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    Girlfriend watched porn with past partners but doest watch with me

    So the topic of porn has come up before where she explicitly mentioned that she used to watch it a lot when she was younger. And also has watched it with her previous partners (She claims im her first bf) . When I brought it up the first time, she was on the phone for a hour while I was looking for videos and I got kinda pissed and left because it felt like she wasnt into it. She knew this bothered me. The second time we were sitting watching TV and I suggested we watch porn to which she replied no, im not interested in that anymore. I dug a bit more and she said she would watch it because of me but thats all. lol Is it right that I feel offended?
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    Personally I think it's pretty weird to watch porn with a partner, I see it as a substitute to having actual sex.

    So from my point of view, maybe she actually kind of matured.
    Why do you wanna watch porn with her anyway? She doesn't do it for you and you wanna be watching someone else?
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    Originally Posted by thegra View Post
    Personally I think it's pretty weird to watch porn with a partner, I see it as a substitute to having actual sex.

    So from my point of view, maybe she actually kind of matured.
    Why do you wanna watch porn with her anyway? She doesn't do it for you and you wanna be watching someone else?
    well shes mentioned a few kinks and I feel like it would be easier to bring up. Also I haven't done it before and wanted to try it, she knew that. I just feel like the way she put it was a bit disrespectful considering shes done it with others, and never felt not interested and now all of a sudden with me she says that? Also I dont think she matured enough in one year to not even want to try it with me.
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    Maybe she thinks you have potential for a long-term relationship.
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    I mean, she tried it and realized she's not interested in it, that's what I mean by matured and not actual age. I don't think it has to do with you specifically, probably over analyzing things.

    If you are doing well with each other sexually otherwise, I wouldn't care much about it but that's just me.
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    Not comfortable with you.

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    Originally Posted by drvillain View Post
    Not comfortable with you.

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    See I cant buy that because I know she used to be very insecure about certain things, like she never had oral done on her. And I did that, and she loved it.
    Thats what I don't get, why would she be comfortable with doing things like this with previous partners when they didn't even return the favor nor were her bf. And with me shes comfortable with all that but cant do this?..
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    Originally Posted by killerz_land View Post
    See I cant buy that because I know she used to be very insecure about certain things, like she never had oral done on her. And I did that, and she loved it.
    Thats what I don't get, why would she be comfortable with doing things like this with previous partners when they didn't even return the favor nor were her bf. And with me shes comfortable with all that but cant do this?..
    Well if she said she wouldn’t watch it because of you then what do you think it is.
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    Originally Posted by killerz_land View Post
    See I cant buy that because I know she used to be very insecure about certain things, like she never had oral done on her. And I did that, and she loved it.
    Thats what I don't get, why would she be comfortable with doing things like this with previous partners when they didn't even return the favor nor were her bf. And with me shes comfortable with all that but cant do this?..
    So your GF doesn't want to watch porn anymore because it probably does nothing for her, and now, you basically want to make her watch porn with you.

    WTF is the matter with you... She probably did things with others because they were not acting like you are. Some of the crap I read on here...
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    Lol can’t believe you made a thread on this. It’s porn , who cares, if she wasn’t willing to go on dates with you and spend time then that’s a problem. You need to be better than this man.
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    Originally Posted by Coolman468 View Post
    Lol can’t believe you made a thread on this. It’s porn , who cares, if she wasn’t willing to go on dates with you and spend time then that’s a problem. You need to be better than this man.
    OPs ego is bruised because she did it with other men and not him. This isn’t about porn really.
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    Originally Posted by killerz_land View Post
    well shes mentioned a few kinks and I feel like it would be easier to bring up. Also I haven't done it before and wanted to try it, she knew that. I just feel like the way she put it was a bit disrespectful considering shes done it with others, and never felt not interested and now all of a sudden with me she says that? Also I dont think she matured enough in one year to not even want to try it with me.
    How is the rest of the relationship? What it could be was that she tried it and wasn't into it and she is just being honest with you. There are things I've done in my past relationship I won't do in my future relationship just because it didn't work so I wouldn't make a huge fuss about it. Have you been in a relationship before? I'm sure there are things you have done that you wouldn't do again in your future relationship. I agree with the other poster on why do you want to watch it with her anyways.
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    Knows she doesn't really want to but is willing to try to please you.

    So she's compromising.

    What's the problem?
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    Originally Posted by drvillain View Post
    OPs ego is bruised because she did it with other men and not him. This isn’t about porn really.
    Yeah probably is tbh. In my head if I had casually mentioned before that hey I used to love eating ass, and I have done it with past partners. And when she asked me to do it, I just shut her down and reply in a lame way like meh I'm just not interested anymore, and I would do it but only if you wanted (who would enjoy that anyway, if the other partner isn't). I think she would feel weird.
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    Originally Posted by killerz_land View Post
    Yeah probably is tbh. In my head if I had casually mentioned before that hey I used to love eating ass, and I have done it with past partners. And when she asked me to do it, I just shut her down and reply in a lame way like meh I'm just not interested anymore, and I would do it but only if you wanted (who would enjoy that anyway, if the other partner isn't). I think she would feel weird.
    I get it. I’d probably be a little salty too.
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    Here's what you do OP, you get a huge mirror and you set it up near your bed so you can get a nice side view of yourself banging her. She doesn't really have an option not to watch if she's facing the mirror in doggy.
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    Maybe she thinks you have potential for a long-term relationship.
    This probably, the other guys were sexual objects and she wanted them to sexually objectivity her.

    She sees you as longer term potential, and not just a sex toy. Take that however you wish.
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