink in for a while...

    I thought for sure that was just a $hit excuse but the friend I met her through even said she vented to him about how much it bothered her... even he told me to just next the bitch and move on.
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    Originally Posted by Mr Beer View Post
    Just say you don't have social media. No social media is better than lame social media.
    You would think so.. but nah... they see that as extra shady , you get tossed right in there with the kid touchers and known rapist
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    lol it's so dumb but true. I have like zero urge to update my social media much. So my insta is a little bare. I had a girl texting me non stop through out the day, she asked for my insta and she instantly follow requested, and afterwords she ghosted me completely and unfollowed me.
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    Just photoshop brah...everyones faking it these days. Look at that belzarian dude, dude just travels and poses for pics like its a movie.
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    Originally Posted by 1slo5oh View Post
    You would think so.. but nah... they see that as extra shady , you get tossed right in there with the kid touchers and known rapist
    I remember listening to some radio talk show one morning where the DJ asked listeners to call in with their biggest dating ‘red flags’. The first caller, a woman, vehemently claimed that if a dude did not have any social media, she would not go anywhere near him. She then prattled on about how absurd it was to not have any social media in this day and age and how it screamed psychopath and kiddy fiddler.

    It elicited a really depressive ‘da fuq is the world coming to...’ feeling in me.

    But once again, it just goes to show how important social proof is to women.
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    I get the same, if I get a match to talk with me (usually once a month, and about half times a whale), she goes missing after exchanging social media. And this is true also for all chick, including on sites like Interpals.
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    if you only have pictures of yourself at the gym, you look like a boring autist that only goes to the gym. Put yourself in teh woman's shoes. What social value do you have? Every loser can go to the gym by themselves, but if you're surrounded by people and doing cool things, it means you must be at least somewhat interesting to hold value in the eyes of others.
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    Originally Posted by 1slo5oh View Post
    You would think so.. but nah... they see that as extra shady , you get tossed right in there with the kid touchers and known rapist
    This is true. Women take social media very seriously in comparison to us men. To women social media is like a whole new requirement for dating experience, apparently.

    I don't have an instagram but I still take a good amount of pics and post on fb to show my thoughts, etc.
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    Originally Posted by skinnyfat88 View Post
    If your Insta is gonna be that bad you're better off not having one.
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    girls have told me it's weird that i don't have pics of myself on my insta. after they said that i lost interest. happened a couple of times

    my personal belief is posting pics of yourself is narcissistic, so i don't do it. Also im a very private person so don't want to showcase to any old ho what im up to. only have like 50 followers cos i only add people who i'm close to (Stopped adding sloots like the above)

    i have pics of places where i've travelled mostly. i edit them and they all look good as fuq

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    stop caring what girls think op. if theyre gonna judge you for your pictures, they're low value
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    As dumb as I think $hit like that is , its a fkn thing!

    When I was single most of my photos on my social media were me out with friends , pics of the few big vaca's I took , & my kid...

    I met this one broad through a friend of mine.. we met up a few times and everything seemed like it was just working... easy , laid back , good vibes on both sides...

    She asked if I was on social media because she couldn't find me (I have all my $hit locked down & private).. so I sent her the link to my FB and she went cold... I sent a couple text with no reply and just wrote her off. A few days later she felt compelled to send me a text explaining herself... and I quote "I just realized you have a kid and I just dont think I am ready to be a mom yet".... LMAO!!! WUT? My kid already has a mother I wasn't auditioning replacements. I just wanted a hole with a pretty face to park my dink in for a while...

    I thought for sure that was just a $hit excuse but the friend I met her through even said she vented to him about how much it bothered her... even he told me to just next the bitch and move on.
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    Just say you don't have social media. No social media is better than lame social media.
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    lol it's so dumb but true. I have like zero urge to update my social media much. So my insta is a little bare. I had a girl texting me non stop through out the day, she asked for my insta and she instantly follow requested, and afterwords she ghosted me completely and unfollowed me.
    Originally Posted by alltrapbrah View Post
    I remember listening to some radio talk show one morning where the DJ asked listeners to call in with their biggest dating ‘red flags’. The first caller, a woman, vehemently claimed that if a dude did not have any social media, she would not go anywhere near him. She then prattled on about how absurd it was to not have any social media in this day and age and how it screamed psychopath and kiddy fiddler.

    It elicited a really depressive ‘da fuq is the world coming to...’ feeling in me.

    But once again, it just goes to show how important social proof is to women.
    Originally Posted by RubberBandMang View Post
    if you only have pictures of yourself at the gym, you look like a boring autist that only goes to the gym. Put yourself in teh woman's shoes. What social value do you have? Every loser can go to the gym by themselves, but if you're surrounded by people and doing cool things, it means you must be at least somewhat interesting to hold value in the eyes of others.
    Originally Posted by EliasEmmanuel View Post
    This is true. Women take social media very seriously in comparison to us men. To women social media is like a whole new requirement for dating experience, apparently.

    I don't have an instagram but I still take a good amount of pics and post on fb to show my thoughts, etc.

    I feel like giving up on dating seriously.

    This is a joke, keep in mind this was a 27 year old single mum who was a 5/10 at best.

    I think i'm done with dating.

    Seriously i might make a new profile and just put a tonne of fake travel pictures and **** on there or even jsut photoshop myselfi nto pictures.


    I'm done brahs.
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    Originally Posted by alltrapbrah View Post
    I remember listening to some radio talk show one morning where the DJ asked listeners to call in with their biggest dating ‘red flags’. The first caller, a woman, vehemently claimed that if a dude did not have any social media, she would not go anywhere near him. She then prattled on about how absurd it was to not have any social media in this day and age and how it screamed psychopath and kiddy fiddler.

    It elicited a really depressive ‘da fuq is the world coming to...’ feeling in me.

    But once again, it just goes to show how important social proof is to women.
    Remember what I said in the other thread about having a social circle.... Sad world. My SO doesn't have any social media currently and I'm cool with it. Don't think I've posted on IG/FB in months. It's not a big deal to me.

    Originally Posted by RubberBandMang View Post
    if you only have pictures of yourself at the gym, you look like a boring autist that only goes to the gym. Put yourself in teh woman's shoes. What social value do you have? Every loser can go to the gym by themselves, but if you're surrounded by people and doing cool things, it means you must be at least somewhat interesting to hold value in the eyes of others.
    Also THIS^

    Edit: The one dude I know that doesn't post stuff gets tagged almost every weekend with him and his buddies skiing and doing cool mountain chit. Even though he doesn't have IG or post he is seen as a "cool" guy with friends doing cool outdoors stuff. He constantly has girls commenting on his pics.
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    Have three girls I could hangout with but all ghosted after I said I don’t have an ig it’s over for social outcast
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    Originally Posted by DanielleGreen View Post
    Remember what I said in the other thread about having a social circle.... Sad world. My SO doesn't have any social media currently and I'm cool with it. Don't think I've posted on IG/FB in months. It's not a big deal to me.



    Also THIS^
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    Have three girls I could hangout with but all ghosted after I said I don’t have an ig it’s over for social outcast


    This is such bull**** though?

    Okay i'm going to go out and take some pictures at festivals etc so i can "look like i have friends" on social media

    but in reality i'll be the exact same person as before. ****ing lmfao
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    Originally Posted by PrepaidExpress View Post
    This is such bull**** though?

    Okay i'm going to go out and take some pictures at festivals etc so i can "look like i have friends" on social media

    but in reality i'll be the exact same person as before. ****ing lmfao
    See my edit.

    It is bullchit. I'm a female that doesn't have many friends nor do I post on social media. A male co-worker a few months ago was like "why don't you post on FB or LinkedIN?" I laughed and asked why. It doesn't matter. Why should I show the world what I'm doing on the weekends? He couldn't respond.
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    Originally Posted by DanielleGreen View Post
    See my edit.

    It is bullchit. I'm a female that doesn't have many friends nor do I post on social media. A male co-worker a few months ago was like "why don't you post on FB or LinkedIN?" I laughed and asked why. It doesn't matter. Why should I show the world what I'm doing on the weekends? He couldn't respond.


    I'm not going to lie I go on instagram and it makes me depressed, people have pictures of themselves, where they look really interesting, travel shots, with friends, playing sport, etc etc.

    All i have is a few gym photos.

    makes me depressed as ****.
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    Originally Posted by PrepaidExpress View Post
    I'm not going to lie I go on instagram and it makes me depressed, people have pictures of themselves, where they look really interesting, travel shots, with friends, playing sport, etc etc.

    All i have is a few gym photos.

    makes me depressed as ****.
    These days HR, managers, etc will look and find you on social media these days. I have mine on private, but if you have a page showing that you're interesting it can be a good thing. I was in the middle of applying for jobs and that does play into hiring. "Is he/she cool? Do they have friends? Do they have hobbies or just post memes?" It's shallow and cold, but that's how the world is.
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    There was a thread a few days ago about women's "requirements" for a man in 2020. The general consensus was that women are highly emotional beings and that all of their so called requirements will go straight out the window for a guy who can elicit certain feelings/emotions out of them.

    This prerequisite of having a social media presence is no different. The right guy comes along and suddenly she'll be turned on by the fact that he eschews social media and goes against the trends be his own man and not another sheep/follower.
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    Originally Posted by DanielleGreen View Post
    See my edit.

    It is bullchit. I'm a female that doesn't have many friends nor do I post on social media. A male co-worker a few months ago was like "why don't you post on FB or LinkedIN?" I laughed and asked why. It doesn't matter. Why should I show the world what I'm doing on the weekends? He couldn't respond.
    Originally Posted by DanielleGreen View Post
    These days HR, managers, etc will look and find you on social media these days. I have mine on private, but if you have a page showing that you're interesting it can be a good thing. I was in the middle of applying for jobs and that does play into hiring. "Is he/she cool? Do they have friends? Do they have hobbies or just post memes?" It's shallow and cold, but that's how the world is.
    Originally Posted by JoeDelts View Post
    There was a thread a few days ago about women's "requirements" for a man in 2020. The general consensus was that women are highly emotional beings and that all of their so called requirements will go straight out the window for a guy who can elicit certain feelings/emotions out of them.

    This prerequisite of having a social media presence is no different. The right guy comes along and suddenly she'll be turned on by the fact that he eschews social media and goes against the trends be his own man and not another sheep/follower.

    Hmm that's a good point^^

    but my problem is i can't meet women becuase i work in a tiny office/have a small social group

    This is why i get so frustrated. I feel like i can be a good boyfriend, and 99% of the time i go out with a girl it always goes well, they always end up messaging me the next day, they give me compliments HELL WOMEN EVEN PAY for my dates when i've been out, they ltireally pay for MY dinner

    but getting to this position is very hard for me because I have to rely on online dating and jump through 1000 hops e.g. popular on instagram, to get to the women and in most cases the women isn't deseriable so i end up dating wayyy below my league and i come home frustrated

    ughhhh
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    Originally Posted by RubberBandMang View Post
    if you only have pictures of yourself at the gym, you look like a boring autist that only goes to the gym. Put yourself in teh woman's shoes. What social value do you have? Every loser can go to the gym by themselves, but if you're surrounded by people and doing cool things, it means you must be at least somewhat interesting to hold value in the eyes of others.
    Ok so how I get good fake pictures? Do I have to pay actors to pretend to be people?
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    Originally Posted by PrepaidExpress View Post
    I'm not going to lie I go on instagram and it makes me depressed, people have pictures of themselves, where they look really interesting, travel shots, with friends, playing sport, etc etc.

    All i have is a few gym photos.

    makes me depressed as ****.
    Delete instagram then.

    It's not a lot of people's thing and it's only hurting you at this point.

    If anyone asks why you don't have it just confidently say it doesn't interest you.
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