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    I can see why OP is concerned. She could be a crazy bish and go around telling everybody he cheated on her, and once you get labeled a "cheater", doesn't do all to well with your next mates. But regardless, you should KNOW if you cheated or not. You cheat, if you willingly go out of your way to cheat on someone. Unless you were raped (which includes being drugged and such), there is no excuses, you should KNOW if you cheated. It should be 100% certain, nothing less.

    Also, I wouldn't even want to get back with ex, hell with anybody, if they bring this drama.
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    She doesn't want to know what you did before you were exclusive "so she can give you another chance," she wants to know so she can play the victim in the breakup.

    But I agree in that a lot of relationships/potential relationships get ruined during the "before we were exclusive" stage.
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    Originally Posted by skinnyfat88 View Post
    She doesn't want to know what you did before you were exclusive "so she can give you another chance," she wants to know so she can play the victim in the breakup.

    But I agree in that a lot of relationships/potential relationships get ruined during the "before we were exclusive" stage.
    Yeah 100% was before “exclusive” but we had a variety of other issues, it was never gonna last anyway.
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    Originally Posted by 300BLK View Post
    I can see why OP is concerned. She could be a crazy bish and go around telling everybody he cheated on her, and once you get labeled a "cheater", doesn't do all to well with your next mates. But regardless, you should KNOW if you cheated or not. You cheat, if you willingly go out of your way to cheat on someone. Unless you were raped (which includes being drugged and such), there is no excuses, you should KNOW if you cheated. It should be 100% certain, nothing less.

    Also, I wouldn't even want to get back with ex, hell with anybody, if they bring this drama.
    I absolutely didn’t cheat in the way you are talking. Never with anyone else physically. I have girls that are friends I talk to so she might have been referring to that but sorry not gonna stop talking to my friends for you. Yeah it was way too much drama, at first I thought it was me and then i took a step back and was just like this is insane, I’m stressed more than happy, and walking on egg shells wondering what she’s gonna be upset about next.
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    Originally Posted by Bj1108 View Post
    I absolutely didn’t cheat in the way you are talking. Never with anyone else physically. I have girls that are friends I talk to so she might have been referring to that but sorry not gonna stop talking to my friends for you. Yeah it was way too much drama, at first I thought it was me and then i took a step back and was just like this is insane, I’m stressed more than happy, and walking on egg shells wondering what she’s gonna be upset about next.
    Talking to friends of the opposite sex isn't cheating. If you've had history with any of those friends though you might want to re-evaluate your priorities and tone it down with said girls.

    People also get very insecure when their SO confides emotionally in a friend of the opposite sex too.
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    Originally Posted by Bj1108 View Post
    Because we were discussing giving it another chance.
    Do you really want to be with someone who has 0 faith in you?
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    Originally Posted by Rabbitjb View Post
    How can she have something if you “never cheated”

    This may be why she has trust issues
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    Originally Posted by BeginnerGainz View Post
    Do you really want to be with someone who has 0 faith in you?
    No, never trusted me either from the beginning. My own doing talking to other girls in the beginning but we were absolutely not dating at that point. I really don’t know now that I saw photos of her with another guy so may have been monkey branching who knows. Either way, moving forward better off.
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    Originally Posted by risingstarl96a1 View Post
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    She doesn’t. Said something on Snapchat or something on my phone but it’s absolute BS. Just trying to play the victim in the breakup as mentioned above.
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    Originally Posted by skinnyfat88 View Post
    Talking to friends of the opposite sex isn't cheating. If you've had history with any of those friends though you might want to re-evaluate your priorities and tone it down with said girls.

    People also get very insecure when their SO confides emotionally in a friend of the opposite sex too.
    No history with any of said girls and she has several guy friends none of which she had history (Who knows if true)
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    Originally Posted by Bj1108 View Post
    No history with any of said girls and she has several guy friends none of which she had history (Who knows if true)
    What people are asking here is "why do you care"? If she's your friend, walk through it if you care. If she wants to get back with you and she was worth it, then you can easily say that that's kind of before I met you and how I interacted with people if it's a problem then let me know (if you're willing) but you kind of put yourself out here like a teen and your over 30. Get it together buddy. Don't say why you broke up, why do you care, what doe you want from her, this is some kind of bouncing things off of the wall that chicks do.

    To sum it up anyone that says that they have proof that you did something wrong when you didn't can't be trusted with your time or focus.
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    Originally Posted by JUICEDBRAH View Post
    What people are asking here is "why do you care"? If she's your friend, walk through it if you care. If she wants to get back with you and she was worth it, then you can easily say that that's kind of before I met you and how I interacted with people if it's a problem then let me know (if you're willing) but you kind of put yourself out here like a teen and your over 30. Get it together buddy. Don't say why you broke up, why do you care, what doe you want from her, this is some kind of bouncing things off of the wall that chicks do.

    To sum it up anyone that says that they have proof that you did something wrong when you didn't can't be trusted with your time or focus.
    Well as I said, was an issue when we first met went out maybe twice, found out I was talking to other girls and I’m sorry I don’t see anything wrong with that. She moved past it but brought it up constantly using it as a crutch throughout the relationship not being able to trust me. Since that period (relationship starting) I 100% cut out pursuing other girls so she has absolutely nothing which is a shame because if she wouldn’t have said this I feel like she would be worth it. After lying about something like that I can’t move forward.
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    Originally Posted by keyboardworkout View Post
    Admit nothing, deny everything, make counter accusations.
    Past that point. Walked away from her accusations. Don’t need to defend myself to an ex.
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    Emotional cheating IS cheating. Probably more detrimental than having sex with someone.

    x2 if she's your ex, who cares. Go NC.
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    Originally Posted by MuzzieChik786 View Post
    Emotional cheating IS cheating. Probably more detrimental than having sex with someone.

    x2 if she's your ex, who cares. Go NC.
    Was none of that either. Have gone NC. Expecting a novel in a few days. How she operates lol.
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