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    Question girl says shes not ready for a relationship?

    So met a new girl recently, been on 2 dates so far. Made my moves to not get friendzoned; held hands, kissed, put my arms around her etc etc
    so I asked her to be my valentines day date she agrees but seemed hesitant.
    After 2 days she texts me that she isn't ready to be in a relationship and she's busy with school and want to focus on that. I tell her that's fine and asked her if she still wants to meet, then she texts me " I'm free all next week we can meet sure "

    did me asking her to be my valentine push her away a bit? me coming on too strong, after only 2 dates? she is still texting me as normal and all that, i.e. no blunt short responses and replies to all my texts. So where do I go with this new girl brahs?
    only been texting her 1.5 weeks lol
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    She left off two words boyo.


    She's not ready for a relationship....with you.
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    Originally Posted by Ck4288 View Post
    She left off two words boyo.


    She's not ready for a relationship....with you.
    yup I mean I only know her like a week and a half, so did me asking her to be my valentine make me come on too strong?
    recently broke up with ex gf So dating again and in the game haha.
    Also she says she is free to meet me next week? and I've made moves in both dates and we kissed on the end of the second date.
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    Well you never asked her to be in a relationship so just shrug it off as if nothing happened and continue to go on dates and escalate.
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    Originally Posted by skinnyfat88 View Post
    Well you never asked her to be in a relationship so just shrug it off as if nothing happened and continue to go on dates and escalate.
    exactly, BTW i took you guys advice with my ex gf, and blocked her on all social media.
    She's only 18 so maybe she thought me asking her to be my valentine meant that I'm asking her for a relationship? also I kissed her on the end of the second date, i.e. last time I saw her and she kissed me back, so I'm sure she's not lost interest so far. literally never mentioned to be in a relationship once lol.
    like I said I only got her number on the 1st of Feb and already been on 2 dates so it's super early days.
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    why did she even assume you already want a relationship? Are you clingy as fuarck?
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    Originally Posted by randomuser12345 View Post
    why did she even assume you already want a relationship? Are you clingy as fuarck?
    nah she texts me I text her, I don't say I love her or any chit, and I'm kinda douchy and arrogant hardly a clingy beta lol. Sometimes say cheesy lines like "I'll make you happy everyday" just flirting tho haha. but nah not clingy I don't think.
    the texts literally went:
    Her: We will have to talk about valentines day when I get home hun"
    me: "yahh we shall plan our valentines day <3 "
    Her: "it's not about that, I thought about it for a long time and I don't think I'm ready for a relationship right now There's too much stuff going on right now and I need to focus on college"
    me: "would you still want to meet me?"
    her: "I'm free all next week so sure "
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    Sounds like she wants more time on the cock carousel and thinks doing V-Day with you is a deeper commitment and she doesn't want to lead you on, but still likes hanging out with you and is mildly interested.
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    She's getting dinked down by another or multiple other dudes. Sad but true. On to the next one op unless you don't mind having her once a week for yourself after she's done getting dinked down by another dude.
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    Originally Posted by Ck4288 View Post
    She left off two words boyo.


    She's not ready for a relationship....with you.
    This.



    OP a girl literally just told you she isn't interested and you're still going?

    Move on to another girl. You can do it.
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    ^^^ What Zackad said

    Sounds like she likes you but also likes other dick she's getting so saying "i'm not ready for a relationship" is her hamster-wheel way of shrugging guilt.
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    Originally Posted by DanSDA View Post
    nah she texts me I text her, I don't say I love her or any chit, and I'm kinda douchy and arrogant hardly a clingy beta lol. Sometimes say cheesy lines like "I'll make you happy everyday" just flirting tho haha. but nah not clingy I don't think.
    the texts literally went:
    Her: We will have to talk about valentines day when I get home hun"
    me: "yahh we shall plan our valentines day <3 "
    Her: "it's not about that, I thought about it for a long time and I don't think I'm ready for a relationship right now There's too much stuff going on right now and I need to focus on college"
    me: "would you still want to meet me?"
    her: "I'm free all next week so sure "
    few things OP:

    - kissing doesn't really mean much. girls will kiss damn near anybody. that's a fact. did you push for more? did you feel and grab around, make moves (gripping dat ass while grazing the coochie a bit, dat body, her neck) to gauge where she was at with you in terms of sexual interest/attraction? Girls will give free kisses, but they don't just let anyone (guys she's not interested in fuking) go touching around.

    - you are definitely beta in your responses. and texting her "i'll make you happy everyday" is just sad, lmao. jesus.

    - "hun" ? ....that's where i'm like "nah i'm good luv, you can leave. "

    idk about anyone else, but if a girl calls you "hun"...it's over imo. she's not interested, you're a child to her. idk i associate the word with older women saying that to a child. girls don't go calling their man, or the man they're fuking, or wanting to fuk, "hun". just how i feel.

    OP, as someone else posted above, she's not interested in a relationship with you. stop wasting your time, move on.
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    Originally Posted by Ck4288 View Post
    She's not ready for a relationship....with you.
    This.

    It has nothing to do with the Valentine's day comments. Miscers overindex on this stuff.
    If she liked you enough (vs. other potentials), she would've excitedly accepted your Valentine's proposal.

    You can get away with saying almost anything to a woman that really likes you.
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    when women tell me they arn't looking for a relationship I offer up FWB's.
    she isn't agreeable to that?
    why am I even talking to her? LOL!


    you did nothing wrong opie, she just isn't that into you.
    Oh and FYI, i'd bet money she won't be sitting home alone on V-day.

    time to move on.
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    Is there some flaw in my personality that is turning her off? Even my ex said she didn't like me, like with this new chick I was being myself 100% of the time not pretending to be someone I'm not. I'm dates I crack jokes, talk tons, try and have a good time and make the girl smile too; I'm never serious and laugh tons. That's how I am so I act like that. Am I supposed to change my personality to get women?
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    Originally Posted by DanSDA View Post
    Is there some flaw in my personality that is turning her off? Even my ex said she didn't like me, like with this new chick I was being myself 100% of the time not pretending to be someone I'm not. I'm dates I crack jokes, talk tons, try and have a good time and make the girl smile too; I'm never serious and laugh tons. That's how I am so I act like that. Am I supposed to change my personality to get women?
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    With a sample size of two, you can't derive anything useful. If 5-10 women say exactly the same thing, then you might consider it.

    And never say stuff like "I'll make you happy everyday" to some new girl -- you are the prize, not her. Never pander.
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    Originally Posted by Luc1fer View Post
    With a sample size of two, you can't derive anything useful. If 5-10 women say exactly the same thing, then you might consider it.

    And never say stuff like "I'll make you happy everyday" to some new girl -- you are the prize, not her. Never pander.
    I say cheesy things sometimes lol I didn't mean it just said it in a joking manner haha.
    But this new chick still texts me and all that and seems interested, have only known her barely 2 weeks.
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    Originally Posted by Ck4288 View Post
    She left off two words boyo.


    She's not ready for a relationship....with you.
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    Originally Posted by DanSDA View Post
    Is there some flaw in my personality that is turning her off? Even my ex said she didn't like me, like with this new chick I was being myself 100% of the time not pretending to be someone I'm not. I'm dates I crack jokes, talk tons, try and have a good time and make the girl smile too; I'm never serious and laugh tons. That's how I am so I act like that. Am I supposed to change my personality to get women?
    I'm super talkative and chatty
    Always be yourself op, if they don’t like it then on to the next one that does, personally I wouldn’t ask a girl to be my valentine after such a short period, nor would I say I’d make her happy everyday even jokingly. But honestly, women are always up for a relationship with the right guy, for her you aren’t that guy, doesn’t mean you aren’t good enough for her, just means for some reason she doesn’t see a relationship with you; but it’s been such a short time as well. So you’re giving off a vibe that screams relationship, women want their freedom. The relationship has to be their idea.
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    Originally Posted by backinthegymbro View Post
    Not ready to be in a relationship = i want to continue riding multiple dinks.
    That is not the typical case.
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    Originally Posted by Luc1fer View Post
    That is not the typical case.
    Not sure why miscers always jumps to that conclusion.
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    Not ready for a relationship is girl code. See also “I’m too busy.”

    I don’t care how many dates you have or have not been on, no girl is going to pass up spending Valentine’s Day (one of the days they most live for on the calendar) with someone they really like.

    They will even spend it with someone they kind of like if it means not being home alone that day.

    At least OP is now aware that he isn’t at the top of the list and can pull back his interactions with her.

    That being said, why would OP want to be her valentine this early? That a huge expense for a third date. Every venue has inflated prices and you have to spend money on other extraneous chit like flowers and chocolates.

    Is OP at that point where he is sure she is worth all that? Of course not.
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    Originally Posted by DanielleGreen View Post
    Not sure why miscers always jumps to that conclusion.
    Always assume the worst until you are at a point where you can start assuming the best. That’s my philosophy. Haha
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    This exact thing happened with me and my wife. We kept dating and she changed her mind. She had just gotten out of a relationship that ended badly though.
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    considering valentines is on a Friday and she said free "next week" you're kinda screwed here OP. you're 23 and you want something legit and she's 18 and probably has somebody else she's seeing for valentine's just being honest. I don't usually say that kinda thing either, I tend to give the benefit of the doubt more than others on this forum.

    if I were you I would completely STFU and say absolutely nothing until she reaches out next. take several steps back.
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    Originally Posted by DanielleGreen View Post
    Not sure why miscers always jumps to that conclusion.
    "red pilled"

    Originally Posted by AlexNYC7 View Post
    Always assume the worst until you are at a point where you can start assuming the best. That’s my philosophy. Haha
    Bad philosophy, you should assume the highest probability scenario.

    Originally Posted by radrd View Post
    This exact thing happened with me and my wife. We kept dating and she changed her mind. She had just gotten out of a relationship that ended badly though.
    What was her explanation?
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    Originally Posted by Ck4288 View Post
    She left off two words boyo.


    She's not ready for a relationship....with you.
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    Originally Posted by Luc1fer View Post

    Bad philosophy, you should assume the highest probability scenario.
    Yes, with those people in your life you know and trust.

    After 2 dates, a girl you barely know doesn’t owe you the truth.
    Believing she is seeing someone on Valentine’s Day besides OP isn’t a bad assumption right now.
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