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    Is it normal to still get upset about a failed relationship? (Srs)

    i wasn't with my GF for that long...less than a year and she broke up with me a while ago yet still to this day i get a bit sad about it.

    I struggled for a long time after we broke up but i've since then made an active effort to keep myself moving forward e.g. when i think about her i try and distract myself and no longer look at her social media and try and keep myself distracted/think about other stuff.

    But i'm not going to lie i still get a bit sad about it. And i still kinda miss her deep down. Just wondering if that's a normal thing? She was my first ever girlfriend.

    I've learnt so much and i know exactly what i did wrong in the relationship. I could list all the things i did wrong and wish i did differently.

    But deep down i sometimes stilll get a bit sad about it and it makes me sad. She was a good girlfriend, and i loved her and loved spending time with her and i took it all for granted.

    Is it normal to still get these thoughts? Makes me depressed and i get really dissapointed in myself . I bang other girls from tinder, and meet girls out and stuff but it just doesn't really feel the same. I know deep down too i don't think i'll ever get that feeling i had with her. I guess that's life.

    What can you do?


    edit; i guess what i miss the most is just caring for someone/hugging her/ making her laugh / being with her etc. For me, it gets real tiring banging tinder girls and prostitutes and i try and forget her but it's just not the same. Just that feeling when i'd see her and her face would light up and smile like i was brad pitt. It was the best feeling brahs
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    When you are younger yes. When you are older absolutely not. They are all replaceable is the lesson we all learn.
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    Originally Posted by A-man View Post
    When you are younger yes. When you are older absolutely not. They are all replaceable is the lesson we all learn.
    But are they really? I've been with other girls but just never really feels the same??
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    Depends on why you guys broke up
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    Yes, my ex broke up with me Nay if 2018, haven’t had another gf. I still care and think about her regularly and the breakup still upsets me a little on very rare occasions now. I’m only upset because I could’ve been a better boyfriend and could’ve prevented it.
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    that's life son

    i don't think the thoughts ever go away, they just become a lot less frequent but when they do pop up..feelsbadman
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    Originally Posted by Coolman468 View Post
    Yes, my ex broke up with me Nay if 2018, haven’t had another gf. I still care and think about her regularly and the breakup still upsets me a little on very rare occasions now. I’m only upset because I could’ve been a better boyfriend and could’ve prevented it.
    Yep that's exactly how i feel brah. I was a ****ty boyfriend and took her for granted. and it wasn't until i started dating other girls i realized how good she was.

    Originally Posted by deltakappabrah View Post
    that's life son

    i don't think the thoughts ever go away, they just become a lot less frequent but when they do pop up..feelsbadman
    Dam man, i think i'm resigning to the fact i'll always think about her. I try my best to distract myself when thoughts come but it's hard. She had such a unique laugh and way of talking. She would do this little nervous giggle after each sentence. It was very cute and would make me laugh.

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