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    How often do you text your girl

    Been seeing a girl for a month now, 5ish dates so far with our next one for this Friday night.

    Things are going well. I like this girl and want things to keep going how they are - I’m not opposed to a relationship at all.


    My question is, how often do you text your girl? We are getting to know each other well via dates and our texting is usually to setup dates and a little light back and forth - no full blown conversations are happening. I’m not a huge texter myself, either.


    For very early on in a relationship, like where I’m at (beyond 2 dates, but not explicitly exclusive yet) - what is a good texting amount?

    Just yesterday she texted me twice, once to ask a detail about Friday and another to tell me to watch this new movie on Netflix. We exchanged a few messages but I didn’t push it further.


    For those who don’t like texting a lot, how do you handle it? Just stay the course? What about when she starts initiating more frequently?
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    i would just text as often as you want. if you are truly into each other, texting more often won't be a problem. if you want to play games or whatever, i would just text her as often as she texts you....just match the frequency.
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    i remember with my ex we would text each other throughout the day

    but now in hindsight sometimes i think this was a bad thing as i texted her too much and she lost attraction to me.

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    Like other brah said, just match frequency. To an extent. Keep texts flirty and fun. Save conversations for in person. Not texting all day keeps her wondering about you and what you are doing.
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    Originally Posted by sandman2019 View Post
    i remember with my ex we would text each other throughout the day

    but now in hindsight sometimes i think this was a bad thing as i texted her too much and she lost attraction to me.

    Women man - you can't win.
    i used to think this until i met my current gf. if someone loves you and cares about you, they want to talk to you and hear from you. so basically what i'm saying if its meant to be, it won't matter how much you text her...in my opinion.
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    Originally Posted by BFP1991 View Post
    Been seeing a girl for a month now, 5ish dates so far with our next one for this Friday night.

    Things are going well. I like this girl and want things to keep going how they are - I’m not opposed to a relationship at all.


    My question is, how often do you text your girl? We are getting to know each other well via dates and our texting is usually to setup dates and a little light back and forth - no full blown conversations are happening. I’m not a huge texter myself, either.


    For very early on in a relationship, like where I’m at (beyond 2 dates, but not explicitly exclusive yet) - what is a good texting amount?

    Just yesterday she texted me twice, once to ask a detail about Friday and another to tell me to watch this new movie on Netflix. We exchanged a few messages but I didn’t push it further.


    For those who don’t like texting a lot, how do you handle it? Just stay the course? What about when she starts initiating more frequently?
    Phone is for setting dates only, set a date on the phone and then no chit chat here and there, create the mystery and it will increase her attraction for you. Don’t be an open book, but also don’t be an *******. When you go out on dates, have fun and all that but don’t go home and text for hours. You’re doing a good job so far, just don’t fall in to the same trap every other guy does when they are constantly texting girls they are dating
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    Originally Posted by SBB1 View Post
    Phone is for setting dates only, set a date on the phone and then no chit chat here and there, create the mystery and it will increase her attraction for you. Don’t be an open book, but also don’t be an *******. When you go out on dates, have fun and all that but don’t go home and text for hours. You’re doing a good job so far, just don’t fall in to the same trap every other guy does when they are constantly texting girls they are dating
    The set it and forget doesnt work out very well these days.

    I tried it a few times only to get cancelled out on vs matching the frequency in texting.

    Could just be me though, who knows...
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    Originally Posted by redliner9 View Post
    The set it and forget doesnt work out very well these days.

    I tried it a few times only to get cancelled out on vs matching the frequency in texting.

    Could just be me though, who knows...
    It depends where you meet them. If i get the number in person I wait a few days to call her and then when I do, I set the definite date, tell her the time I’ll pick her up and then from there on out I do not contact her until I see her in person.

    If it’s meeting them online, I will talk to them for a while and then just hit them with the “hey, I’m having a really cool time chatting to you, I’d love to get to know you better, when are you free to meet up?”

    Same principles. Set a definite date and go from there. Works for me like clockwork. Takes all the stressful nothing chit chat out and helps me focus on myself whilst also maintaining romantic options
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