Marrying a single mother?

[KirkMcquest]

Of course, everyone she's been with is "abusive". Ive never met a divorced/separated single mom who didnt say her ex was "abusive". The ex was always a bastard of some kind. Its never her fault. She was a great wife.

[GordonXXX]

is this tom leykis? lmao


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don't shoot the messenger.

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[Jms89]

Re-read your post to yourself 10 times and let me know if it still sounds like a good idea.

[SwimToTheMoon]

Why did you only list the cons? Are there any pros?

[Hutrapper]

Questions:

1. What kind of mental illness? Like, organizes her socks by size and color, yells random stuff at dinner parties, hears voices, or just your general run of the mill anxiety or panic attacks every so often?
2. Is she a demon in the sack?

[DSTEE]

is this tom leykis? lmao


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Lmfao, always lol when autistic miscers give that fat ugly geezer any credibility. He has never gotten close to anyone above 2/10 and is just coping by acting tough. You know how fat ugly females cock block their friends when they get hit on when going out? He is the male version of that.





Also the real life version of the boomer meme

[Visel]

Only would consider it if she herself had a fantastic income, was attractive, seemed financially sound (little to no debt, didn't go to restaurants every day and buy chit), etc. But even then I'd have a rough time doing it if I didn't also have a little kid of my own or something (which I don't).

[VeganBrahh]

No problem with the kid.

Major problem with mental illness.

This, people have previous lives so the kid shouldnt really be an issue

[cncman]

Being with a woman with mental illness is inherently self-abuse, don't do it.

[nosirrahx]

When I was a single father, I wouldn't date single mothers. Some guys have luck with it, but I was never going down that road.

Brb wrecking the kid again when you break up

Brb always 2nd class citizen because of the kid

When I was a single father (of 2) not only did I not date single mothers, they didn't want anything to do with me. They seemed annoyed at the prospect of doing family stuff and just wanted to get away from their kid to party.

I did date 1 single mother and she was a real piece of work.

BRB saw kid 4 days a week and 2 of those days she pawned her kid off to her parents.
BRB I was with both of my kids 24/7 and she still bitched about being with her kid twice a week.
BRB needed this extra time to go out with the girls 5 nights a week.
BRB after we broke up she contacted me not once, not twice, not 3 times but 4 different times wanting me to send her $.

Spoiler!

I not only didn't send $, I did not even reply to her message

[aleeboy]

Yes, 5'5 manlet. I met him back in May,

He's in another relationship now and his girlfriend recently gave birth earlier this year. You could see the depression on his face.

Your potential future step son will be a manlet. You ok with this?

Apart from the above, other notable re flags include: she must have a bad personality to be abused, she must have a bad attitude to be abuses, she got knocked up at 16.

You know what to do

[GordonXXX]

Only would consider it if she herself had a fantastic income, was attractive, seemed financially sound (little to no debt, didn't go to restaurants every day and buy chit), etc. But even then I'd have a rough time doing it if I didn't also have a little kid of my own or something (which I don't).

baby at 16 - probably just barely scraping by and looking for a beta cuck provider. no thanks.

[Ilikebeef]

Its all been said but lets make a list, pros and cons. Lets start with cons...


Always second class citizen with the kid
Unless you want to knock her up too, whats the point of this baggage
She shows bad decision making skills over a long term, getting pregnant and choosing men
Everyone abuses her! she is so unlucky... Or is it that when she gets mean she enrages people to violence or cheats etc
An admitted mental illness making the prior point more likely.
Baby daddy still around, and issues with money, sounds like fun to be a part of.

Pros:

You get to smash.
let me know if there are other pros...



I mean, if she is a goddess that loves to drain your balls constantly I can understand but if not....

[SomaliGirl]

Miscers demonise single mothers but don’t paint them all with the same brush, not all are trash that were sleeping around with any chad and tyrone. Some are widows, some just fell out of love with their husband etc. Look at her and her circumstances alone. It’s a huge decision to get with a single mother, I know personally I’d be hesitant to get with a single father.

In your case though I’d be a bit wary about the mental illness part.

[hoganrulz]

Miscers demonise single mothers but don’t paint them all with the same brush, not all are trash that were sleeping around with any chad and tyrone. Some are widows, some just fell out of love with their husband etc. Look at her and her circumstances alone. It’s a huge decision to get with a single mother, I know personally I’d be hesitant to get with a single father.

In your case though I’d be a bit wary about the mental illness part.

I know one girl who is absolutely stacked STACKED that had two kids with her boyfriend in Poland & then moved to England & never told him.

Absolutely dedsrs.

[Muzzlrpress]

Run

[Beararms]

My wife was a single mother when we got together. Mind you the kids were from her previous marriage and had joint custody with the father so he was very involved in their lives. She has an education, has a very good job making six figures and doesnt have any serious baggage that a lot have these days. There are outliers out there. I wouldnt throw them all into the same basket.
We compete together, workout together, shes pushed me to get back into college, study for certs, just a bunch of things I wasnt doing before we got together. Shes been a huge influence for me.

[phaginator]

Lmfao, always lol when autistic miscers give that fat ugly geezer any credibility. He has never gotten close to anyone above 2/10 and is just coping by acting tough. You know how fat ugly females cock block their friends when they get hit on when going out? He is the male version of that.





Also the real life version of the boomer meme

Holy fck, LMFAO!

[MCrow]

Old married dude here.

My wife was neither a single mother nor had/has mental illness. Before I got married I did date a single mom with a kid who , as I found out later, had mental illness. Damn near wrecked me turn me to da gayz. Not srs on gayz part...lol.

Being married to a normal woman is pretty tough sometimes but toss in a kid that's not yours, baby daddy and Mental Mom is going to require a special sort of person willing to take **** and be **** on regularly.

[fknmisc]

There's an exception to every rule but mental disability, previous "abuse", both are already major red flags.. I would stay the **** away

[garthismad]

Not a roll bread.

She got knocked up at 16

She's 27 now.

Few months ago she was complaining about the baby daddy abandoning payments to the son

op my uncle married a single mom 30 years ago and has had a happy fulfilling life. Miscers like to deal in absolutes. Only a syth deals in absolutes..

[BulkingAkaFAT]

Miscers demonise single mothers but don’t paint them all with the same brush, not all are trash that were sleeping around with any chad and tyrone. Some are widows, some just fell out of love with their husband etc. Look at her and her circumstances alone. It’s a huge decision to get with a single mother, I know personally I’d be hesitant to get with a single father.

In your case though I’d be a bit wary about the mental illness part.

I mean that maybe true.

But all my experience with single mothers are;

- Kid goes to dad's multiple times a week, when kids away i get a free house message & go bang.

*Trend - If the kid's Parent's are separated but still communicate & have a good working relationship then carry on. If there's bad blood - AVOID. They end up blaming males for everything & slowly turn into this *Feminist wave & tours over* But will continue to take Cawk every single chance they get.

[JIA]

She will always put her son before you. Why would you want that?

The mental illness and claim of previous abusive relationships are giant red flags. By marrying her you are also forced into a relationship with her ex the son's father. I foresee lots of fights and drama.

Have some self dignity and self respect for ****s sake. Bail.

[Workout4ever]

only reasons to even mildly entertain a single mother:

you're old and have very limited options
you yourself have a kid and are single
she's fine af and lost her husband in war or an accident

[BigTimeOperator]

In on No Hymen, No Diamond and MGTOW thrad.

Women are good actors, especially the ones with baggage. They know how to act like they are loyal and loving and emotionally stable to trap a man, but as soon as you commit and sign that marriage contract, she will slowly start to turn on you and take everything out on you and withold sex as a punishment and to control you and sht test you into oblivion, and blame you for all of it.

[RainingBlood]

Gonna leave you with two quotes, OP.

Birds of a feather flock together.

He who fights with monsters should be careful lest he thereby become a monster.

And if thou gaze long into an abyss, the abyss will also gaze into thee.

Be careful that her habits don't replace yours. **** her long enough and you will be ****ed.

[sg1976]

Single mother - 1 son, 10 years old.

Previous partner was abusive

Dad to her son was also abusive

She has a tattoo - back of her neck

Has a mental illness

Worth the trouble or not?

Yes wife immediately

[GravityLee]

Not a roll bread.

She got knocked up at 16

She's 27 now.

Few months ago she was complaining about the baby daddy abandoning payments to the son

Hmm

Yeah mentally ill previously abused women with 10 year olds make the best wives. If you let this angel leave your life then you didnt deserve her OP.

This but obv youre gonna find out the hard way

[Mike86er]

op my uncle married a single mom 30 years ago and has had a happy fulfilling life. Miscers like to deal in absolutes. Only a syth deals in absolutes..

Did you miss the part where he listed nearly every major red flag possible? Forget the single mother part, it’s that other chit he needs to run a mile from.

[Tornach]

OP is about to bump Gmiscer from his top spot.