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    Cool Advice on one night stands

    So just wanted to get opinions from other people and where there take is on it.
    Im a pretty boy sitting at 5'5 so i guess im doing okay in the looks department. Now i've been offered one night stands on several occasions but have always turned it down. Not to sound like a bitch or anything but i need a little bit of synergy before i just have at it. This chick recently just unmatched me on tinder cause i guess i didnt want to bang her straight away (literally 5minutes after we matched lol). With my experience with girls they have always been the same where they are just horny and mindless and want to act before we talk. Any ideas why im attracting these girls?
    Im still a virgin if that makes a difference?
    Whats your thoughts on one-night-stands without emotional attachments?
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    One night stands are just that; one-night-stand. It's you guys meeting up, having a small drink, before fuking and then forgetting each other like it never happened. Usually for people who just want to fuk without any attachment and/or personal communication. If you want an attachment emotionally while also fuking, what you want is an FWB not an ONS. I had my first ONS a couple of months ago, we met - we smashed and then she unmatched on tinder like an hour later, was sort of confused but then got the memo.
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    Don't eat her out (you're not the only guy she has one night stands with), wear a condom (don't trust her if she says she's on the pill, also STD risks)
    And don't get emotionally attached after busting your nut.
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    Just go with the flow and let it happen with no expectations, it's really that simple. You shouldn't catch feelings for a ONS tbh and you're hesitating cause you're a virgin and you're insecure about your performance in bed.
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    Originally Posted by ChangeOfStyle View Post
    One night stands are just that; one-night-stand. It's you guys meeting up, having a small drink, before fuking and then forgetting each other like it never happened. Usually for people who just want to fuk without any attachment and/or personal communication. If you want an attachment emotionally while also fuking, what you want is an FWB not an ONS. I had my first ONS a couple of months ago, we met - we smashed and then she unmatched on tinder like an hour later, was sort of confused but then got the memo.
    Or maybe a girlfriend? lol Why does everyone just jump to FWB nowadays? Ugh. Take me back to when relationships were the norm, not fuk buddies.
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    Do it at their place and after she falls asleep/goes to shower take some of her/her families DVD's...I had 3 DVD copies and 2 Blu Rays of Casino Royale at one point before giving them away to friends.
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    Originally Posted by Legz422 View Post
    Or maybe a girlfriend? lol Why does everyone just jump to FWB nowadays? Ugh. Take me back to when relationships were the norm, not fuk buddies.
    Depends on his age, most blokes who are single don't want that type of emotional connection yet. I, myself am honestly on the side of both the lines and don't even know what the fuk I want anymore but in his case I offered an FWB because he still wants that slight emotional attachment whilst also constant fuking around. If he said he was ready to settle down with someone regarding a serious relationship then I would definitely tell him to find a girl he can connect with, share a spark with and ignite that into a sincere relationship but he hasn't stated that, he just said why an ONS doesn't have any emotional attachments.
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    Originally Posted by ChangeOfStyle View Post
    Depends on his age, most blokes who are single don't want that type of emotional connection yet. I, myself am honestly on the side of both the lines and don't even know what the fuk I want anymore but in his case I offered an FWB because he still wants that slight emotional attachment whilst also constant fuking around. If he said he was ready to settle down with someone regarding a serious relationship then I would definitely tell him to find a girl he can connect with, share a spark with and ignite that into a sincere relationship but he hasn't stated that, he just said why an ONS doesn't have any emotional attachments.
    I get that, but he didn't say he just wants to fuk around. You don't have to jump into a relationship immediately, but you could date and then proceed to have sex while continuing to date and see where you want it to go from there. It doesn't have to be just a fuk buddy status.
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    Originally Posted by Legz422 View Post
    Or maybe a girlfriend? lol Why does everyone just jump to FWB nowadays? Ugh. Take me back to when relationships were the norm, not fuk buddies.
    I don't get it either. You are literally sharing your partner with someone else. Or getting a ONS maybe a few times per year if you are lucky. FWB is common in your early 20's but 30's wtf
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    If you have to come to the misc for advice on this topic then you have my sympathy

    With that said there is nothing to be ashamed of cause you are not a man whore and don’t go around banging random sloots

    That’s actually commendable and pretty smart on your part considering the std epidemic.

    Find you a good woman OP and go tjaat route

    But at the same time there is nothing wrong with going out and finding a hot chic that’s down to go home with you. Just choose your actions well and be safe and have fun.

    It’s really that simple and never give your heart or emotions to a chick that bangs you on the first night

    Such behavior is usually repeated
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    Originally Posted by Legz422 View Post
    Or maybe a girlfriend? lol Why does everyone just jump to FWB nowadays? Ugh. Take me back to when relationships were the norm, not fuk buddies.
    Since you don't engage in ONS, you of all people shouldn't even be giving advice.

    And also maybe he's a young guy (probably late teens - early 20s) that wants a female friend without the commitment.
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    You are gonna look back and wish you had those one night stands.
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    Depends on whether being a virgin or inexperienced is a monkey on your back. Given you created this thread, I’m assuming you aren’t into ONS (they are disgusting I agree, no two ways about it), but are considering it to lose your virginity or gain experience?
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    Originally Posted by BlackScorpio91 View Post
    Since you don't engage in ONS, you of all people shouldn't even be giving advice.

    And also maybe he's a young guy (probably late teens - early 20s) that wants a female friend without the commitment.
    I've had a couple ONS in my life so I can speak from experience. Casual sex with a rando will never beat sex with someone you have a connection and feelings with. OP did not say he wants a fuk buddy. Sounds more to me like he'd rather wait for someone he has feelings for.
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    Well for starters you need to stop being insecure about your Penis to have a ONS
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    A one night stand doesn’t have to be disgusting, ****ty or disrespectful. Two people can share a moment which involves feeling another’s body. Sex makes people feel good and if it’s with someone fun then go for it if that’s what you’d like.
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    Originally Posted by dolvioblue View Post
    A one night stand doesn’t have to be disgusting, ****ty or disrespectful. Two people can share a moment which involves feeling another’s body. Sex makes people feel good and if it’s with someone fun then go for it if that’s what you’d like.
    It doesn't have to be necessarily, but you have no idea if that person had sex with another person just hours beforehand.
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    Originally Posted by Luc1fer View Post
    It doesn't have to be necessarily, but you have no idea if that person had sex with another person just hours beforehand.
    And if they did, how does that affect the current one night stand you would be engaging in? I can’t imagine too many decent people having back to back hookups.
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