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    Originally Posted by snailsrus View Post
    married and it’s just Christmas, if you care about someone you should want them to be happy. How is it a good Christmas to be driving 4 plus hours to have to go home alone at like 8 and spend the night alone. :/ after stressing and trying to impress your gf’s dad? I’d feel guilty, if he could spend the night or she was going home with op it would be different or if op was staying at his family’s house
    Exactly. If you care about someone you want them to be happy.
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    So you made plans with you gf to spend Christmas with her and her family and then last minute you cancel and somehow this is her fault?

    I'm surprised she didn't end it there and then like she should have.
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    Originally Posted by Sandmang27 View Post
    So you made plans with you gf to spend Christmas with her and her family and then last minute you cancel and somehow this is her fault?

    I'm surprised she didn't end it there and then like she should have.
    Well She just texted me. Her job is having a big holiday masquerade on Friday and I’m her date. She said she had the masks delivered to my house (she was supposed to get ready here) and to keep an eye out for it so she can come get them.
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    One of the times I actually agree with the broad in this circumstance. OP you fuked up on this one.
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    Originally Posted by Mr Beer View Post
    Not going is OK.

    Saying you're going to go, getting her all excited about showing you off to her family for the first time, getting her excited about this step which shows the relationship is going somewhere and then casually blowing her off 2 weeks before Christmas to go hang out with your friend...is not OK.
    This.

    You made plans to take a huge step in your relationship and then backed out because for no good reason other than inconvenience of driving (which you knew of beforehand).

    In her mind she is probably playing out all the important scenarios you might bail from in the future and seriously questions your commitment to the relationship.
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    yea you're an idiot and completely in the wrong. she told her whole family you're coming and you bail last minute to go on vacation with your friend? LMAO. 2hrs each way isn't even that bad to drive for someone you care about on a holiday. i do it for family all the time.

    why wouldnt you just get a cheap hotel if you're so concerned about the drive?...
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    Also, OP not wanting to drive for 4 hours but has no issue taking two 6 hour flights cross country is hilarious.
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    If you are not that into meeting her family, then she probably isn’t the right girl for you, and you probably aren’t that into her anyway.
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    Originally Posted by dannmann1992 View Post
    So my girlfriend and I had a huge fight days ago.

    We had planned almost a month ago for me to spend Christmas with her and her family. This would be our first Christmas together and the first time I would be meeting her family. I took her to get some drinks and told her that I needed to tell her something- that I would be going to stay with my friend in NYC from the 23rd-26th (my family lives on the West Coast). She got super pissed. I knew she would be upset but to be pissed seems like an overreaction. I told her the reason why I wouldn't be spending Christmas with her and her family is because her mother is religious and wouldn't want me spending the night so I would have drive down there that day and drive back later. I'm not driving 2 hours to and from, especially on Christmas. I told her I thought this was petty. She flipped tf out. Like REALLY flipped out. She kept saying how I knew spending Christmas together was important to her and how embarrassing it is that her entire family knew I was coming and now how I'm not coming all because I didn't feel like driving down. Then she went on about how what is her mother going to think of me now before she's even met me because I'm no longer coming for Christmas for a stupid reason (not stupid to me). Then she go up, left, got her stuff, and went back home. I tried to go after but she whipped around and told me not to follow her and to go to NY. I haven't heard from her since and it's been days. I've been giving her her space but she was just so angry and it's been days so I don't know if she's broken up with me.

    All in all, I feel like she really overreacted.
    Horrible choice OP.


    You made plans with her, and the reason you backed out is because you couldn't be bothered to drive 2 hours to spend your first Christmas together?

    Bad.
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